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What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Dataanallysst: 12:14pm On Jan 25, 2020
I just moved to a new city. Then I went for an interview where I met this damsel she was very okay, very pretty lady. We got talking and luckily we both finished the interview at the same Time. As we got talking further I got to know we both moved in newly and funniest thing was we stay in the same area. We exchanged contacts and we even took the same bike home. Then we started chatting on phone. The chemistry was there and for 4 days we were chatting intensely. Then on Thursday she just read my message without replying then as a bad guy sef I lock up throughout yesterday. The thing is I know as a lady she might want to do shakara so I don't know if I should text her again?
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by superability(m): 12:15pm On Jan 25, 2020
Op what is your question or confusion

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by nlPoster: 12:16pm On Jan 25, 2020
Well, just dont say she treated you like a piece of shit.
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Dataanallysst: 12:17pm On Jan 25, 2020
superability:
Op what is your question or confusion
I just completed the story
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Starz825(m): 12:17pm On Jan 25, 2020
superability:
Op what is your question or confusion
Op just wan inform Abt him new babe... mtcheew

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Dataanallysst: 12:17pm On Jan 25, 2020
nlPoster:
Well, just dont say she treated you like a piece of shit.
I have completed the story you can read it
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Dataanallysst: 12:18pm On Jan 25, 2020
Starz825:

Op just wan inform Abt him new babe... mtcheew
I have completed the story you can read the conclusion
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Chizuru01(m): 12:20pm On Jan 25, 2020
Get a job or whatever you think you have for her will definitely end in tears and heartbreak

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by nlPoster: 12:20pm On Jan 25, 2020
Dataanallysst:

I have completed the story you can read it

Sure!
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Dataanallysst: 12:24pm On Jan 25, 2020
Chizuru01:
Get a job or whatever you think you have for her will definitely end in tears and heartbreak
Haba na curse?
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by donbachi(m): 12:45pm On Jan 25, 2020
u never even testify for church how GOD give u job...if atall u don get d job....na to come dey testify of a girl...see ur life.

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Dataanallysst: 12:52pm On Jan 25, 2020
donbachi:
u never even testify for church how GOD give u job...if atall u don get d job....na to come dey testify of a girl...see ur life.
You people no well I swear
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by donbachi(m): 12:53pm On Jan 25, 2020
Dataanallysst:
You people no well I swear
na now u dey know?
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by AmazingDesigns: 12:54pm On Jan 25, 2020
Lol. It's their normal behaviour. That is to act all interested and then leave you hanging when they see you're hooked.

The plan is to subconsciously make you wonder which will make you want them more. That's when you're hooked.

Manipulation 101.
I even read it in a book someone recommended here on nairaland. I use the principle myself when needed.

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Dataanallysst: 12:59pm On Jan 25, 2020
AmazingDesigns:
Lol. It's their normal behaviour. That is to act all interested and then leave you hanging when they see you're hooked.

The plan is to subconsciously make wonder which will make you want them more. That's when you're hooked.

Manipulation 101.
I even read it in a book someone recommended here on nairaland. I use the principle myself when needed.
Nice one bro. So what's the way forward?
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Lamanii22(f): 1:07pm On Jan 25, 2020
donbachi:
u never even testify for church how GOD give u job...if atall u don get d job....na to come dey testify of a girl...see ur life.

I reasoned that too lol...
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by AmazingDesigns: 1:08pm On Jan 25, 2020
Dataanallysst:

Nice one bro. So what's the way forward?

Unhook yourself.
Spend more time with the guys and meet new girls (not girl). You'll see that they're really mostly the same.

Show her that she is just an option by making your job a priority. Don't tell her.

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Nobody: 1:22pm On Jan 25, 2020
All this I will not chat, I will not chat stuff is very childish. I'm also guilty of it but I think its very silly and risky as it has coat me and someone that truly love each other to lose a sweet relationship that only just started and was suppose to yield something fruitful.
It is called pride.
Let try to deal with it. For all you know, she may just ha e sighted the message and not really read it and prolly got hooked up in tight schedule; waiting when shes less busy to reply, here you are concluding. It may even be she saw it, yes. But what stops you from texting her to ask why she didn't reply. if you do and she says she doesn't feel like it, know she's lost interest. But if f she also attacks you back with same question, know its that pride of a thing.

This thing is common between people who fancy themselves though. But I realy wish it could stop.

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by superfitsez(m): 1:35pm On Jan 25, 2020
AdorableSapphir:
All this I will not chat, I will not chat stuff is very childish. I'm also guilty of it but I think its very silly and risky as it has coat me and someone that truly love each other to lose a sweet relationship that only just started and was suppose to yield something fruitful.
It is called pride.
Let try to deal with it. For all you know, she may just ha e sighted the message and not really read it and prolly got hooked up in tight schedule; waiting when shes less busy to reply, here you are concluding. It may even be she saw it, yes. But what stops you from texting her to ask why she didn't reply. if you do and she says she doesn't feel like it, know she's lost interest. But if f she also attacks you back with same question, know its that pride of a thing.

This thing is common between people who fancy themselves though. But I realy wish it could stop.
shatap...she dey do shakara

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Dataanallysst: 1:35pm On Jan 25, 2020
AdorableSapphir:
All this I will not chat, I will not chat stuff is very childish. I'm also guilty of it but I think its very silly and risky as it has coat me and someone that truly love each other to lose a sweet relationship that only just started and was suppose to yield something fruitful.
It is called pride.
Let try to deal with it. For all you know, she may just ha e sighted the message and not really read it and prolly got hooked up in tight schedule; waiting when shes less busy to reply, here you are concluding. It may even be she saw it, yes. But what stops you from texting her to ask why she didn't reply. if you do and she says she doesn't feel like it, know she's lost interest. But if f she also attacks you back with same question, know its that pride of a thing.

