Men, stop looking for peace of mind in a woman as they can not give you lasting peace of mind as they never had it and can not give what they never had.

Instead, look for the peace of mind deep within yourself as NO WOMAN can give any man LASTING peace of mind.

Thats true though.

Then why do many of you look for women to marry? I think the issue is many of you have unrealistic expectations. You are looking for a woman who is perfect. They don't exist. You want her to be fine. But fine women are usually promiscuous and many men run after such women. You want her to cook. But women who cook will not make extra money to support the family. You want her to be your friend. But your friend would hardly submit to you. Ultimately, you want a woman to love you the same way you love her. But the reality is women and men do not love in the same way. A woman love is tied to what you can do for her (aka your ability). The moment you lose that ability most women will stop loving.

If you want to marry you have to see marriage as a deal. In any deal if you get 50.1% of what you want, that is a good deal.

There are men (and women) out there who are looking for nothing short of 100%. This is madness. If you get 100% that means the other party of the deal gets 0%. This is a recipe for disaster.

Yhu lie oga

sadly, as much as a man can be happy without a woman in his life, a man without a woman can NEVER have peace of mind.

YungMillionaire:
Then why do many of you look for women to marry?

To make babies probably

MrBrownJay1:
sadly, as much as a man can be happy without a woman in his life, a man without a woman can NEVER have peace of mind.

Oga u re contradicting ur self,speaking from both sides of the mouth.

Even with all these advice here and there against women y'all will still chase them.
You people should stop deceiving yourself.