It is what the world has become.. and the sooner you get that fact into your skull, the better it will be for you.. You cannot be forming relationship with a girl child that is not your family..
Actually, it is what the world has become. But does the world also implores you to make unvalidated assumptions? Since lesbianism is also rampant, would you assume that any girl with a female bestie is also a lesbian?
If one cannot form relationship with a female kid that isn't family, then your 'boyfriend' or 'husband' must be very proud of you. This is because, you wouldn't build any relationship with the opposite sex irrespective of his age. Cos if you do, it automatically means that you must be sleeping with that person
famouscargo4u: to be frank, toddlers aged 5 and below don't keep memories of hate EXCEPT if the experience comes with PAIN. usually, after a day, they forget and move on. You must have done something much more painful/hurting for the girl to still nurse it.
If I did something painful to her, then I wouldn't be bothered about her behavior.
IamPlato: You Did A Foolish Thing By Wanting To Stay With her Alone, That Sounds Like Someone Who Could Rape a Child.
Anyway, there Are Ways To Deal With Children With That Attitude, you Have To Completely Ignore Her Like She Is Not there, give Attention To The Older Kids (children Love Attention) buy Things For Others And Take Them Out, leave Her Alone With Her Parents. Do This For One Month
I didn't know staying alone with a kid could be that dangerous. Tell me, when you find yourself in the midst of children, what goes through your mind?
If she inherited it from her parents, then it's their faults because some traits can be altered. As adults, if they had done something about their anger issues, then it would probably not have affect the child. The worry here is a child shouldn't exhibit such character at such age. Even if she actually inherited it, it would take a while to manifest. She's just two years old for Pete's sake, kids don't take things to heart. If you're a Christian, you'll agree with the following verse.
Matthew 18:3 ► And he said: "Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
There's a reason Christ had to make Children a model for believers who seek God's kingdom, and that's their hearts. They are free from grudges, anger, strife, etc. Even when they get offended, it only takes an immediate distraction to put off that emotion. This one own don reach two weeks. A child shouldn't behave this way, something is wrong somewhere.
But wait o! Why would you send her sister on an errand and want her to stay behind in the first place? That should raise eye brows.
You know nothing about genetics and hereditary.. You are among the problems facing Africa. Religion and erroneously quoting the Bible will never solve such problems...
You're the smartest of them all! They keep making assumptions and generalizing without the slightest idea of who I am behind the scene.
Ignore them please. I like kids myself. I would find it very insulting having someone assume my relation with them is a result of some sexual attraction. Exactly how fvcked up can the mind be!
You know nothing about genetics and hereditary.. You are among the problems facing Africa. Religion and erroneously quoting the Bible will never solve such problems...
Mr. Know-it-all, you only stated your submission and failed to point where I was wrong. Since you know everything about genetics and "HEREDITARY" , why don't you go ahead and explain the genetic mechanism of that child's behaviour? You see, people like you are the real problems Africa is facing. You feel you know too much, and when you see someone who seems to be lacking in knowledge, you badmouth, instead of impact them. Thus, you end up diminishing whatever motivation that is left in them to learn. What have you contributed to the forwardness of the nation? Nothing, but you're the ones pointing fingers at people because you think you're better than them. Una wey dey claim say una know pass, na una nor sabi anything. About the bible being unable to solve problems, I'm sure that was borne out of your negative sentiments about the bible. I need not argue with you about that.
I didn't know staying alone with a kid could be that dangerous. Tell me, when you find yourself in the midst of children, what goes through your mind?
Nothing Goes Through My Mind, I Am Not The Type That Likes To Play With Children. Kids These Days Lack Respect And Sense so I Don't Have Time To Play Around With Them.
IamPlato: Nothing Goes Through My Mind, I Am Not The Type That Likes To Play With Children. Kids These Days Lack Respect And Sense so I Don't Have Time To Play Around With Them.
I Will Only Have Time For My Own Children.
A kid is a kid whether by blood or not, and should be treated with love and care. Haven't you heard that fathers also molest their children? The way you would feel with your biological children is the same way I feel with kids who are not my blood. I regard them all as my kids.
So, if you can't sexually molest yours, I wouldn't do the same to mine.
A kid is a kid whether by blood or not, and should be treated with love and care. Haven't you heard that fathers also molest their children? The way you would feel with your biological children is the same way I feel with kids who are not my blood. I regard them all as my kids.
