bdchange:

What do you mean by it is difficult to get?are u not supposed to get it if u sleep with an infected person without protection?

bdchange:

What do you mean by it is difficult to get?are u not supposed to get it if u sleep with an infected person without protection?

Albinoworwor:


In this era of civilisation if a random person tells u not to use condom abeg run for your life.
U can NEVER know someone who is positive except they tell u

bdchange:
I don't know where it is written that sex must kill a man. A friend called me and told me what happened to him this December. He met a girl on Facebook and decided to go and see her at Ikotun in Lagos State. On meeting her, he arranged for an hotel to do short time with her in which she agreed. He said very bad odour was fuzzing out of her private part and yet the lady insist no use of condom. He said he was surprised yet couldn't resist because his penis was already hard and ready for action. After the sex, he got home and couldn't relax but started regretting his actions and became worried if he has not contracted any STI infections or probably HIV. He called me and explained everything to me. I was shocked asking him how he can meet a random girl and couldn't use condom with her. He said he doesn't know what got over him. Now he is scared of having contracted any disease. I told him to go for STI tests and see the results but as for HIV it will take 4 to 6 weeks to show any sign of the disease. I then explain the use of PEP, an HIV prevention drug that is taken within 72hrs after coming in contact with an HIV person. I recommended he goes to any general hospital and ask for it. He later went to Randle General Hospital at surulere and he was attended to. He was given PEP to be used within 28 days. He was told if he can get access to the girl and asked her to come for HIV test. When he called the girl and explained things to her, she flared up and what saying what did he take her for.. a prostitute? When he told me and asked him to just go and see the girl and find a way to convince her to go for the test that it is for her own good. Meanwhile he complained that the drug is already making him to fall asleep easily which is affecting his job despite taking it at night. He later went to see the girl and what came back shocked me even more. He said after getting there he explained to the girl but she is not ready to listen but assured him of having a nurse that do the test for her regularly. I was surprised to hear this, now the biggest moment came. He said after everything they still had sex though he now used protection. I became angry at him asking him why he did that? He told me he gave her a sentforth sex..lolz.I couldn't believe what I just heard. I told him now I understand why he will surely die of sex. He is still taking the drug but will go back after 6 weeks for the HIV test to know his fate. I am just wondering how people could be so careless with sex despite knowing the consequences of the acts when done with an infected person.

ghettochild4u:

Mr Oga, there is no prove the girl has HIV.. So stop all your drama...
Na one die go still kill man..
U go choose the one u want

Newbielearner:


Even though it's dangerous, the fact is that the dopamine would have covered the frontal lobes. But wouldn't use their senses anymore. It's very easy to judge.

I'm not saying it's right at all. The problem is that sometimes neither party expects that they would get to that level. But in this case, they both did and didn't bother to get that protection. They probably are still very young (not far from teenage group).

All these things in the name of fun are just over hyped. Too dangerous yet looking harmless. There's much fun in doing something far better with your time.

leonard002:


https://www.everydayhealth.com/hs/preventing-hiv/odds-hiv-transmission-rank/

https://www.poz.com/article/HIV-risk-25382-5829

chidooh1:
For a total stranger to refuse totally to use a condom during their first sexual encounter means that the person refusing the condom is hiding something. No right thinking person that is totally sound with 100% functioning brain will fall for this, don't tell me it's difficult to resist unless you are on a suicide mission. This is Lagos, i have come across a number of ladies(not prostitutes) and all would ask for condom before any other thing.

bdchange:

U can do the experiment by sleeping with an infected person to know the outcome

kcowen:
Your friend trusted you for a reason by telling you his secret and you open a thread to discuss it with us
Your friend disappointed by sleeping with the girl the second time and the only way to condemn his action is by opening a round table to discuss it

leonard002:
You're a big idiot