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Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by Biglittlelois(f): 6:54pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
I actually know someone that use to be my friend who did the exact same thing, she is very obese, she told me she didn't think she can meet a man that will love her and her stature, I always encourage her to be patient, not until she one day told me she was pregnant, I didn't even notice cos of how big she is, she was pregnant for a married man, she prefers being a baby mama, i was really sad, It's actually an esteem issue and has to do with the psych, your wife should be careful of her. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by uninspired07: 6:54pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
doggedfighter: Peradventure the marriage gets destroyed, who loses? The OP or the wife? Oh, so because you’ve heard the wife is a Branch Manager of a Bank now, she can do & undo to the detriment of her marriage abi? I won’t say further so I won’t be labeled a misogynist hater. But I really fear women like you. How dare you threaten the OP with the destruction of his marriage simply because he wants to caution his wife? If he can’t caution his wife even if she’s the CEO of GTB, who will? I don tire for these kind women jareeee. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by Nobody: 7:18pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
doggedfighter:I think the wife is the one doing that indirectly. She's a married woman and should know better than to break another woman's home. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by doggedfighter(f): 7:20pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
uninspired07:I fear men that reason like you more. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by KanwuliaExtra: 7:33pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Nmeri17: Hahahaha! Chi-Chi dem dey fine o. Happy holidays to you toooooo. |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by 400billionman: 8:10pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Fillibuster: lol. Oga, most bankers are morally bankrupt when it comes to issues of the heart. But your woman is married, talk to her. |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by eyinjuege: 8:30pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
theButterfly: What do you guys know about the home of the said married man? Perhaps he's even amongst one of those men that have been advised to divorce their wives on NL, since plenty women full ground Perhaps he is a muslim wanting to marry more wives? Perhaps he's just a randy goat like some of those shouting righteous indignation on here, meanwhile they have several concubines despite being married. Even OP may have his own single concubine . Just much ado about nonsense. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by realtalk19: 8:48pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
KanwuliaExtra: Well spoken |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:51pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
KanwuliaExtra:it's the Holy Spirit that could have given u such wisdom.. Splendid reply.. Happy new year.. U av earned my respect for life |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by pocohantas(f): 8:54pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Mad one!!! Mama the mama. After you na you!! KanwuliaExtra: |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by movement2020: 9:05pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
The level of infidelity among married women is so high that if care is not taken, high percentage of next generation kids would come from broken homes. Just this evening in my area, a man caught his wife being dropped in their house. Come and see beating. Smash windshield and damaged the car. The wife ran into another house. The concubine was restless It was just unexplainable. Op, your thoughts might be right. Take necessary steps to cut the awkward relationship. Safe your home before your wife is influenced by bad company. Like the warri proverb someone said, na from clap dance dey take start.. |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by Nobody: 9:09pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Assumption-based arguments aren't my cup of tea. eyinjuege: |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by eyinjuege: 9:30pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
theButterfly: No, neither are arguments based on sentiments mine. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by Nobody: 9:46pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
My reply was based on facts [from the OP], not sentiments. I didn't pick arguments out of thin air like you've done. Yours seems to be based on sentiments with your assumptions that OP's looking to divorce his wife, is a Muslim looking to marry more wives, or is a "randy goat" that's already cheating on his wife. That he created the thread doesn't mean he has ulterior motives. He clearly doesn't subscribe to what his wife is doing, so is concern is very much legit. eyinjuege: |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by armyofone(m): 5:51am On Jan 02, 2020 |
So true and very well said!! Soon he will start checking his madam phone to find out unfindables and suspicion galore. Happy New Year KanwuliaExtra! KanwuliaExtra: 1 Like |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by baby124: 5:57am On Jan 02, 2020 |
movement2020:What makes you think his wife is not the influencer? Because she’s married 1 Like |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by cococandy(f): 6:12am On Jan 02, 2020 |
