The summary of my submission is this, women are to start preparing early in life to make themselves marriage worthy. This is necessary in order to avoid becoming like a products that is "unsellable"- a product you have to reduce its price and make very cheap to be sold on " promo". The truth is that some women are like products that will never sell even if you place them on permanent " promo".

Ipheeoma24:
Must everything be about marriage in this country imagine i just finished my nysc and my neighbor's r already singing it in my ears none of them have asked me oo what are your dreams and goals especially igbo people I just tire that hw one stupid guy was also telling me that more respect r accorded to married women so if u dey find respect better run go marry ....mental slavery

No kee me with laugh

Ipheeoma24:
Must everything be about marriage in this country imagine i just finished my nysc and my neighbor's r already singing it in my ears none of them have asked me oo what are your dreams and goals especially igbo people I just tire that hw one stupid guy was also telling me that more respect r accorded to married women so if u dey find respect better run go marry ....mental slavery

Abbymart777:
1. So when they are older at 29 or 30 suddenly they realise that time is not on their side and they desperately begin to looking for a man to marry.

2. The man as the male is naturally given the power of "PROPOSAL" while the woman is given the power of " ACCEPTANCE or " REFUSAL" What this means is that the woman by natural design is compelled to wait until a man comes with a marriage proposal before she can marry. While a man may choose the time he desires to marry, a woman must wait for a man to "decide" for her when to marry.

Triniti:
Them use marriage swear for Africa? Nobody talks about self development and how to network for young people.

Ipheeoma24:
Must everything be about marriage in this country imagine i just finished my nysc and my neighbor's r already singing it in my ears none of them have asked me oo what are your dreams and goals especially igbo people I just tire that hw one stupid guy was also telling me that more respect r accorded to married women so if u dey find respect better run go marry ....mental slavery

eyinjuege:


Just go and marry
Marriage is the solution to all your problems in this life . Shikena
I can't cannor laugh abeg

bukatyne:
Teenagers should be prepared for marriage.
They should also be taught and be guided on the journey of self discovery.
That way, they automatically know the spouses food for them.
They marry early, fulfill their dreams and live happily ever after

ireneidiva:

Is this sarcasm?

LilMissFavvy:
Story.....
It is only in Africa that marriage is overrated and the men criticize and scrutinize a woman's age, nonscence. There is nothing wrong with a woman who wants to achieve some of her dreams and marry in her late 20s, 30s or 40s. Singlehood is as sweet as marriage. The problem is not the age of women, the problem is the mentality of the Nigerian man. Our daft mentality should stop dictating to women the ages they should marry.

bukatyne:


@bold:

Don't get it twisted.

You see all the evening newspaper talk our guys do here, they got it from the whites and Africanized it.

LilMissFavvy:
I disagree with you. The whites do not discriminate a woman's age.

bukatyne:


Hahahahahahaha!

Oblige me and read through their blogs, articles etc.

bukatyne:
Teenagers should be prepared for marriage.

They should also be taught and be guided on the journey of self discovery.

That way, they automatically know the spouses food for them.

They marry early, fulfill their dreams and live happily ever after

LilMissFavvy:
I'm already familiar with that. It's very common to see a white divorced woman getting married with ease, without her failed marriage or age being criticized. How much more an advanced spinster. You aren't aware of many white women who marry younger husbands, the men hardly discriminate or worry so much about age.

bukatyne:


And Nigerian divorced women are not getting re-married (even though it is mostly common law marriage aka cohabitating) especially in rural areas?

How do you know that her failed married and/age are not been critisized?

In fact, multiple marriages seem to me like their society discriminates against single people a lot hence the need to always be married.

ireneidiva:

Please, teenagers should be taught to pursue their dreams with all they can. Marriage should come whenever they choose or when they have some things in place. How many people live happily ever after when they marry?

LilMissFavvy:
I'm already familiar with that. It's very common to see a white divorced woman getting married with ease, without her failed marriage or age being criticized. How much more an advanced spinster. You aren't aware of many white women who marry younger husbands, the men hardly discriminate or worry so much about age.

Goodgod213:


A divorced 98 year old white lady has a lot to offer than a employed 26 year old Nigerian Lady.

Take it or ask your mother for more details

Ipheeoma24:
Must everything be about marriage in this country imagine i just finished my nysc and my neighbor's r already singing it in my ears none of them have asked me oo what are your dreams and goals especially igbo people I just tire that hw one stupid guy was also telling me that more respect r accorded to married women so if u dey find respect better run go marry ....mental slavery

bukatyne:


The person you marry is the 2nd most important decision you will make in life.