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Why Having A Same Sex Bestie As Your Lover Is Wrong by wheelzcoded(m): 10:25am On Feb 08, 2020
How having a same sex Bestie as your Partner makes you a cheat

Individuals these days have taken to the option of having someone who’s gon be close to them, who they could share all of their pains, secrets, emotional disorders, partner’s misbehavior and thus expect to be advised, consoled , and pet them like babies.

This attitudes these days are mostly acted by the female partners in every love affair.

The set of friends are mostly tagged “Besties” by these females .

Funny enough , most of the ladies so called “Besties” are of the same sex with their boyfriends.

Now, let me tell you why it will hurt you so much and your love life if you ever thought of having a same sex Bestie as your Lover.

True, some of the girls prefer having someone they can trust with their secrets and one whom won’t try to hurt them down with their flaws in times of disagreement.

But you could entrust one of your female friends if that’s the case.

As long as a man has a heart, a body, a brain and a penis, forget the closeness, in as much you ain’t his blood, his mind would always go deep in between your thighs even if he takes the moves so slowly.

One, when you have a male Bestie, you chose to meet him in private places where you two could discuss about your problems and he will literally tell you little about his own probs in his relationship so you will feel he got no intentions since he has told you openly he got a girl and he knows you got a boyfriend .

But believe me, the moment you start to spill out your emotions out to him, I mean your issues with boo , he will be moved to pet you which is exactly what you want. But this pet will trigger something in him which he might not say on the first day.. but slowly he will change especially when he sees his advises to you to help improve your relationship is working fine and the attention you gave to him initially has dropped drastically because you are now often with boo.

Jealousy will come in.. Maybe once or twice, he would try to smile it off. But deep down he also has problems in his own relationship too which you barely now because he wouldn’t want to tell you all of the problems he’s facing with his his girlfriend so you don’t see him as someone who can’t help since his own issue is greater than yours.

he’s a guy ohh… he would always have his https://netbreeze.com.ng/2020/02/08/bestie-boyfriend-could-make-you-a-cheat/]

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Re: Why Having A Same Sex Bestie As Your Lover Is Wrong by Coolkhat: 10:32am On Feb 08, 2020
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Re: Why Having A Same Sex Bestie As Your Lover Is Wrong by bigiyaro(m): 11:20am On Feb 08, 2020
ain't nothing wrong with having an opposite sex bestie, excerpt the girl has not friend zoned the guy....
Re: Why Having A Same Sex Bestie As Your Lover Is Wrong by Jossyfine(f): 1:56pm On Feb 08, 2020
Abeg me too need opposite sex bestie o
If you are available lets hook up mbok

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