You’re right to be worried that she’s okay with that. Ask her what she would think if another obese lady with no chasers comes to date you. Would she happy about that? Sometimes we need to put the shoe on the other foot or basically put ourselves in other people’s shoes to realize that some things we do are not okay. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by Resurgent2016: 6:54am On Jan 02, 2020 |
@Fillibuster, I think you wife views relationships from a transactional level (where relationships are maintained based on the perceived benefits). I hope she doesn't follow the same kind of reasoning she is suggesting to he friend |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by djoe21(m): 7:54am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Fillibuster: You are not over reacting. If anything, you have under reacted. See, two wrongs don't make a right. Being obese is not an excuse to share someone else's husband. If her obesity is the reason she is getting few or no chasers, then let her try to work on it. And please talk to your wife and make her see reasons why she needs to discourage such. In fact, may be you can ask her if she would feel empathetic if you cheat with someone obese. |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by djoe21(m): 7:59am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Biglittlelois: His wife should be careful of her? She is the one encouraging her. His wife should be doing what you did. |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by Nobody: 8:13am On Jan 02, 2020 |
I think the wife is the one doing that indirectly. She's a married woman and should know better than to break another woman's home.How? Don't u people comprehend stuffs? Or u expect the married lady to nag the obese one to steer clear the man? Will she be there to give her emotional support? D obese one is mature and should take responsibility for her actions. |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by Nobody: 8:18am On Jan 02, 2020 |
I'm sure the married lady tried initially to talk the obese one out of the affair to no deal and she decided to flow along as per friend. No need for her acting all moral and prim to someone who wouldn't change. So many married peeps have affairs outside, only d silly ones will allow it affect their homes. |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by mysticwarrior(m): 8:42am On Jan 02, 2020 |
donbachi:there is a adage which says " show me your friends and I will tell you who you are" if you want to really know if your teenage son/daughter is taking a wrong or right step the best way to do that is to study the lifestyle of their friends, your child/ wife/husband knows how to conceal their true identity from you, but through their friends you would see the manifestations, Don't ignore signs my friend. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by Chubhie: 8:44am On Jan 02, 2020 |
You judge your wife already with your moral compass. She could be holding such position tentatively. That she is your wife is not a prison sentence on her freedom of thoughts and association. You don't seem that close to your wife intimately that could be why you wan kee yourself with HBP. What then happens when you get really close and she opens her underbelly? Understand yourself, understand human nature, understand your woman and enjoy the comedy. Don't be too rigid. Inject flexibility. |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by donbachi(m): 8:50am On Jan 02, 2020 |
mysticwarrior:I have a lot of crazy friends,dat do drugs,illegal stuffs and I just discovered one of them just impregnated another man's wife...yet,I'm not like them...keep dat ur 1680 adage to urself..ok,u "show me ur society and I will tell u who u are". |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by Chubhie: 8:52am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Charleys:I salute your premium imagination in solving this mystery. I also think the wife's ability to place unflinching loyalty to a friend against her core belief system deserves an inquest. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by mysticwarrior(m): 9:01am On Jan 02, 2020 |
donbachi:inasmuch as you may be sounding right to yourself you are also very very wrong, just listen to yourself talk, if you are arrested in the company of your friends who do drugs Wetin you wan tell police? |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by donbachi(m): 9:21am On Jan 02, 2020 |
mysticwarrior:I was once with two of them when they got arrested and they confessed to it and also told the drug law agents dat I don't do such.and I was never taken to their office with them...any other thing again? |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by mysticwarrior(m): 10:04am On Jan 02, 2020 |
donbachi:Oga you no sabi lie, go meet lai Muhammed make him teach you how to lie. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by donbachi(m): 10:14am On Jan 02, 2020 |
mysticwarrior:just see ur life...all because I no talk say dem beat me,kick me and drag me everywhere for the whole to see and put pics of me on social media platforms....shame on u. |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by Daviddson(m): 10:20am On Jan 02, 2020 |
HRHQueenPhil:Is this a joke or what? When did the Holy Spirit start supporting marital infidelity? That's blasphemy, if you don't know. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by HRHQueenPhil(f): 11:40am On Jan 02, 2020 |
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