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Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Kursk2019(m): 7:30pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
I would suggest u and ur husband should reach an accord on letting the girl know the privilege she have over other kids. She needs to know she I privileged to have a luxirious life so she shouldnt mistake what is good for what is fun.let her see how the street is, kids on d street, life on the street, experience a little on the street.after that ask her which one she prefers. |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by adedayourt(m): 7:36pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
It takes the grace of God to raise children even when parents give them good upbringing. Reason because they get a lot of external influence most coming from friends, social media accessible by phones. Learnt a few things Never allow your children to a sophisticated phone until they turn 18. Forget the 21st century vogue and protect the sanctity of your child. Always make your child your best friend that they feel extremely comfortable sharing their hearts with you. That way they come to you for a second opinion when a bad influence is about to penetrate. 1 Like |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by SpartanKing: 7:43pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
QuickStandard:I like that! 1 Like |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by fineboynl(m): 7:53pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
If those children already test penis. There is nothing you people can do anymore. It's finished. They will result to chronic masturbator beside 10mins is enough to bang any dick behind your back. 1 Like |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Nolongthing88(m): 7:57pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
It's a wake up call for you and your wife to play your parental role very well. 1 Like |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Cheeryfeet: 7:59pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
It's very sad and heart breaking, I can only imagine. But you and yours husband should stop playing blame game and come together to fight what's before you. Satan has entered your home and he brought his ultimate weapon, divide and conquer. So you must come back as one, with one heart, one mind and one voice and fight. I believe you are Christians, the first thing you must do is to intercede for them regularly, then when you speak to them to advise or counsel them your words will have weight in their hearts. It's not a time to cry or to blame yourselves. It's time to fight for the destiny of your children. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Rolex66: 8:00pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
One of the the many downsides of over permissive and negligent parenting. If you don't create time to talk to your child, trust me, other people will have her ears. My dad drilled those juvenile tendencies out of me but I still went ballistic after my secondary school. Tough times reset my brain and I stumbled on God after roaming aimlessly in the wilderness . I just realised that we must fill that God shaped vacuum inside of us before we find our purpose. 1 Like |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Nobody: 8:02pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
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Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Bishop(m): 8:03pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
budaatum: Exactly my thoughts too, i won't advise differently. Send your niece away and enjoy peace with your daughter. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Amanda4life: 8:08pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
I'm blaming you also. Why should be going to work and Left . them at home. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by CreativeJerry(m): 8:21pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
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Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Queenellahrose: Bring her back to naija and enrol her in a Catholic boarding school like Jesuit College. Let her start from JSS3 or SS1, that way she'll spend at least 3 more years there. They also have music, performing arts, and painting in their curriculum. There are monthly visiting days when you can come visit her, and during holidays adjust your work hours so you can spend quality time at home with her as a mother. At that age, children need strong moral upbringing and since both you and hubby aren't always at home this might be a better solution. Our present society is a poor model for bringing up kids unlike when our parents grew up in the 60s and 70s. She's 14, time's running out for y'all because very soon she'll be 18 and leave your home. I don't like to say this but it's the truth, God will judge any parent that fails to bring up their children well especially if the parent had a chance to get it right. Take heart. |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by greenguy: 8:32pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
budaatum: Read again, they raised both girls. 2 Likes |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Luckybelt: 8:34pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Inyayiz: Your story also cut my attention. Pls what kind of school would a counselor refuse a child doing what she has desire for? |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by omohlexy: 8:35pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Like mother like daughter. Nonsense! See how the interrupted my weeding session with rubbish news. In short okoli,pass me the kpoli. |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Queenellahrose: 8:40pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Amanda4life: It’s not easy living in a country with no family support, we have rent , bills and school fees to pay and we had no other choice than leaving them at home alone. I do get home at 8pm mon to sat. I hate working long hours and spending less time with my kids but I have to because my husband has never made enough money for us to live off his salary alone and due to some circumstances i was the sole breadwinner for 7 months last year (story for another day). 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by pennywys(m): 8:43pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
budaatum:were you there to know who led the other astray? Don't be a demon |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by budaatum: 8:46pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
pennywys: 1 Share
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Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by DADYMIKE(m): 9:02pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
