married for 5years now and we Bleep daily and the thing still sweet. this is useless topic

thorpido:
Economists call it the law of diminishing returns.

Such an interesting topic. I believe Medical and Especially Gynecologic research should have explanations for this

Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk

99.9% of current naija girls are call girl by another name including most nairas ladies . tag such side chick,FWB,slay queen, single BUT ready to mingle (including having including having indiscreet UMBRIDDLE SEX)MILF, student with useless STD (sexually transmitted degree) etc are all what
?pure Hoes!none of ya IS CLEAN..! imagine presenting terrible Body mileage to hubby as wedding gift ..lol.we don't want the bitchhes too ma'am! MOB!.. Money Over Bitche! na use and dump thing . comprehended this?
lolss

Sex dies off within ten years only between husband and wife but I put it to you that the tempo Increases outside marriage. I have taken time to observe this scary trend in many marriages. The husband zooms off with less aged girls while the woman zooms off to the oldies for cash. One reason I have noticed for this is that, most time, when the woman has gotten a few kids, she tends to seek for greener pastures. The lure of getting paid for sex drives many while the expectation to feel younger by dabbling with new people contributes.

because the value of sex must have depreciated by that time due to other needs and distraction

alexola20:
The thing is can you identify or notice a sweet person if you haven't let go of the bitterness inside you.

I'm one of the sweetest persons on here.

K

donbachi:
New year lie...mine is 12,feels like its yesterday.

Abi o

The answer is simple. Men have got a lot of responsibilities at this point or stage of life, kids are entering secondary school, expenses on rent, upkeep , clothing for kids, vacation overseas for those who could afford it, taking care of the extended family members like parents who are aging, cousins, nieces, nephews who are in the uni., Inlaws, etc keep mounting. Desire to own a house, an suv for family and picnic etc. At times, I'd not know when I'd land in bed after a day's work and by the time I open my eyes, its 4am already .

Whereas in my undergraduate days, up till after I completed nysc, I had little to occupy my brain with. We shouldn't forget that sexual urge comes from the brain and when the brain is already overused, sex becomes less interesting.

richPHAROAH:
married for 5years now and we Bleep daily and the thing still sweet. this is useless topic

you're very young in marriage. By the time your kids are entering secondary school at ageb10 and your brain is preoccupied with materials, clothing, school fees( especially if you have a high taste for your kids and you want a boarding education for them), madam would say guy, oya naw...and your response would be...is it food? She has less to think of as a wife, na you get huge responsibility to shoulder.

Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk

So,it's only Nigerian men that cheat ? as if to say you mould husband

Mizwisdom:
Ladies be wise, do your best to marry a man who is not Nigerian. A Nigerian man will compare you to Ogbono soup or Jollof rice which he gets tired of eating, they don't see you as a human being, avoid marrying them for your own good.

with this mentality you will remain single for a long time, no be curse.

Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk

You girls make me laugh so hard that I can't see the point even laughing at your monumental naivety.

Whether black or white men will be men
The testerone dictates to a large extent what goes on in the mindset. .
Even the whites cheat the most, it's only when they are caught that's when you get to see them in the news.

Are they not the ones who are into various sexual fetish and promote it; and a supposedly educated lady is busy living in the delusion thinking white people are any different.
O God!
Which girls we get these days sef?!

These girls are just so joking

thorpido:
Economists call it the law of diminishing returns.

hahahah.

It's tasking so one won't be use to it as time goes on.

Nothing last forever

Sex is not an important aspect of spiritually United marriages but a communion of the union.

Only true mystics understand the use of sex alchemy and the reasons to be careful with the frequency of sex as being practiced by the ignorant masses.

Very few people are wise, many who assume they are wise are merely intelligent. Choose the former.

omamush:
Dunno, I'm not married..

Why are you not married?

It’s a fixed factors of productions

no

no b food na

middlebelter:


Diminishing Marginal Utility.

No sir! In marriagomatics, it is called Diminishing Coitus Value. Simple! No come dey form wetin you no know!

It's just like watching NTA everyday for 10years...At a time you get tired of watching

I know why, Because she carry big yansh? Talk true

donbachi:
New year lie...mine is 12,feels like its yesterday.

mistercharles:
It's just like watching NTA everyday for 10years...At a time you get tired of watching

Yes na

richPHAROAH:
married for 5years now and we Bleep daily and the thing still sweet. this is useless topic

Trust me on this.
Your wife don't like making love daily.
Even ashè don't like that.

She is taking satisfaction just to make u feel good.

The sensation gradually dies away if u don't give yourself time to recover.
Sex is not about ejaculation at all.
It's more than that.

Even a a lady with high sexual hormones won't like to make love daily and u don't actually love your woman if u are making love to her daily.
She is just an object to u.

IyaTola:
Why does sex slowly die off in a Marriage after 10+ years??

many factors are responsible. Mine is 25 yrs now my libido is not like when it was just 10yrs due to health issue, for some it may not be health issue but as you age your libido will reduce so you don't kill yourself

IyaTola:
Why does sex slowly die off in a Marriage after 10+ years??

Is there a law that says it diminishes after 10years automatically? Lol

I think it’s as u lay ur bed so u sleep on it situation really.

A marriage where sex is getting better everyday is a marriage where there is mutual respect. Women must understand that most men will not initiate sex if they feel disrespected in the home. Love your man and respect him, then expect regular sex and a happy home. I know there are exceptions but this works for most marriages where the Man is not a womanizer or under a spell.

Maybe for those who practice monogamy, I doubt polygamy folks have this issue.

sassysure:

Trust me on this.
Your wife don't like making love daily.
Even ashè don't like that.

She is taking satisfaction just to make u feel good.

The sensation gradually dies away if u don't give yourself time to recover.
Sex is not about ejaculation at all.
It's more than that.

Even a a lady with high sexual hormones won't like to make love daily and u don't actually love your woman if u are making love to her daily.
She is just an object to u.

omo if there is anyone that dosnt like fucking daily, its me because i have to make sure i keep up with my diet and multivitamins. my wife is the sweetest nympho on earth. she rides me even when i am asleep. cos i sleep and my dick is fucking erect most times

fairfora:
you're very young in marriage. By the time your kids are entering secondary school at ageb10 and your brain is preoccupied with materials, clothing, school fees( especially if you have a high taste for your kids and you want a boarding education for them), madam would say guy, oya naw...and your response would be...is it food? She has less to think of as a wife, na you get huge responsibility to shoulder.

well maybe the topic should be , that why do broke couple get tired of sex after a few years.
all those things you mentioned will never occupy our brain that much. not even in the next 100 years, that is if we live till more 100 years lol.

Sex when single is sweet but after marraige of 10years plus, with children, lots of bill's to pay, family responsibility both ways, brother you dont need sex anymore rather you lean on God for strength not to stumble.