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41 Things A Woman Should Do To Get Her Man To Marry Her. by Allsingles: 8:47am On Jan 24, 2020
The nightmare of so many ladies that are rip for marriage but her man has not made any move regarding taking her down the aisle has been, how can i make him see reasons why he should marry me.

Carefully go down the article and discover what to you should do to make him marry you.
1) Do what he asks you to do, without question. If a man asks you for a favor, and you question him and say “why”…he will instantly feel like you just don’t want to do it. If you have to ask him why, it sounds like you need him to CONVINCE you to do it. If he has to convince you to do things, do you really understand him?

2) Maintain yourself. Men are visual, which means if you let yourself go, he will lose interest. He doesn’t want to commit to a woman who is only going to get worse. Maintain yourself physically and health wise, to prove you are willing to be the best you can be for him.

3) Trust him. Don’t be scared that he’s going to run off with some other woman, or that he’s lying to you about everything.

4) Regularly give him space. Every guy wants time alone for himself. We all need our personal space, and it’s better if you can give that to him without him having to ask for it or beg you. Do it naturally, and he will appreciate you and think you are marriage material.

5) Be there for him, even if he says nothing about the problem. Show you are supportive of him, by BEING there; WITHOUT questioning him on the problem that is facing him.

6) Be financially dependent. It can help a man to know that you aren’t going to take every last penny he has. Some men fear marriage, because they are afraid of losing all of their money (in a divorce, or even just because of a wife’s spending).

7) Compliment him always, it makes him to believe that you like him and you admire him.
cool Learn his insecurities. It’s not something people walk around talking about, but sometimes a man hints that he is insecure about something, so that you can avoid the topic or avoid hurting him in the future.

9) Don’t act out toward your man. If he says something that hurts your feelings, or if he does something you disagree with, be Matured in dealing with the issue. Most women’s first reactions would be to become dramatic and emotional and nagging the guy. Don’t do this…because it tells him that you are a nightmare to be married to, because instead of remaining calm and allowing him some room to improve, you are just lashing out at him.

10) Accept responsibility in a fight. Every relationship has its moments where they are disagreements and fights (I don't mean physical asualts). The difference between a healthy relationship that encourages a man to marry you, and an unhealthy marriage that pushes a man away is blame or responsibility.
11) Learn to take a joke, even if its personal. Joke with him, give him the chance as well to joke with you, it creates bound of love between you guys.

12) Learn to accept his criticism. Men criticize to see improvement, and they do it in order to try to help you see things in a different light. They also criticize to try and show you a solution or a better way to do something, if they see you are struggling and this is why you should learn how to take criticism, because if you freak out every time he criticizes you, you tell him that you won’t be able to improve in the future.

13) Be serious where it’s necessary. There’s nothing more discouraging, or annoying to a man, for a woman who does not take SERIOUS issues seriously. A serious issue is something that he considers to be important, and if you can’t take it seriously, he thinks that you don’t take HIM or yourself seriously.

14) Keep your promises. Don't promise what you can not do for, to also force him to do something is not willing or ready to do for you. Anything you should promise, should be something you are 100% sure that you will do within short time.
15) Don’t use excuses. Excuses has destroyed so many marriages, it has destroyed so many relationships that was built to last because one of the parties allowed it.

16) Be comfortable around him. He wants to grab your love handles, and suddenly you are pulling away, asking him if he thinks you are fat. You also become insecure when he wants to make love to you or you just struggle to open up to him. All of these things tell him that you are not comfortable around him, it makes him feel insecure, and also makes him question the point of marrying you.

17) Show love with action. Sure, you said you love him but words only get you so far. He wants to see you showing it with your actions.
18) Don’t be afraid to draw the lines. Give him that attention, he wants it, give him the line of your love for him, and watch him follow you.

19) Show appreciation. Appreciate everything he is doing for the good of both of you. Appreciating him will give him the courage to do more for you.
20) Encourage him to succeed daily. Be a motivator for him and not someone who discourages him in so many angle.

21) Take his problem solving advice. When he advise you on how to tackle a problem, endeavor to accept it. Go with it, don't reject it even if you think it may not go as supposed.
22) Be calm when he is stressed. When a man is stressed it can be a HUGE problem, because he acts out of character, is unpredictable, may lash out at you, and may... https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/01/41-things-woman-should-do-to-get-her.html
Re: 41 Things A Woman Should Do To Get Her Man To Marry Her. by money121(m): 9:01am On Jan 24, 2020
Nice info
Re: 41 Things A Woman Should Do To Get Her Man To Marry Her. by Osobi32(m): 9:16am On Jan 24, 2020
70% correct
Re: 41 Things A Woman Should Do To Get Her Man To Marry Her. by Goldenblogger: 11:37am On Jan 24, 2020
Nice Piece

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