So sorry ma But sending your cousin away is not the solution, the friends they make will still come after your daughter, and infact you can't monitor a child over a habit, you only need to teach them how to fight their addiction or bad character. Another thing is that, parent fail when they think that provision for the physical thing of their child is all a child needs,no ma, children need attention of both parents, you and your husband really need to sit down and talk on how to create time for her,she your only future and the reason why you are working,if she is good, your hard work will pay and if she's bad, your hard work will go down the drain, you really need to create time to ask her what she going through, how you can be of help because this is what she lack and she went out to look for it, please ma, even if it will cost you your job, you really need to do this because she will be emotionally down currently which if persist can lead to another thing and I pray the spirit of the Lord will touch her and your niece and they will be hundreds and thousands for you |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Jaqenhghar: 9:15pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Tomjazzy2:Leave matter. I have seen parents who did their homework. Spent ebough time with the kids , went the discipline route and the children ended up fúcked up. I swear the thought of raising children gives me the chills. 1 Like |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Jaqenhghar: 9:17pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
DADYMIKE:It may not solve the matter and it may. I know of 2 girls who were friends and used to get into trouble. Their parents seperated them. I swear after the seperation both girls became A students. Focused and very good 1 Like |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Opinedecandid(m): 9:25pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Queenellahrose:It is *AT HOME* that children should learn to say: 01 - Hello 02 - Good afternoon 03 - Good evening 04 - Please 05 - May I 06 - Sorry 07 - Forgive me 08 - Thank you very much 09 - Thank you 10 - I was wrong It is *AT HOME l* that we also learn to: 01 - Be honest 02 - Be punctual 03 - Not insult 04 - Be polite 05 - Respect everyone: friends, colleagues, elders, teachers, authorities Again *at home* we learn to: 01 - Eat everything 02 - Not speak with a mouth full 03 - Have personal hygiene 04 - Not throw waste on the ground 05 - Help parents accomplish their daily tasks 06 - Not take what does not belong to you Still *At home* we learn to: 01 - Be organized 02 - Take care of our business 03 - Not touch other people's belongings 04 - Respect the rules, 05 - Speak our mother tongue (s), master our culture and ancestral spirituality Because *AT SCHOOL* teachers should teach: ■ Mathematics ■ Spanish ■ History ■ Geography ■ Foreign language ■ Science ■ Chemistry ■ Physics ■ Biology ■ Philosophy ■ Sociology ■ Physical education ■ Art ... And only reinforce what the student has learned *AT HOME* !!! Because it is from what we learned *AT HOME* that we, individuals will be respected, that we will respect the life, freedom and property of all. "A CAMPAIGN AGAINST THE PERVERSION OF VALUES AND IN FAVOR OF THE FAMILY AND A BETTER WORLD !!!" *Please send to all your contacts !!!* *All families let’s fight together as one!!!* |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by wanney: 9:26pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
There is no best way to parent a child. You can only try your best and leave the rest to God. In this case will advise you send your niece back home, she has an accomplice who is aiding and abetting the behaviors and your niece is the number one suspect. You can equally change her school, the accomplice could be in her school. Meanwhile have a heart to heart talk with your daughter, remind her that when all the chips are down she has only you and her dad and you will always be there for her, make her your friend and try to understand her interest and for her sake dedicate some time to same interest. For now try and build her person so she doesnt get easily influenced or do such things again. Also pray for her and with her. Pls don't give up on her. She is still in her formative years 2 Likes |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Jonovo98: 9:37pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
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Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by obinike(m): 9:46pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Please put yourself together now, be strong and never give room for defeat/devil. Your husband and daughter need your more at this moment. Drop your pains, rise up and take charge of your home, how? Release hands of friendship to your husband.... accept the blame though it might be difficult so that both of you can face the real challenge.... Above all your daughter needs more love, friendship, encouragement and motivation than before. Loneliness can aggravate unwanted traits that are brutal that what you have withnessed. May God grant you wisdom and strength. |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Mosco100(m): 9:53pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household. |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Gee64: 10:05pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Exuberance is the hallmark of the youth. They like to explore and dare... They need counselling. Talk one-on-one with your daughter and let her know the implication of what she's doing! Any way our FREE DRAWS made a winning line with my single stakes! See my signature for link please if interested and thank me later! |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by yoged(m): 10:16pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
This is one of the sh1t I don't ever want to have female children. . The fear of this . but God so good my first born was female . May God give me and my wife the strength to bring her up in a good way. |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by kingbasuraiii(m): 10:18pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Inyayiz:you know I blamed my mum recently because I could've studied a different course or career.. when I was young, I jokingly told her that I wanted to be a lawyer, she said God forbid then, that lawyers are always killed and so on... fast forward to my Senior secondary, I went to science class and I had the best result through out ss1, but I noticed I started losing interest in ss2 but then I couldn't switch anymore... I almost dropped out of school then... I just had to do something that gave me interest then |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by luluosas(m): 10:19pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Madam, this is so heart broken I must confess. But, please, find your way to Jesus Christ Temple Ministry, Warri, Delta State, Nigeria, this coming Wednesday. I promise you, everything will be fine by the grace of God. Meanwhile, attachments, trousers, paintings, artificial nails and eyes lashes, mini skirts, chains and jewelries are highly FORBIDDEN IN THE CHURCH, its a holy ground where God dwell. Come and experience true deliverance and yours household shall be set free in Jesus name. Amen. Please, come. Take heart. Queenellahrose: |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by MCLION1(f): 10:48pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Sorry to hear your story. Please I will like to post this on Linkedin, and let's hear from people there |
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