Renowned marriage and relationship counselor, Dr Mrs Charlotte Oduro has advised ladies in relationship to desist from creating friendship with their ex-lovers.

According to Dr Charlotte, keeping your ex-lover as a friend after break up can go a long way to ruin relationships.

She advised that an ex- lovers should be kept at a distance.

“Don’t ever tell yourself that your ex is your friend. Your ex shouldn’t be your friend, if he is ex, let him go. To save your present relationship, let your ex go. When you have a boyfriend, forget about ex.

If he wanted to stay, he shouldn’t have left because the more you communicate, the more you remember the things you did before. Cut it short”, Counsellor Oduro stated.

Counselor Oduro made this revelation during a recent interview with Monty Oz on his entertainment show

Very True, Let your Ex be your ex forever!

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I don't believe this. Not all relationships ended in irreconcilable differences. People could go their separate ways for varying reasons. Some could be due to medical reasons. If you were deep in a relationship, only to know later that you and your partner are both AS. You can't be enemies thereafter now.

In christendom, especially those who believe in star compatibility and spiritual counselling before marriage . If they said to a lady that she'd not survive the marriage or the husband-to-be won't survive it due to some impending dangers , I'm sure nobody would want to risk that and once that happens, you could still be friends but you have to set a limit.

I had a gf whom I should have married, from south-south. I went to pray about our relationship and i was warned to cut it before going deep...I had to do so. The reason I ended the relationship then is now manifesting. She married another guy... we are still friends but with limits...no strings attached. Obedience is better than sacrifice.

It's hard to stay away from a friend whom one has stayed with, for years. All one needs do is take caution. I've heard of a guy who eventually helped his ex and husband and they're successful today but with no strings attached. Ladies, if you listen to the woman's advice, you're on your own, especially if your split wasn't caused by irreconcilable differences like him being a puncher or caught with bad stuffs which cloud harm you. Some exes turn out to be good advisers and lifters later in life.

your ex is not your enemy. your ex can connect you to a major customer. self discipline is key

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is their senses in dis rubish talk? What if u now discover dat the ex fer better than d new one?

You have a valid point, in as much as ur ex is not your enemy, giving them space will ensure your presence relationship is free from strives. Also some women and men are so weak-willed that their ex have their password ND continue to have sex with them even when he/she has another relationship. And ex is an ex for a reason, if tr y are that good, they won't be an ẹx

True but he can't be your enemy either

Not only ex, besties including

I don't advocate enmity but if I find you keeping yeye contact with your ex with regular calls, texting and chatting, I will leave you to be dating yourself while I walk off in peace!!!


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