Why do girls change their feelings so quickly and once their minds are made up you can never change it. Why do guys always hurt more after the breakup and why do girls always want to be friends?There's a saying, the relationship is over once the woman withdraws.Is it always true?

the feeling of love, care and affection are driven mostly from the heart but we all know that these feelings can be overridden by the brain anytime we found ourselves in "difficult" situation.
our lives are normally driven by 50%heart/50%brain. . . . . .some 60/40 or more.when crazy shiit happens, you have to let your brain takeover and be 100% in control.

point in hand: you love someone to death but that person did something that you are TOTALLY against. although you still love them(love cant be shut down at the flick of a switch), you have to let your brain take over your life and act accordingly. your brain will override any action that your heart wants you to do, for the benefit of SANITY.

expecting people to stick with someone they love, regardless of what they are doing in this relationship, is not only STOOPID but also DANGEROUS!

nice question. but there is no correct answer for all.