This thing is common between people who fancy themselves though. But I realy wish it could stop.
You have a point. But I am sure she did it intentionally
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Juliet11111(f): 3:48pm On Jan 25, 2020
Dataanallysst:

I have completed the story you can read the conclusion
you must have mis-yarned in one of your conversations or she may have probably seen one of your pics or posts on Facebook or some other media and never liked what she saw. She may not like your voice on phone. You guys took bike (okada) back home dammit. Not even a chartered cab or something. She may have sighted the poverty or stinginess in you who knows. We girls are highly complicated.

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Nobody: 4:11pm On Jan 25, 2020
Dataanallysst:
I just moved to a new city. Then I went for an interview where I met this damsel she was very okay, very pretty lady. We got talking and luckily we both finished the interview at the same Time. As we got talking further I got to know we both moved in newly and funniest thing was we stay in the same area. We exchanged contacts and we even took the same bike home. Then we started chatting on phone. The chemistry was there and for 4 days we were chatting intensely. Then on Thursday she just read my message without replying then as a bad guy sef I lock up throughout yesterday. The thing is I know as a lady she might want to do shakara so I don't know if I should text her again?
She wants you to stop all the chatting and fix a normal date.... Take her on a date, on the second date, go for the kiss.

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Dataanallysst: 4:12pm On Jan 25, 2020
anjorin4:
She wants you to stop all the chatting and fix a normal date.... Take her on a date, on the second date, go for the kiss.
Mmmm
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by crackkhaus: 4:29pm On Jan 25, 2020
Dataanallysst:
I just moved to a new city. Then I went for an interview where I met this damsel she was very okay, very pretty lady. We got talking and luckily we both finished the interview at the same Time. As we got talking further I got to know we both moved in newly and funniest thing was we stay in the same area. We exchanged contacts and we even took the same bike home. Then we started chatting on phone. The chemistry was there and for 4 days we were chatting intensely. Then on Thursday she just read my message without replying then as a bad guy sef I lock up throughout yesterday. The thing is I know as a lady she might want to do shakara so I don't know if I should text her again?
Leave her be.
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by BareFacedLies(m): 4:33pm On Jan 25, 2020
You too should lock up for the time being until you both bump into each other again
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Dataanallysst: 5:22pm On Jan 25, 2020
BareFacedLies:
You too should lock up for the time being until you both bump into each other again
Exactly
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by kilojoDesigns: 5:29pm On Jan 25, 2020
These girls test us bro, no go write exam and forget to sign your name for attendance. shocked
Ask her out if she agree and tell her you didn't feel good when she left you unread. Tell her those things don't get to you but you don't know why it did in her case. If she doesn't agree or does not even reply the asking out message. Still tell her about it there. You've signed attendance.

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Jan 25, 2020
Juliet11111:

you must have mis-yarned in one of your conversations or she may have probably seen one of your pics or posts on Facebook or some other media and never liked what she saw. She may not like your voice on phone. You guys took bike (okada) back home dammit. Not even a chartered cab or something. She may have sighted the poverty or stinginess in you who knows. We girls are highly complicated.
was she not planning to take okada home before meeting him?
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Jozzy4: 5:38pm On Jan 25, 2020
Lostz:
was she not planning to take okada home before meeting him?

Juliet11111 is just teasing him. On every thread, someone must act like a clown ��
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by Ramon92: 8:28pm On Jan 25, 2020
Dataanallysst:
I just moved to a new city. Then I went for an interview where I met this damsel she was very okay, very pretty lady. We got talking and luckily we both finished the interview at the same Time. As we got talking further I got to know we both moved in newly and funniest thing was we stay in the same area. We exchanged contacts and we even took the same bike home. Then we started chatting on phone. The chemistry was there and for 4 days we were chatting intensely. Then on Thursday she just read my message without replying then as a bad guy sef I lock up throughout yesterday. The thing is I know as a lady she might want to do shakara so I don't know if I should text her again?
You ought to be the one to do this first, and as it stands, she got the edge after the first leg - psychologically.. you need to Channel your inner cr7 to overturn this deficit..

Good luck. wink

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by kecee99(m): 11:02pm On Jan 25, 2020
Dataanallysst:
I just moved to a new city. Then I went for an interview where I met this damsel she was very okay, very pretty lady. We got talking and luckily we both finished the interview at the same Time. As we got talking further I got to know we both moved in newly and funniest thing was we stay in the same area. We exchanged contacts and we even took the same bike home. Then we started chatting on phone. The chemistry was there and for 4 days we were chatting intensely. Then on Thursday she just read my message without replying then as a bad guy sef I lock up throughout yesterday. The thing is I know as a lady she might want to do shakara so I don't know if I should text her again?
What did you guys discussed about
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation With A Lady? by kecee99(m): 11:07pm On Jan 25, 2020
Juliet11111:

you must have mis-yarned in one of your conversations or she may have probably seen one of your pics or posts on Facebook or some other media and never liked what she saw. She may not like your voice on phone. You guys took bike (okada) back home dammit. Not even a chartered cab or something. She may have sighted the poverty or stinginess in you who knows. We girls are highly complicated.
Are you insinuating that op has to be a perfect man to date her

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