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Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Samsonklin(m): 1:32am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Biafrareform:Lol sorry bro. But you can never win this. Except he's broke and a coward. All similar cases like this this that i know always ends up the same. The motherf.ckerx always come back after a while and claim their kids. Blood is blood. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Samsonklin(m): 1:35am On Dec 31, 2019 |
victorian:Cheap blackmail. Thumbs down |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Samsonklin(m): 1:46am On Dec 31, 2019 |
MrStan11:If you like spoil the pikin mind. One day, if the dad is a well to do man, that girl go find am see and reunite. Whether their bond strong or not. The girl go find the papa see. Na o e be anywhere. Except the man na ogogoro man wey don loose guard for life. No you reason am na, make Adeleke come now say na him be your papa and your momsi con confirm am say na im be your papa. Iffa hear say you stubborn. Nai be say you dey lie |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by ZIMDRILL(m): 2:18am On Dec 31, 2019 |
People are very funny and narrow minded with this culture this culture thats Where was culture when the two where having sex ? Where was the culture when the two family couldnt come to an agreement ? Am not saying culture should be throw away altogether but we need to analyse each case thats shakes and challenge culture I understand the OP anger and his attachment now wonder he called the girl his pet Back to the issue, by law the child belongs to both, i believe the child is now in uni therefore she is above 18, she can choice who she wants to talk to and associate with. In developed world there is room by law to back pay the child maintainace to some degree But our case here is nigerian one backpay is Zero here. Denying her access to her father, would damage the girl emotionally, she needs to see her father for he is and not to be told (sometimes people change over time may he has changed) Remember the father was as young as the mother when she fell pregnant, roughly meaning his parents had more say than him and now he might seen, thats his parents decision or influence were not good Then the cultural side, i am a zimbabwean i dont know any nigerian various tribal culture, but most (zimbabwe shona tribes culture), the daughter belongs to the father as per lineage of the family tree and spiritual part (Will explain the spiritual) but it doesnt mean she has to be physically with father or his family, the child can still be raised by the mum's family but, when the day to be married (the girl ) the dowry which is meant to go the father direct will then pass through the girls mum family side (the one's who looked after her), they will take what her own father was meant pay as bride price, Depending on how bitter is mum family they might take all or leave little for the girl's father, thats depends on what relationship and development has happened over between the two families I mentioned the spiritual side, the main reason, they (shona culture zimbabwe ) still say the child belongs to both irregardless of the father rejected the child(pregnancy) is that each family has its own spiritual believes demoans etc, so in the event that the girl gets married or even not but she starts having spiritual problems from her father side, it would be easy for the get to visit her father's family and sort out those problems Then its now of culture in zimbabwe to pay what we call damage, this case suit the damage culture, the father comes in ask for access to the child he is asked to pay damages before any official meeting with he child Many people here are focused on the anger towards the father non are focusing on what the wants, thats why you find most men in court loose the custody of a child because they focus on themselves via culture rights etc and not focusing on the needs of the child |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by chris51(f): 5:45am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Please tell the girl's biological father and his family to get lost. Your sister should tell the man that the girl does not belong to him. After 16 years of desertion. What does he mean? He and his family should go to hell. I can imagine what your sister must have gone through in her hour of need 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by chris51(f): 5:52am On Dec 31, 2019 |
chris51: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by chris51(f): 5:52am On Dec 31, 2019 |
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Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by victorian(f): 9:00am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Samsonklin: A man cannot just wake up after 16 years and be claiming he's the father. Father of who? He had better go and face his life and forget he has a daughter. No be only daughter. He should come and carry nah. Ole! The daughter should pour hot water in his body! Irresponsible men that don't deserve anything good in life. Tueh! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 12:18pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Samsonklin: Are you a baby daddy? If you are, do you pay child support? Thats no cheap blackmail here. She spoke the truth. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 12:20pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
victorian: Samsonklin is a baby daddy. Thats why he is bitter |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by crafteck(m): 12:29pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Scottallen: I won't say must |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 12:32pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL: But his parents did "have a say" when he chose to drill a female unprotected? Parents my foot. What a dumb analogy. Which daughter belongs to him?The one he never fed nor sent to school? How is he sure that the Mother also.did not throw that particular baby away after he dodged his responsibility? How is he so sure its the same daughter since he abandoned them in pregnancy. Is he going to force her to get a DNA testing? If you read well you'd have seen that her age is 16. If she's 18 it even makes the case worse because as an adult she can spit on his face of she sees him and never want to see him afterwards. I hope you are not an irresponsible baby daddy too. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 12:43pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Dearlord: You are so on point |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 12:46pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Samsonklin: Stop talking nonsense. I am a victim and i never moved a muscle searching for some stupid idiotic runaway sperm donor "dad". |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 12:49pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Samsonklin: Blood isnt blood dude. My father tried the same rubbish when i was 15 and i told him to get lost. You can never reap where you did not sow. Those were my exact words to him. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 12:53pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
showafrica: Nonsense. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 12:55pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
BarryLondon007: Let the "shi*t" happen to your daughter first. Then come back to comment. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 12:59pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Ecne: Her real dad prevented himself first. So if they prevent him now. He should deal with it. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:01pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
juman: Will he force the 16 year old to a lab? Lol. DNA for where. He lost it. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:06pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
virginchaser: There no hard and fast rule to.that. I never looked for mine and when he showed up at 15. I showed him the door. Nonsense. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:10pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Shollze:And you havent thought that she may not want to know him? |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:11pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
kingjrofficial: No.he wont lose. What happened to the dead beat dads dignity and value for 16 full years? |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:16pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Obason22: Nonsense. If the mother had also thrown him away and he had died on the streets would the father have come for his corpse? |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:18pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Obason22: What love? |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:21pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Larrykaysail: So that he can use the child for money rituals and get his money back. You people dont understand ruthlessness. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:27pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: I hope you also forgive and forget when some asshole puts your daughter in the family way, abandons her and your grandchild and comes knocking 32 years after. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:28pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Babaheekmat: I wouldn't. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:30pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Tajbol4splend: Nope. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:32pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
poik: Its not a must because there are kids in orphanages that dont know both parents. Some were picked from dumpsites. Are they not alive? |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:35pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
adanny01: And the childs rights to welfare and education. Where was the father to ensure those rights are not flouted? He has lost all rights bro. He is nothing but a sperm donor. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:37pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
uruba23: The circumstances he held on to and disappeared for 16 years is the sane reason why he should get lost now. The circumstances have still not changed. So what does he want. 1 Like |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:39pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Mcbayo: Are you a sperm donor? |
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