Hi Guys, my name is Kolade Tony. About 10 years ago, I was a young naive and lonely guy who found it very difficult to talk with or even approach Pretty women. After a lot of disappointment and failure, I decided to do something to change my life. I made friends with a lot of players and I learnt how to be very good with women.

I am about to tell you 3 easy things you can do to make ladies see you as an attractive guy.
A whole lot of men have no idea about what they can do to SPARK attraction with women.
These set of guys go ahead and try to win the heart of these ladies by buying her gifts or taking her on numerous dates or doing everything to try to please her.
The bitter truth is that these type of activities will only make you end up in the friendzone and ‘Mr Nice Guy’ Zone.
A woman cannot have that gut level attraction for you if she sees you as ‘Just a friend’.
Women see attraction differently than men. There are a lot of things that women look out for in a man to know if they should be attracted to him or not.
The following are things you can do that will increase your attraction to women.

1. Be The Man: I know this sounds somehow but hear me out.
Being a man is more than just having a d**k. Being a man requires you to be confident, DECISIVE, have a plan, not scared of life or of people. Being a man is approaching a lady and not being scared to say what's on your mind. Being a man is not being a puppy to any girl. Being a man is being in control of your emotions and not letting it get the best of you. Being a man is making a decision when it is necessary.
Most guys are being controlled by girls. These guys always try to please these ladies.
It is almost impossible for a lady to become attracted to you if you don’t act like the man.

2. Don’t Be Boring & Predictable: 90% of the guys that come around ladies are boring and these girls can predict what they want to say.
If you can be predicted, there is nothing about you that will be attractive to any lady.
Think about the last time you were watching a boring movie. I am sure your brain cannot remember half of the things that happened in that movie.
It is the same for girls. If you are boring & predictable and there is nothing unique about you, there is no way they can be attracted to you. They will just place you as ‘one of the other guys’.
You have to learn how to have interesting conversations and also how to do exciting things that will get her heart pumping hard.

3. Flirt: Flirting increases the chemistry between you and a lady and also increases the sexual tension. As much as possible, you should start flirting with a lady very early in the conversation. You will be surprised by her response. One of the ways you can flirt is by teasing her and giving her a hard time in a playful way.
Once you start flirting with ladies, you become attractive in her eyes.

I don't want to make this too long so I will stop here.
I hope you enjoyed what yo just read. You can ask your questions here.

Nice writeup

Thanks boss

Froshloaded:
Nice writeup

My list
No 1: have money
2:have money
3:i repeat have money!!!

Petyprincess:
My list
No 1: have money
2:have money
3:i repeat have money!!!

Only broke ladies think this way

haha. Guys, girls will say this and they will end up turning you into their personal ATM while they will be cheating on you with other guys who understand the secrets of attraction. BE GUIDED KINGS.

Petyprincess:
My list
No 1: have money
2:have money
3:i repeat have money!!!

Shibaraba:

Only broke ladies think this way

Only broke guys will get offended of my choice

Go and make money op. That’s the only language ladies understand

OK

NYCnextStop:
Go and make money op. That’s the only language ladies understand

Petyprincess:
My list
No 1: have money
2:have money
3:i repeat have money!!!

I love your personality. Very out going.

Petyprincess:

Only broke guys will get offended of my choice

No one's offended lady. Farmers don't like herdsmen in their farms. Only buyers and investors.

Op, all these will only make you to become her pet out of sympathy.

Once a while,you may start hearing things like....id Iike you to meet with my boss....am inky with that guy for his money and Connection......So,what's the point... just become the chairman....datzoll

Blu03:
I love your personality. Very out going.

Lol sometimes I'm just being sarcastic ,that's why i laugh when people take my comment to heart here

Shibaraba:

Only broke ladies think this way

You mean she's a destitute?

Petyprincess:

Only broke guys will get offended of my choice

So you are admitting that you are broke and you are trying to live off a man.. Rubbish

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Petyprincess:

Lol sometimes I'm just being sarcastic ,that's why i laugh when people take my comment to heart here

me too. Nigerians are uptight. What do you expect...?