So, if you can't sexually molest yours, I wouldn't do the same to mine.
Not all men are peadophile @ we4all, the bad eggs in society has spoilt the good men, that are naturally friendly with kids, it's well.
zed7: She's just a kid. My first child used to be really stubborn as a toddler. I was scared that I'll have a lot of work to do in the future. He's growing up to be the sweetest and best behaved young man I know.
His younger brother is also following the same pattern and I'm not worried. Stop analysing and freaking over someone else's kid. She'll probably grow out of it. She's just 2 for goodness sake. She hardly knows left from right.
It's called the trouble two or something. Children are mostly stubborn at two years old
nkwuocha1: Well I can relate to this with my kids, especially my daughter.
"You are not my friend again!" my daughter usually scream to me. "I hate you!" "I will not talk to you again!" Now those words would send me screaming back at her as well!
"I don't care!" "Don't come to my room ever again"! "You are not even fine like a princess again!" "Don't talk to me again,your mother is finer than you!" "I love you too!" Now I will move past her without acknowledging her presence.Will buy goodies for the house,and she'd look at me to see my reaction if she tries to cunningly take some, ofcourse behind my back.
She is a smart one though.After few hours of ignoring her,she starts crying or sobbing quietly.If I still ignore her,she hangs around me, watching me closely.If I continue to bullshit her,she runs in tears to her mum and hugs her wailing uncontrollable
THE TRUCE Now,that's the best time to ask her what the problem is? She'd look at me in those lovely eyes and not say a word."Come to daddy",then seconds she is curled round my neck and won't let me read on NL,cos she would talk and jump and rant ,and tell me all the atrocities done to her by her other siblings till she sleeps. .
Now OP,since she behaves like an adult,IGNORE her like an adult.play with others and don't try to touch her.Buy gifts but don't acknowledge she is around.Just give some to have it shared.
Do this every other time, and she will revolt,if she does still ignore.One day it will move her tears,now that's the break point you need to call a truce.
Now this is someone that understands the psychology of children.
I wonder if people of nowadays take time out to read. Did those accusing the op of pedophilia not read the part where he said the child's sister said that the child's behaviour to him is typical? Op's point is that it shouldn't be so and it is worrisome. A toddler shouldn't be bearing gudges for as long as a week. I mean, I as a full grown ass adult can't hold grudges that long, talk less a child who is guileless and pure.
nkwuocha1: Well I can relate to this with my kids, especially my daughter.
"You are not my friend again!" my daughter usually scream to me. "I hate you!" "I will not talk to you again!" Now those words would send me screaming back at her as well!
"I don't care!" "Don't come to my room ever again"! "You are not even fine like a princess again!" "Don't talk to me again,your mother is finer than you!" "I love you too!" Now I will move past her without acknowledging her presence.Will buy goodies for the house,and she'd look at me to see my reaction if she tries to cunningly take some, ofcourse behind my back.
She is a smart one though.After few hours of ignoring her,she starts crying or sobbing quietly.If I still ignore her,she hangs around me, watching me closely.If I continue to bullshit her,she runs in tears to her mum and hugs her wailing uncontrollable
THE TRUCE Now,that's the best time to ask her what the problem is? She'd look at me in those lovely eyes and not say a word."Come to daddy",then seconds she is curled round my neck and won't let me read on NL,cos she would talk and jump and rant ,and tell me all the atrocities done to her by her other siblings till she sleeps. .
Now OP,since she behaves like an adult,IGNORE her like an adult.play with others and don't try to touch her.Buy gifts but don't acknowledge she is around.Just give some to have it shared.
Do this every other time, and she will revolt,if she does still ignore.One day it will move her tears,now that's the break point you need to call a truce.
Octopusssy: I wonder if people of nowadays take time out to read. Did those accusing the op of pedophilia not read the part where he said the child's sister said that the child's behaviour to him is typical? Op's point is that it shouldn't be so and it is worrisome? A toddler shouldn't be bearing gudges for as long as a week. I mean, I as a full grown ass adult can't hold grudges that long, talk less a child who is guileless and pure.
Why must everything be about sex?
Bunch of twisted, rotten minded _fucks.
You should know that people (especially on Nairaland) are in permanent reaction mode. 90% of them do not read posts. They see a title or some words in a post and become triggered and start reacting based on past experience, even though that past experience has nothing to do with what's actually in the post.
