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Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by kingjrofficial(m): 11:18am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Biafrareform:sorry bro.......there is nothing u can do about it, if he goes to court, u will lose.... pls do the needy and protect ur dignity and value in front of ur nephew.... #Peace |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Femsyn(m): 11:28am On Dec 30, 2019 |
In case of another situation like this. When an irresponsible man denies a pregnancy or child, just get a lawyer and get a binding legal document for him to sign, that he is ceding every right of fatherhood to whomever is willing to care for the child. These brainless men think they are smart, cos they think no matter what, a child will always ask for his father. What if the girl wasnt cared for properly and she died, will he come and claim any child now or does it think its easy to raise a child? The man isn't her father, he only donated sperm. That's all. For every action, there must be an equal reaction. Idiot boys everywhere. Sue his ass!!! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by GiftedLady0: 11:31am On Dec 30, 2019 |
1.Charge him to court: make he compensate for those years; 2. He want to be responsible for the child: no wahala; Enroll the girl for covenant university. 3. My dear no follow the man fight by the time He sees responsibilities hmmmmmm He Go Fear Fear � Las Las na you win. All am saying is let the two meet just be diplomatic to your favour. If you know, you know 1 Like |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Iampearly(f): 11:37am On Dec 30, 2019 |
I can't believe so many people are non challantly saying that the child belongs to the man. Yes it's his sperm that gave the child but do we know what kind of trauma the lady would have gone through during that period, the shame. Now he coming to claim a child he denied. It's can't be me sha Such desperation. Maybe he can't have a child again he now remembers he has someone somewhere after all these years. He should bear the consequences of his wickedness. Most of you being non challant about it, I pray your daughter or sisters won't fall a victim. Then and only then would you know how much it hurts. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Iampearly(f): 11:43am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Femsyn: God bless you my brother. The same thing I told my colleagues some months ago and they were saying even at that he can still have the child anytime he seems fit. Thunder fire devil ooo. Na to kill the guy kill myself remain. Shey him no want pikin him must sign say him no want. People writing trash in support of the guy should know that young adults read this things and should not be encouraged to becoming irresponsible adults. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Obason22(m): 11:43am On Dec 30, 2019 |
The truth is that u cannot take d love of a child away from his father or mother, but we most undstd in other way round that d same people that denied d child wen at womb are d same people coming to claim d child now @ 16. for instance a friend of mind was once a victim of such at, he was 28 but most of time people do accuse him that he does not no his father, on one faithful day he went straight to his mother and demanded to no his real father, d mother taught it was joke not until he brought out insecticide, that moment changed everything d cry of his mother attracted neighborhood but eventually d same man that said no wen he was in womb turn round to say yes and at 28 he has finished primary, sec. sch. and even went further to server as apprentice at main market onisha, and became master of his own, so my brother u have done well by her up bringing and best u do for her is to reunite her with her real father she will ever remain greet full but that does not stop u asking d man to pay for her up bringing if u wish. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by dharniehl(m): 11:44am On Dec 30, 2019 |
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Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by mrlycan: 11:47am On Dec 30, 2019 |
I did..........It will just be nice to know the truth of the matter before crucifying the guy........ I had a similar personal experience, trust me, if you hear her side of the story, you setup fire and burn me, but if i told you what truly happened, you'll ask me to go to church and share my testimony.But she will never tell anyone the truth. Jaqenhghar: |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by dawnomike(m): 11:48am On Dec 30, 2019 |
lozanni:My thoughts exactly... So many young men back then would have done the same. You are very right! 1 Like |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Jaqenhghar: 11:50am On Dec 30, 2019 |
mrlycan:Okay Oooo Remember sha we are hearing from the girl's brother. He told us what transpired and was there during the rejection. To me it can't get any clearer 1 Like |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by dmz1: 11:52am On Dec 30, 2019 |
fatherhood should not only be defined by blood. he is not the girls father though he got the mother pregnant illegitimately. what if the foetus was aborted how would he be claiming her now? op stand your ground, give him no access. in the Igbo Culture if you dodged the bride price the children are not yours. he who paid the bride price is the father. 2 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by mrlycan: 11:52am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Well, if thats the case, fine.............You win..............But if not.................. And the OP is not also telling the whole truth.......... Have you thought about that also. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by EgunMogaji2: 11:53am On Dec 30, 2019 |
LoyalRccgMember: I don’t have silly Nephews and Nieces. You don’t have what it takes to shut me up. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Skepticus: 11:55am On Dec 30, 2019 |
