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Why You Shouldn't Beg To Be Loved by MrCaesar: 4:09pm On Dec 24, 2019
If you have been trying to make them love you and it's not working, please let them be. If you have been following them around, telling them you love them, showing them you love them, trying to make them fall in love with you, doing all manner of nice things to make them love you and it seems not to be working, please let them be.
You don't beg someone to love you. You don't force someone to love you. You only ask or propose or make your intentions known, and if the other person doesn't feel the same way, even after considerable time, please let them be.
There is a limit to how long you should woo someone. There is a limit to how long you should continue to work to make someone love you. Begging someone to love you may only give birth to a relationship that shouldn't be given birth to. Begging someone to love you will give birth to the following instances:
1. Love out of pity: When you continue begging someone to love you, it may give rise to making that person loving you out of pity. Anybody that loves you out of pity is into self-imprisonment. Loving out of pity is just like putting one's self into a bottle. The longer the relationship lasts the longer the chain of frustration continues. At the long run, you stand at the end of receiving the negative effects. A love that started out of pity is like a time bomb. It's just like someone pretending to be happy over an extended period of time, time will come when there will be an outburst of displeasure. When the pretender will totally be tired of faking satisfaction. At that particular time, everything goes sore, you start feeling the heat. The relationship becomes very toxic.
2. Love as a payback: This is when love is given to someone as...https://www.caesarscircuit.com/2019/12/why-you-shouldnt-beg-to-be-loved.html?m=1

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