I like that you're here. It's cool

A man who is a MAN can NEVER EVER become the pet of any lady. Especially a lady that he is not married to.

ScotMisile:
Op, all these will only make you to become her pet out of sympathy.

Once a while,you may start hearing things like....id Iike you to meet with my boss....am inky with that guy for his money and Connection......So,what's the point... just become the chairman....datzoll

You're on point OP ��

That immbecile that says make money and make more money is only being manipulative.

Some foools, will make the mistake of listening to her. And still go on to do blood- money ritual or some ilegal shiits to " attract the so called beautiful or sexy gals".

Take note, there will be a better spender of money. When the money is low, the gals leave.

Develop yourself in such a way that the beautiful and intellectual ladies will be naturally attracted to you. Money is not the answer.

This right here is a terribly broke girl looking for an unfortunate guy to leech on.

Petyprincess:
My list
No 1: have money
2:have money
3:i repeat have money!!!

Nonsense list if you don't have money.
Trash trash trash.

OK

Preshy561:
Nonsense list if you don't have money.
Trash trash trash.

Nice write up....

But do you know in everything in life there is always a short cut..

Guys don't stress yourself...HAVE MONEY EVERYTHING IS DONE

Preshy561:
Nonsense list if you don't have money. Trash trash trash.

Owerri imsu sistitute in her whoring stage spotted

Money is a shortcut to getting LOW QUALITY women who don't really like you. They only like your bank account.
If you are looking to meet GREAT ladies, money should be the last thing on your mind.
I am NOT saying that you shouldn't get rich ooo. Of course you should do everything it takes to become very comfortable BUT don't become anybody's personal ATM.
Your money should only be enjoyed by girls who deserve it.
GOOD MORNING.

HardeyGold:
Nice write up....

But do you know in everything in life there is always a short cut..

Guys don't stress yourself...HAVE MONEY EVERYTHING IS DONE

MagneticMan:
Money is a shortcut to getting LOW QUALITY women who don't really like you. They only like your bank account.
If you are looking to meet GREAT ladies, money should be the last thing on your mind.
I am NOT saying that you shouldn't get rich ooo. Of course you should do everything it takes to become very comfortable BUT don't become anybody's personal ATM.
Your money should only be enjoyed by girls who deserve it.
GOOD MORNING.

Am sorry sir... But you are just beating around the bush... 99% of women naw.. love money

Haven't you seem a situation where a woman dump her husband because of money ... Because of improper care...

There is no argument here bro..... Don't have money....

In this generation my brother there is no love...money make the love okay���

MagneticMan:
Hi Guys, my name is Kolade Tony. About 10 years ago, I was a young naive and lonely guy who found it very difficult to talk with or even approach Pretty women. After a lot of disappointment and failure, I decided to do something to change my life. I made friends with a lot of players and I learnt how to be very good with women.

I am about to tell you 3 easy things you can do to make ladies see you as an attractive guy.
A whole lot of men have no idea about what they can do to SPARK attraction with women.
These set of guys go ahead and try to win the heart of these ladies by buying her gifts or taking her on numerous dates or doing everything to try to please her.
The bitter truth is that these type of activities will only make you end up in the friendzone and ‘Mr Nice Guy’ Zone.
A woman cannot have that gut level attraction for you if she sees you as ‘Just a friend’.
Women see attraction differently than men. There are a lot of things that women look out for in a man to know if they should be attracted to him or not.
The following are things you can do that will increase your attraction to women.

1. Be The Man: I know this sounds somehow but hear me out.
Being a man is more than just having a d**k. Being a man requires you to be confident, DECISIVE, have a plan, not scared of life or of people. Being a man is approaching a lady and not being scared to say what's on your mind. Being a man is not being a puppy to any girl. Being a man is being in control of your emotions and not letting it get the best of you. Being a man is making a decision when it is necessary.
Most guys are being controlled by girls. These guys always try to please these ladies.
It is almost impossible for a lady to become attracted to you if you don’t act like the man.

