Please I will like your honest suggestion with reasons on this.

She (Let's just call her Ada) stays with her sister and in-law, but her sister that she is staying with, feels she need some space with her husband, so she plans to settle her sister (Ada) in a way, so Ada can stand on her own and leave her home for her.

Ada is also tired of staying in her sister's place and she also need a space for herself. Ada is about 24 years old.

Note, Ada's sister is a police officer, likewise the husband. So on the settlement ground, she gave Ada two options to choose from, so Ada can leave her house and give her space. So she offered Ada to choose from sponsoring her to catering school or joining the police. At least as a police officer, coupled with her force husband too, they will certainly have the connection of easily having Ada join the police.

On the two options, she preferred Ada to join the police than sponsoring her to catering school, while on the contrary, Ada prefers going to catering school, so she can find something doing for herself after the catering school.

Now if you are Ada, what will you do? Will you press on to be sponsored for catering school or just give up to join the police against your wish, since joining the police will be an easier way out of leaving the sister's home?

Please your humble submission with reasons are needed for better decision.

Mode please move to front page

your last sentence corrupted my memory card. I`m sorry i can`t help

Do what puts food on your table and takes care of your immediate needs.

But what does any of this have to be with being a lady?

elektra:
But what does any of this have to be with being a lady?

Cos it is lady that is involved

bongolistik:
Please I will like your honest suggestion with reasons on this.

She (Let's just call her Ada) stays with her sister and in-law, but her sister that she is staying with, feels she need some space with her husband, so she plans to settle her sister (Ada) in a way, so Ada can stand on her own and leave her home for her.

Ada is also tired of staying in her sister's place and she also need a space for herself. Ada is about 24 years old.

Note, Ada's sister is a police officer, likewise the husband. So on the settlement ground, she gave Ada two options to choose from, so Ada can leave her house and give her space. So she offered Ada to choose from sponsoring her to catering school or joining the police. At least as a police officer, coupled with her force husband too, they will certainly have the connection of easily having Ada join the police.

On the two options, she preferred Ada to join the police than sponsoring her to catering school, while on the contrary, Ada prefers going to catering school, so she can find something doing for herself after the catering school.

Now if you are Ada, what will you do? Will you press on to be sponsored for catering school or just give up to join the police against your wish, since joining the police will be an easier way out of leaving the sister's home?

Please your humble submission with reasons are needed for better decision.

Mode please move to front page

Ada, choose police. You can become caterer later.

I will join police and use my salary money to send myself to catering school.

Because, while it is true that a bird in hand is better than two birds in the bush and all, two birds in my hand is much better than one bird.

Join the police force, she can always learn any skill while working.

no join police oo,they dem dey carry curse

Join police, after the catering school what next?pls don't miss this golden opportunity,many both male and female has seek and didn't get.you will even get better men(your colleagues) there to select and marry if it where your mind dey go!

Join the police force

bongolistik:
Please I will like your honest suggestion with reasons on this.

She (Let's just call her Ada) stays with her sister and in-law, but her sister that she is staying with, feels she need some space with her husband, so she plans to settle her sister (Ada) in a way, so Ada can stand on her own and leave her home for her.

Ada is also tired of staying in her sister's place and she also need a space for herself. Ada is about 24 years old.

Note, Ada's sister is a police officer, likewise the husband. So on the settlement ground, she gave Ada two options to choose from, so Ada can leave her house and give her space. So she offered Ada to choose from sponsoring her to catering school or joining the police. At least as a police officer, coupled with her force husband too, they will certainly have the connection of easily having Ada join the police.

On the two options, she preferred Ada to join the police than sponsoring her to catering school, while on the contrary, Ada prefers going to catering school, so she can find something doing for herself after the catering school.

Now if you are Ada, what will you do? Will you press on to be sponsored for catering school or just give up to join the police against your wish, since joining the police will be an easier way out of leaving the sister's home?

Please your humble submission with reasons are needed for better decision.

Mode please move to front page

Allow Ada to do what she likes na. She wants catering, fine. Since you specified that Ada needs advice as a woman and you people believe that cooking was programmed into a woman alongside her 'woman parts', then allow her to go to catering school.

bongolistik:
Please I will like your honest suggestion with reasons on this.

She (Let's just call her Ada) stays with her sister and in-law, but her sister that she is staying with, feels she need some space with her husband, so she plans to settle her sister (Ada) in a way, so Ada can stand on her own and leave her home for her.

Ada is also tired of staying in her sister's place and she also need a space for herself. Ada is about 24 years old.

Note, Ada's sister is a police officer, likewise the husband. So on the settlement ground, she gave Ada two options to choose from, so Ada can leave her house and give her space. So she offered Ada to choose from sponsoring her to catering school or joining the police. At least as a police officer, coupled with her force husband too, they will certainly have the connection of easily having Ada join the police.

On the two options, she preferred Ada to join the police than sponsoring her to catering school, while on the contrary, Ada prefers going to catering school, so she can find something doing for herself after the catering school.

Now if you are Ada, what will you do? Will you press on to be sponsored for catering school or just give up to join the police against your wish, since joining the police will be an easier way out of leaving the sister's home?

Please your humble submission with reasons are needed for better decision.

Mode please move to front page

Pls forget about catering school for now, you can always go for it

Join the police and be engaged with your job after training

You have to be humble and modest to get a husband as a police woman

Don't allow the uniform get into your head else you lose your track