You should know that people (especially on Nairaland) are in permanent reaction mode. 90% of them do not read posts. They see a title or some words in a post and become triggered and start reacting based on past experience, even though that past experience has nothing to do with what's actually in the post.
You should know that people (especially on Nairaland) are in permanent reaction mode. 90% of them do not read posts. They see a title or some words in a post and become triggered and start reacting based on past experience, even though that past experience has nothing to do with what's actually in the post.
Octopusssy: I wonder if people of nowadays take time out to read. Did those accusing the op of pedophilia not read the part where he said the child's sister said that the child's behaviour to him is typical? Op's point is that it shouldn't be so and it is worrisome. A toddler shouldn't be bearing gudges for as long as a week. I mean, I as a full grown ass adult can't hold grudges that long, talk less a child who is guileless and pure.
Why must everything be about sex?
Bunch of twisted, rotten minded _fucks.
You're so on point! Glad to know that there are still some smart and reasonable people on this forum.
We4all: I'm someone who gets along great with kids, (especially those in my former neighborhood). There is this particular family whose kids always come around, and they have a 2 year old who happens to be one of my favourites.
When she is around with her older siblings, I play with her and she lets me hold her. In fact, we get along great! Last week, they were at my place, and her older sibling volunteered to run an errand for me. The 2 year old wanted to go with her, but I objected.
That was my undoing! As soon as the sister stepped out, the kid became furious with me, and wouldn't let me touch her. When I tried, she kept screaming that I should leave her alone. I held her hands and tried talking to her, but she wriggled out of my grip. I must confess that I was amazed at her strength, which was like a 10 year old.
Hours passed, and I thought her anger had died. I made an attempt to touch her, but she kept screaming: "Leave me alone". They eventually left and I forgot about it.
A week passed and they came by yesterday, but to my greatest shock, she was still mad at me. All my efforts to bond with her was met with a stiff resistance, and she kept saying: " Leave me alone". I asked the sister what she thinks of her behavior, and she said the kid gets angry easily at home and her anger can last for days.
That revelation didn't go down well with me, and I have been pondering what on earth would make a kid act that way? Gone are those days when kids are usually sweet and innocent. No matter how much you discipline them, they still warm up to you.
I guess a lot is going on and the change has also affected our kids. If a little kid is overly sensitive in her ways, then what should be expected of an adult?
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She reincarnated, in her former world, she was too playful
We4all: I'm someone who gets along great with kids, (especially those in my former neighborhood). There is this particular family whose kids always come around, and they have a 2 year old who happens to be one of my favourites.
When she is around with her older siblings, I play with her and she lets me hold her. In fact, we get along great! Last week, they were at my place, and her older sibling volunteered to run an errand for me. The 2 year old wanted to go with her, but I objected.
That was my undoing! As soon as the sister stepped out, the kid became furious with me, and wouldn't let me touch her. When I tried, she kept screaming that I should leave her alone. I held her hands and tried talking to her, but she wriggled out of my grip. I must confess that I was amazed at her strength, which was like a 10 year old.
Hours passed, and I thought her anger had died. I made an attempt to touch her, but she kept screaming: "Leave me alone". They eventually left and I forgot about it.
A week passed and they came by yesterday, but to my greatest shock, she was still mad at me. All my efforts to bond with her was met with a stiff resistance, and she kept saying: " Leave me alone". I asked the sister what she thinks of her behavior, and she said the kid gets angry easily at home and her anger can last for days.
That revelation didn't go down well with me, and I have been pondering what on earth would make a kid act that way? Gone are those days when kids are usually sweet and innocent. No matter how much you discipline them, they still warm up to you.
I guess a lot is going on and the change has also affected our kids. If a little kid is overly sensitive in her ways, then what should be expected of an adult?
God be praised for liberating that kid from you paedophile
Coldplay007: you acted suspiciously. parents have hammered it into little girls' heads that they should not allow men to touch them intimately. You sent her elder one out then tried to touch her, which probably set off all the alarms in her head.
for your own good, don't ever try that kind of shit again. If it was in the US, you could be in prison now. It's her words against yours. SHe could say you were trying to touch her bumbum or something like that. Don't touch/carry kids when there are no adults around. it's too dangerous these days.
He's a pervert exposing his paedophile lifestyle online