2. Don’t Be Boring & Predictable: 90% of the guys that come around ladies are boring and these girls can predict what they want to say.
If you can be predicted, there is nothing about you that will be attractive to any lady.
Think about the last time you were watching a boring movie. I am sure your brain cannot remember half of the things that happened in that movie.
It is the same for girls. If you are boring & predictable and there is nothing unique about you, there is no way they can be attracted to you. They will just place you as ‘one of the other guys’.
You have to learn how to have interesting conversations and also how to do exciting things that will get her heart pumping hard.

3. Flirt: Flirting increases the chemistry between you and a lady and also increases the sexual tension. As much as possible, you should start flirting with a lady very early in the conversation. You will be surprised by her response. One of the ways you can flirt is by teasing her and giving her a hard time in a playful way.
Once you start flirting with ladies, you become attractive in her eyes.

I don't want to make this too long so I will stop here.
I hope you enjoyed what yo just read. You can ask your questions here.

MagneticMan:
Hi Guys, my name is Kolade Tony. About 10 years ago, I was a young naive and lonely guy who found it very difficult to talk with or even approach Pretty women. After a lot of disappointment and failure, I decided to do something to change my life. I made friends with a lot of players and I learnt how to be very good with women.

I am about to tell you 3 easy things you can do to make ladies see you as an attractive guy.
A whole lot of men have no idea about what they can do to SPARK attraction with women.
These set of guys go ahead and try to win the heart of these ladies by buying her gifts or taking her on numerous dates or doing everything to try to please her.
The bitter truth is that these type of activities will only make you end up in the friendzone and ‘Mr Nice Guy’ Zone.
A woman cannot have that gut level attraction for you if she sees you as ‘Just a friend’.
Women see attraction differently than men. There are a lot of things that women look out for in a man to know if they should be attracted to him or not.
The following are things you can do that will increase your attraction to women.

1. Be The Man: I know this sounds somehow but hear me out.
Being a man is more than just having a d**k. Being a man requires you to be confident, DECISIVE, have a plan, not scared of life or of people. Being a man is approaching a lady and not being scared to say what's on your mind. Being a man is not being a puppy to any girl. Being a man is being in control of your emotions and not letting it get the best of you. Being a man is making a decision when it is necessary.
Most guys are being controlled by girls. These guys always try to please these ladies.
It is almost impossible for a lady to become attracted to you if you don’t act like the man.

2. Don’t Be Boring & Predictable: 90% of the guys that come around ladies are boring and these girls can predict what they want to say.
If you can be predicted, there is nothing about you that will be attractive to any lady.
Think about the last time you were watching a boring movie. I am sure your brain cannot remember half of the things that happened in that movie.
It is the same for girls. If you are boring & predictable and there is nothing unique about you, there is no way they can be attracted to you. They will just place you as ‘one of the other guys’.
You have to learn how to have interesting conversations and also how to do exciting things that will get her heart pumping hard.

3. Flirt: Flirting increases the chemistry between you and a lady and also increases the sexual tension. As much as possible, you should start flirting with a lady very early in the conversation. You will be surprised by her response. One of the ways you can flirt is by teasing her and giving her a hard time in a playful way.
Once you start flirting with ladies, you become attractive in her eyes.

I don't want to make this too long so I will stop here.
I hope you enjoyed what yo just read. You can ask your questions here.

..bro...this is not gonna work wit nairaland females....they behave too Nigerian!!(real talk)

MagneticMan:
A man who is a MAN can NEVER EVER become the pet of any lady. Especially a lady that he is not married to.

I can see you are speaking from personal experience and not from collective history.

I did NOT say that you shoud not have money. Money is very important and anyone that says otherwise is a devil.
What I said is that you should NOT try to win a lady's heart with money.
They are 2 different things,
Thanks

HardeyGold:


Am sorry sir... But you are just beating around the bush... 99% of women naw.. love money

Haven't you seem a situation where a woman dump her husband because of money ... Because of improper care...

There is no argument here bro..... Don't have money....

In this generation my brother there is no love...money make the love okay���

Petyprincess:
My list No 1: have money 2:have money 3:i repeat have money!!!

sure u ain't under genjutsu?
officer Sasuke take over

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