My brother it is good for you o... with women there’s no peace of mind and focus *note*

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

Op is it that you are not making the move to get yourself one or the girls are not given you attention or may be your financial standing is your greatest nightmare? According to my grandma, there are some men that do experience open doors once they get married that no matter how hard they tried before marriage, things would not just fall in place. I don't really know much about this line of thought

TonyeBarcanista:
What you need is a job or a trade not a girlfriend.

Having a girlfriend comes with its own financial burden, and should you not be able to meet due to financial state, you will be disrespected and treated like thrash by the said GF. It is not worth your worry!

Hustle, get on your feet! Get something to give you regular income, plan your future and then you can start thinking of GF.

omo na u talk pass.u b real gee

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CsRockefeller:


Now, he's 29, his Finances haven't changed for the better, he's lonely and craves for a feminine touch, he's afraid he may die broke and lonely.

Statistically, he stands a better chance getting a lady than a job, so, he decides to go get a lady to make him happy, even if it's for a while.

Can we truly fault this guy sincerely?

You will make a good businessman. Thought process is clear!

kneehighbootz:
OP, please ignore everybody and do what you want to do. Get a girlfriend. Money really isn't everything.

Sometimes you just need someone to talk to and someone that cares about you. Maybe the idea you need to move forward is in this person. You'll never know until you try.

So go get a girlfriend and enjoy love and being loved.

PS: please don't trade up for a newer model after you've 'made' it o or else, it's a special thunder that will fire you!

I'm kidding. lol. I wish you well, OP

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

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At 29 I experienced the same too. Jobless and even d girl I had left

No long story.... If u cant get a job learn a hand work of ur choice.......
If a lady sees u learning they will start qeueing for u....
Do this and thank me later....

You see

One dangerous rhetoric peddled here is worrisome

That one must go and "make it" first before even thinking about women

This mentality is among the factors sinking our country

but you are fucking. then why the worry

efficiencie:
This is the time to find a lady who will HELP you in your current situation - after all this is the purpose of a woman in a man's life, right? A lady who is not useful when you are struggling will pull you down when you finally make it...This is the time to find a wife and not a girl. Girls are abundant but wives are very rare these days!

Make una tell am. The boy must have met at least 3 wife material girls, but his heart is set on the magazine type of girl.

Let me start by saying: Not all good things are favorable.

- A bottle of wine is good for the belly, but two or more; may not be favorable.
- A beautiful woman with the beauty of an Egyptian goddess is good for any man, but may not be favorable.

If his instincts are telling him to find a wife - let him search in that direction. However, let him know that he should seek is a favorable union.

Life is deep, and it is undoubtedly spiritual. Sometimes you find yourself, making the same mistake over and over again. Struggling to change habits, struggling to make millions.

Yet all you needed was a wife!

Women often come with change. Many a time, all a man needed was someone or something to fight for; other times someone who prays for his safe return from a hard day at work.

If you think you have no job, and thus cannot fend for nor feed an extra mouth - you are right.
If you think money will solve most of the problems you encounter in life - you could be said to be right.

Cpaul47:

Better days ahead at age 29

Anything can happen sir. Men don't get old in terms of marriage

GrossPrice:


You will make a good businessman. Thought process is clear!

Thanks for the compliment Sir.

iLegendd:


That particular hole is a private investment. An unmarried woman's own is a public investment.

Think about it, Honey.

Assuming I'm unmarried is unwise of you. Public investment, my foot. Tell that to the females who fawn over you.

YorubaKing:
Go brothel (Empire, Jolly friends etc..) go find ashana now... N500 - N1K would do the magic... Thank me later.

Where empire dey? Bro

Daniel058:
learn how to trade Forex while you search for job ..

Forest is synonymous to gamble

AwkaetitiBabe:
Thought its only women who go desperate for companions. The op should put everything to God. He's just 29, I have seen mid 30s men who don't even know their left from their right.

men are more desperate than women when it comes to settling down. the only different is that men do not show their desperation as compare to the women. and the very common cause of delay in men is FINANCE. while women have too many reasons for theirs.

