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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by AreaFada2: 4:54am On Jan 03, 2020 |
mysticwarrior:Dude, not the way you think o. Frequency of sex is not high among many oyinbo to begin with. On the average oyinbo live longer and many live the last 15 to 20 years together without sex at all. Even in this Viagra era. Sex drive goes down for many reasons: Growing kids mean a quickie in the sofa or kitchen is out of the question. More responsibilities at work means more stress. Age too. If you married at 36, in ten years you are 46. You are well and truly in middle age. Some ladies will be approaching or in some cases even in menopause. If you dated for 5 or 10 years before marriage, then you have been at it for 15 to 20 years already. Though married for only 10. After 10 years dreams may not have been fulfilled. Worries about finances and the future. The marriage may not be quite as great as it promised to be starting out. These are not situations that promote sex drive. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Dnockeror333(m): 5:09am On Jan 03, 2020 |
donbachi:12? Any difference? It's just within the approximative gap! |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Dnockeror333(m): 5:14am On Jan 03, 2020 |
I think, we men need exchange the "borners" who ate set off into their 'oldage 50s' every 9 years for a great sexhood! Man no dey carry last! � |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by AroOkigbo(m): 6:25am On Jan 03, 2020 |
darlenese:How old is your marriage? And the frequency of having sex hasn't reduced? |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by MENTORCH(m): 6:31am On Jan 03, 2020 |
CopaMike: I thought I was the only one, I’m 32 now Everyone is disturbing me about marriage. I’m just thinking won’t I get tired of my wife so fast, what will happen next after that. It’s not easy to be with one woman for the rest of your life. God help us. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by sindan: 6:44am On Jan 03, 2020 |
EcoBrick: There's nothing to be sorry about, you're not alone. |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by oooook: 6:59am On Jan 03, 2020 |
It's not been easy eating just one Kinda meal for years. 1 Like |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by socialmediaman: 7:39am On Jan 03, 2020 |
CopaMike: Just like some kids wonder why their parents “hate” them when they’re punished for wrongdoing Responsibility sets in at some point |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Nobody: 7:47am On Jan 03, 2020 |
age , stress of married life, infidelity. sleeping with the same person for 10 years is dumb, need to port elswhere, sex didnt die in the marriage, just went somewhere. |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Nobody: 7:49am On Jan 03, 2020 |
donbachi: telling a white lie, but keep telling we were listening. |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Nobody: 7:51am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Thegeneralqueen: very inaccurate statement |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by middlebelter(m): 8:51am On Jan 03, 2020 |
samteebiz3: Yes sir! I have learnt a new vocabulary on marriage on Naira land. Marriagomatics! |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Nobody: 8:55am On Jan 03, 2020 |
richPHAROAH:You might be right but the truth is, as we grow in marriage, we also grow in capacity and career. Even if you do not wish to be self-employed after serving some employers and garnered the necessary experience to stand alone, you would still be subject to responsibilities at work if still under employment, meetings upon meetings, both home and abroad, staff responsibilities and ensuring they follow through. As a matter of fact, that riches you mentioned could not have been achieved if hardwork was not infused into your effort in the first place. All these and more tend to occupy our brains more than sex. You have a container coming and customers are complaining that they are not getting their goods on time. Equipment are breaking down on site due to technical and maintenance issues. All these reduce sex drive. We men carry most of( if not all) the responsibilities... 1 Like |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by tck2000(m): 9:36am On Jan 03, 2020 |
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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by samteebiz3: 9:42am On Jan 03, 2020 |
middlebelter: My papa money no go waste na. You think say to go the kind school I go learn the thing dey easy? Nay bro.... I never licence you to dey use am o! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by lucky4west: 9:44am On Jan 03, 2020 |
well until then...for now its hot and spicy!!! |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Nobody: 9:56am On Jan 03, 2020 |
flexyrule: It is a teaching of intergender dynamics and life. |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by IyaTola: 10:57am On Jan 03, 2020 |
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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Rozaytee: 11:01am On Jan 03, 2020 |
CopaMike:and u think women don't get tired of d same preeq all d time 3 Likes |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by IyaTola: 11:02am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Rozaytee: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by PAQ(m): 11:14am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Many factors makes sex die down after 10 years; . Partners start getting out of shape and loose physical attraction. . sex started out & remained a chore rather than a tool for pleasure & bonding. . Partners become sexually boring because they maintain a sexual pattern/style refusing to explore their bodies and other ways of making sex fun. . Change in lifestyle, jobs, health and age are also factors. But in Nigeria i feel my first point is the major one. I thank God that after almost 10 yrs of marriage, we are still on fire. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Onucs(m): 1:13pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Thegeneralqueen: is your father not a Nigerian? |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by DexterousOne(m): 2:34pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
THUNDER4real: Exactly There has to be much more to your relationship than sex |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by DexterousOne(m): 2:37pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
mysticwarrior: Those ones sef Grand ma sef will be looking for kondo Oloopa to collect |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by DexterousOne(m): 2:42pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Kekereekun123: You never jam |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by DexterousOne(m): 2:43pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Biodun1929: Exactly 1 Like |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by richPHAROAH: 2:44pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
fairfora:well you are right. but some of us just try not to take life too serious 1 Like |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by DexterousOne(m): 2:44pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
grossintel: True |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by gwama: 3:21pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Daily life together kills couples' sexuality. You fart in front of your spouse, you poop in front of him, you burp and eat anyhow, ... etc, all these factors are "kill love". |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Hadiza1mumscare: 6:35pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Because both parties think they have had enough and need something else. |
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Ayobami7(m): 7:23pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
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