ednut1:
linus

bolayei:


Please how many streams of income do you have? Only in Nigeria will broke girls call a man broke. And who says men in their 30s don't last long? Do you know the older the man gets the better he is in bed? Are you better than a village girl? Now I know why those lesbian girls in dubai were dissing you.

120k is 4k naira a day for one month. I don't even spend 4k a day when I visit Nigeria. His monthly salary can pay his annual rent leave change. He is doing okay even though not rich but still a millionaire.

Can you visit a guy without him paying for your cab? Do you earn enough to buy your wig or you have streams of men that you tax here and there.
I wish our guys can size up our girls. If a girl ain't got nothing to offer but kitten especially how there are alot of runs girl to satisfy sexual urge what's the point.

Omo girl go and get something doing your mates in some other places are independent and don't depend on a man

bolayei:


Please how many streams of income do you have? Only in Nigeria will broke girls call a man broke. And who says men in their 30s don't last long? Do you know the older the man gets the better he is in bed? Are you better than a village girl? Now I know why those lesbian girls in dubai were dissing you.

120k is 4k naira a day for one month. I don't even spend 4k a day when I visit Nigeria. His monthly salary can pay his annual rent leave change. He is doing okay even though not rich but still a millionaire.

Can you visit a guy without him paying for your cab? Do you earn enough to buy your wig or you have streams of men that you tax here and there.
I wish our guys can size up our girls. If a girl ain't got nothing to offer but kitten especially how there are alot of runs girl to satisfy sexual urge what's the point.

Omo girl go and get something doing your mates in some other places are independent and don't depend on a man

Thegeneralqueen:
When they're done counting scores they'll start looking for a responsible lady to marry oga continue with your bachelor life save up to 5m before you talk about getting married 1m can't feed you not to talk of the said lady and her needs

ufotty2001:
Hello Nairalanders!
Please, I really need your advice most especially from matured men and women. Am a kind of person that don't like associating with ladies because I see them has distractions right from my University time now this has become part of my lifestyle am absolutely addicted to it.
This year will make me 35yrs old I don't have a girlfriend also I don't still have interest of becoming a married man yet reason because am still chasing my career and money.
Am a graduate, also I got qualified as a Chartered Accountant last year, currently am earning 120k per month, Am staying in one room apartment rent of N85k.. have Managed to save up to a N1m as savings.
When I see people earning even 40k married with 2 children I always feel as if something is wrong with me.

frozen70:


You say women are distractions but you have one you

Anyway, if you are not considering marriage then you are the one holding yourself

If you can manage your wife then you can manage children and the ups and downs of marriage

Start early before you train your children with pension money

bukatyne:
They have finished this OP
For marriage, the earlier the better.
The fear of training kids with pension money is real.
You also want to see your grandchildren and great grandchildren.
There are blessings in it.

ufotty2001:
Hello Nairalanders!
Please, I really need your advice most especially from matured men and women. Am a kind of person that don't like associating with ladies because I see them has distractions right from my University time now this has become part of my lifestyle am absolutely addicted to it.
This year will make me 35yrs old I don't have a girlfriend also I don't still have interest of becoming a married man yet reason because am still chasing my career and money.
Am a graduate, also I got qualified as a Chartered Accountant last year, currently am earning 120k per month, Am staying in one room apartment rent of N85k.. have Managed to save up to a N1m as savings.
When I see people earning even 40k married with 2 children I always feel as if something is wrong with me.

alphaNomega:


Only you can decide to get married. I appreciate your courage coming online to share your problems.

Nothing is wrong with you, the decision to marry has not been made yet and it is never too late to find a partner.

truthsayer009:


God help this country. Why is a Chartered Accountant earning 120k. God why?

Are you sure you are a real Chartered Accountant

Kylekent59:
[s]Find a girl, if at all you love her, plan with her that she should pretend that she is pregnant and you are responsible .

She tells her parents, you too do the same. You will see how arrangements would be made and you become a married man before weekend.[/s]

ufotty2001:
thanks! Really appreciate you

Blackmiserable:


My dear friend, high five jare, ah, but the way the first lady lambasted you got me laughing, laughing really hard. She took her time to dig up your profile, perhaps she was interested but one comment, just one comment and boom. One must be careful what to say, you may say something hurtful and ten years later, the wounds are still there. That was really harsh of you to say though, if I am being honest. Looks like everything here was pre-planned just to give lurkers a very good laugh. 1m savings is enough to get married on low-key, but even more, you also have a job that pays 120k (something substantial is always coming in and that makes a world of difference), just some heads up.

Gerrard59:


That is not true. At an older age, the pen!s is weak, sperm's qualities have reduced and he lacks energy to thrust in as its counterpart in his 20s. Life challenges sef won't make him to be mentally capable to thrust unlike a JAMBITE. So why compare a 35 year old man to a 20 year old lad when it comes to sex (provided both parties have similar health profiles)?

[s]Regarding your last statement, well, women are hypergamous and will always want a man who earns more than they (women) do. Whether she's independent or not is irrelevant to hypergamy[/s].

Nnemuka:

You see how everyone is politely asking you to take your time, dont rush, marriage is not a do or die affair etc... especially females. Nobody is pointing out that you are a MIDNIGHT NEWSPAPER, who might be needing energy drinks to stay ontop a woman for 2mins atleast.

well reason I am saying this is that I came across your post calling someone's girlfriend an evening newspaper but here you are, earning poorly, living in a self contain at 35, yet nobody is attacking you.
At 35 you should quit being silly

Nnemuka:

You see how everyone is politely asking you to take your time, dont rush, marriage is not a do or die affair etc... especially females. Nobody is pointing out that you are a MIDNIGHT NEWSPAPER, who might be needing energy drinks to stay ontop a woman for 2mins atleast.

well reason I am saying this is that I came across your post calling someone's girlfriend an evening newspaper but here you are, earning poorly, living in a self contain at 35, yet nobody is attacking you.
At 35 you should quit being silly