So far u are a graduate, there's no way u won't find something doing If u are not lazy .
I will categorically tell u that majority of nairalanders are hustlers and are eke out living with nobody or any government intervention.
Private schools are there, to share with little ones at least what u ve learnt in the university.
If since 2017 after NYSC u are singing no job or no means of eke out a living, it shows u are definitely not serious
Pls don't ever try having any girlfriend for now until u find something doing, or else the kind insult u will receive is warming up in d land of no mercy. my take.

fireback:
men are more desperate than women when it comes to settling down. the only different is that men do not show their desperation as compare to the women. and the very common cause of delay in men is FINANCE. while women have too many reasons for theirs.

Cool. Thx

AuroraB:
Assuming I'm unmarried is unwise of you. Public investment, my foot. Tell that to the females who fawn over you.

Oh, I get it. Enjoy.

Kestolove:
A jobless man should not be bleeping

You are wrong bro

Brother you have low self esteem. Do ladies need money to make friend with them. A serious wife material will not demand money from you or make it a priority. Try and work on your self image. Start with friendship with ladies. Greet them ask about their welfare, be caring in your approach and show more concern and you have more than enough of them

eni4real:
"And the truth is a woman will always misbehave towards you whether you are feeding and clothing her or not"
Please, why do you people normally act like that??

its love. If you have a child, won't the child be rude to you at a point in time?
But the child still loves you as his/her parents

dimexy247:
O deep but the truth is nobody actually gives a fucck about anyone, everyone is just trying to survive and live on, you're the only one that can help yourself, it's either you keep fighting and trying or you surrender and settle for less. That's it. Life fuccks us all and that's the ugly truth. Never give up or give up. It's your choice. Set ur priorities right.

Raw truth my brother , no one cares be the nicest man on this world, if you can't take care of some financial issues. Mehn no one will look your side.

Hustle oo make you no come nairaland dey scream lack of girlfriend oo

Get a job, plan your life, your future most especially, you are 29 already, it's woman you are thinking of Chai.. When you get a job job all kinds of women will come..


Do it for yourself not because you want a woman!! Do you like being broke.

Two things are involved, either hug a live transformer or get lost inside the forest or ocean, either way, you're fuccked for the rest of your fuccked life. Idiot.

fergieboy:

no wonder your comment got just 1like

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

Hey, instead of waiting for a job why don't you create one for yourself? We all don't have to go for white collar jobs o, you can have your own thing and still succeed bro.

Chris rock spoke about this
https://twitter.com/AdvBarryRoux/status/1025764626204700672?s=19

CsRockefeller:


Bros let's look at it objectively o.

What if this guy is a need, throughout out his youthful days, he spent his time reading. Got to the University, didn't chase girls, was so focused on his books, graduated with a good grade and at an early age.

After service, had high hopes of getting a decent job, searched, searched and couldn't find any. Even if he found, he found low paying jobs. When he got home frustrated, no one to talk to, no female voice to hear from, the pressures at home is too much, no place to relax or someone to relax with and just tell.him things will be fine.

Now, he's 29, his Finances haven't changed for the better, he's lonely and craves for a feminine touch, he's afraid he may die broke and lonely.

Statistically, he stands a better chance getting a lady than a job, so, he decides to go get a lady to make him happy, even if it's for a while.

Can we truly fault this guy sincerely?

Things are really bad in this country Bros. His Finances may never change and it shouldn't stop him from getting a shot at love, we all deserve someone.

This really got my attention. It is a brutal cold truth. But reading this alone can propel him to change his plan, orientation about job and start doing things differently or start looking into other areas for income.
In agreement with your opinion, I've seen a man who said he delayed getting married because he wanted his financial status to improve. He waited and waited. Bros married at last, many years after that, bros still remains the same. Na bros com regret say he waited in vain. Why im no kuku marry on time