ericadianas: Did you go to stay with dad after you met m? Also, Is your last name your dad's? |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by healthserve(m): 11:56am On Dec 30, 2019 |
ericadianas: What transpired later on between you and your dad.. 1 Like |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Chachiy(f): 11:57am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Story! He denied the child 16yrs ago, he doesn't have any rights to her. 1 Like |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by healthserve(m): 11:59am On Dec 30, 2019 |
lozanni: For 16 years abii. Una well done. Thesedays nobody wants to go to the market but everyone wants to eat. People want to assume the role of profit sharing without lifting a finger to do any work. 5 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Scottallen: 11:59am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Stillthebest: No law says that a man automatically becomes a father by sperm donation alone. Not in the Igbo customary law which is also upheld by the Nigerian secular law. 2 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by mrlycan: 11:59am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Boss forget all these IGBO this IGBO that.. While growing up. I watched NTA very well, ladies come after 30 years plus looking for their father, all because the mother lied about their birth. Whether bride price or not. If the girl finds out that the mum is at fault , thats the last day she set sights on her dmz1: |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Enice(m): 12:00pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Kylekent59:trashy trash. this here is why some goats pretending to be men behave anyhow. they abandon a lady they put in the family way because they say papa na papa, las las, i go go carry my pikin, rubbish. why will other men not do same if there are no consequences? what if you the lady in question had come from a poor family and had abandoned the baby, would the bastard have anybody to go back to? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Scottallen: 12:02pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Stillthebest: The worst case scenario, he may be granted access to the child but the access can be revoked if the child feels uncomfortable about it( The mother can manipulate the child in this regard). It is a lose for the stupid father in any case. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by loganx: 12:02pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Do not hide the little girl from the biological father, tell her the whole truth, she will take her vengeance with abandoning her with him and his family. If you try to hide her, it will affect her emotionally, tell her exactly what transpired, let her decide how she wants to handle him. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Scottallen: 12:02pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
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Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by izzbaby22(f): 12:02pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
I really hate when people abandon their responsibility only to show up years later as what. Tell your Sister to explain things to her daughter, trust me she will understand. They should allow the guy’s family access to the the girl only when they come to see your family and apologize for what they did 16years ago. Even after that the custody of the girl should remain with your family and she can go visit her deadbeat Dad’s family sometimes. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:07pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Gforce2015: instead of thinking of money, think of the CHILD 1st and foremost. HallaDaTruth: so because a person is useless, you should lie to a child about who her father is? why dont you just tell this child:"this is your useless biological father who abandoned you at birth." et voila! its funny how all of you people claim to be holier than thou people, yet do no follow what your holybooks brainwashes you to do. your Bibles/Qur'ans tell you to forgive and forget, but here you are as bitter individuals. lol! |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Enice(m): 12:09pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
mrlycan:any boy can impregnate a woman but not every man that can father a child. fatherhood is earned. you pour sperm inside woman toto no mean anything. you have to do the right thing to be called a father, legally or traditionally speaking. 5 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by mrlycan: 12:11pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Thats some piece you just said.. Weldone...True talk Enice: |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by mrlycan: 12:14pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
God bless you for this comment....... You spoke the mind of someone who have two brains, the natural and the supernatural. Thumbs up Obason22: |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by DonMekino(m): 12:14pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
in igbo culture the father of op albeit the father of his sister is the owner of the teenage girl because the biological father did not pay bride price, neither did he fulfill any traditional requirements. his getting the girl should be a special arrangement. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by ignis: 12:14pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
This is complicated |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by highcurrent: 12:15pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
victorian:OP see better advise. at least the girl is old enough to comprehend things and differentiate between right and wrong. so he waited for 1,2,3 .. up to 16 to come and claim right? what if your sister had aborted the baby? that man must have a motive for doing these. besides how did he know the girl was the pregnancy he rejected, if not that, he has been watching the progress of the girl since childbirth. this your story sounds like the movie, GIFTED. 1 Like |
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