Expensiverichyb:
My own fears are:
1. Marrying someone who will not understand me.
2. Someone who wouldn't trust me.
3. Someone who can't easily let go of little thing.
I can't stand someone keeping malice with me. So scary

Aldebarann:
@Vickydankal

Physiological and emotional suppression over the years. That’s emotions not expressed from childhood

The emboldened sums me up to an extent! Growing up, i lived in different places with different people. As young & inexperienced as I was, I struggled with isolation for the most part of my teenage years, so I got used to “coping” on my own.
Those weren’t good days but hey, life goes on
I am glad your husband is improving.
Keep up the good work. I wish you & yours all the best.
Good night

vickydankal:


Your fear is a sign of responsibility
Just balance the fear else you will end up not getting married on time and when you do you will focus on making money for the family while staving then your attention and time .

Hamachi:
Singles drop your fears about marriage and let the married ones clear your doubts.

Me: Cheating and fear of marring my enemy

Winneygirl:
Maybe scared that I might not marry someone who's my true friend.
I believe friendship remains where love fades.
Maybe if I marry someone whom we connect on a friendship level, then maybe we'll build a family centered on love, truth and finding happiness in the little things in life.

Houseofglam7:
The things I fear usually happen....so I won't be going into marriage with any fear(s)

drmikeadams:
fear of marrying a vandalised ,packaged runs geh

Annstar:
my fear is finding the right man

AmKen:


Thats why you need to marry from your friends.

Or someone you know very well.

This is where dating also comes in.

farady:
@Vickydankal, I just love your beautiful responses of counsel and encouragement. That's the hallmark of a woman who is continuously working to build a happy home and showing "upcoming stars" the way.

God bless you and your family.

Annstar:
my dear I have been doing that..

I just pray he shows up soon

addictiv:
The fear of loosing the initial attraction along the line and the marriage turning to a brother/sister kind of relationship where we no longer get attracted to each other and just cohabiting and focusing on work and kids

Blakjewelry:

LOL seriously if I can have my way, it's just straight out of the registry to reception. White man style, but our ladies no wan hear that one

bukatyne:
Funny thread.

Nobody is afraid they would be the wrong spouse for their partner or/and unable to provide the right support.

Most peeps don't even know themselves and what is good for them.

Others mistake 'nice to have' as priority and lose sight of the important things.

PrimadonnaO:
I won't say I have any marriage phobia per se... not even the common fear of hubby cheating. Nahh, I don't fear for that. Because somewhere deep down in my heart, I know God will lead me right...

If there's anything I'll count as fearful, it will be the thought of having a badly behaved child. But I guess raising the children right from day 1 should fix that...

Lamanii22:



Even when you raise a child right... He still would make his own choice... Our prayers should be that they don't go astray and that they shouldn't make wrong choices...

AmKen:


We have good men everywhere dear.

Are you the right woman. You mostly attract your kind.

First point of call is to br the right woman, the right man will find you.

Chinyerelove:
Marrying a man who doesn't care if I'm happy or not

Chinyerelove:
Marrying a man who doesn't care if I'm happy or not