Some men now see their wife-to-be as tokunbo automobile that should be put through rigorous testing before purchase. Some women though not comfortable with it,play along to save face amidst threat of quitting the marriage from her future husband.

Such men beats their chest in defence telling whoever cares to listen that they must check if the woman is fruitful or not. Are such marriages built on love? Is child bearing d bedrock of marriage? Truely,such men cannot eat their cake and have it.