Just because. . . .

Relax Blazay, its her problem. I can tell you are angry , and as much as you disagree with her in anyway, no need to trade insults. Afterall, you hv your own life to live and decisions to make.

deniyor:

Relax Blazay, its her problem. I can tell you are angry, and as much as you disagree with her in anyway, no need to trade insults. Afterall, you hv your own life to live and decisions to make.

Just because. . . .

Have alway noticed posters of real life questns neva end up happy on dis forumn. Pls lets b civil nd do witout d bikerins. We r dealin wit tough issues here. Ur reply myt end a life or birth 1.

Just because. . . .

***singing***kooli kooli temper kooli temper***

My dear much as I want to sympathise with you,i must say you yourself created this problem for yourself in the first place by thinking you could change him.
However it has happened and much as you might  find it hard to believe there is still a silver lining in this dark cloud you're seeing.
You said you know he loves you,start from there.
Have you taken time out to pray and really commit it to GOD?
Have you tried to wake him up very early in the morning,say between 2:am-4:am and gently and quietly told him about your reservations and diference of opinion on his habits?
Men hate being told what to do particularly if the person trying to do this is acting in a rude,condescending,controlling or angry manner.

Give yourself 1 or 2 months to try and make things work again. Try to remember the good qualities about him that outweighed the negative ones that made you willing to marry him.
The things you used to do that made him happy and showed him  you loved him,resume doing them again even though you dont feel like it.


There are days i have woken up and wondered why i'm married to this my husband,moments after this i'm back to feeling like i have the best man in the world. MARRIAGE IS WORK MY DEAR, AND LOVE IS MORE THAN HAPPY  FEELINGS.THERE ARE NO PERFECT MARRIAGES but 2 people can work at making their own marriage work.
Dont give up my dear, still give it sometime.
Iwould actually recommend a couples' film for you to watch,its titled FIREPROOF.
Still give yourself a chance to make it work.Rooting for you!!!

^^^^

Leave Baba Blazay alone

I love his rants

He makes NL fun

Blazay, Go on sounnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!

Orie 4 kasibe

Your head dey there!

^^^

Then, tell your disturbed posters to comport themselves decently. . . no telling others to 'shut up' either.
[size=16pt]You women and your issues![/size]
Is that how you do your job as a moderator?

Why address me?
See trobu o.
I dey vessssss gaaaaaaan.

Baba 'agbaya' Blazay

Take am easy oooooo

no vessssssssssssssssssss too much

Forgive them for the know not what they are doing!

fstranger1:

Baba 'agbaya' Blazay

Take am easy oooooo

no vessssssssssssssssssss too much

Forgive them for the know not what they are doing!

Just because. . . .of God!

I will be speaking to the other party involved as well. So please stop insulting people; directly or indirectly.

Thank you

^^^
Well, thank you!
Over and out!

Cheating. . .cheating. . .cheating!
What is it with all this noise about 'cheating' here and there?
A man that does not cheat is a DEAD ONE!
That is not enough to fall OUT OF LOVE WITH YOUR HUSBAND.

ebonyvibe:
I have falling out of love with my hubby and he has seriously tried to make amends but it doest seem to help. I caught him cheating once but honestly I have gotten over that.

I am seriously contemplating divorce but I am thinking am I too hasty but i have been thinking this for two years dont know if i should go for it or not. I have my reasons many I cant say here but i am really unhappy within my soul.

Constructive advice please

get out!

ebonyvibe:
I have falling out of love with my hubby and he has seriously tried to make amends but it doest seem to help. I caught him cheating once but honestly I have gotten over that.

I am seriously contemplating divorce but I am thinking am I too hasty but i have been thinking this for two years dont know if i should go for it or not. I have my reasons many I cant say here but i am really unhappy within my soul.

Constructive advice please

How is it possible to give you constructive advice based on this little information?

ebonyvibe:
I havent harbour anything he is well aware of the situation. I am just contemplating wheather me not leaving is out of fear of being alone or pity. I know it is not because of love

you didnt love him in the first place,maybe you married him out of pity or desperation...Im sure one guy is busy brainwashing you,thats why you here looking for something to condemn your hubby,you think say marriage na beans?mumu...by the time the new guy has successfully passed through your "tunnel",they'll be no light at the end of "it" again.
Nansense!

You said he cheated? No action is too extreme while dealing with such.

carefreewannabe:


How is it possible to give you constructive advice based on this little information?

Since 2010?

Maybe she even remarried with child....

edwife:


Since 2010?

Maybe she even remarried with child....

Tnx.

Blazay:


Case dismissed.
This court is adjoined for ever.
Go to the cashier and pay the necessary fines for wasting the taxpayers' money.

_{whispers. . .i knew she got married out of desperation and not out of love.}




Gavel pounds!

its obvious

deniyor:
I don't think its ever a good idea to marry anyone for who you want them to be. Assess them b4 marriage, and then know what you see is what you get.
Lady, If you are not ready to work things out with your husband (you hv to be willing else every advice here is a waste of time), get your divorce. Be done and over with it. When reality kicks in for you, then you will know there isn't much out there for you.

the bitttcchhh wants to fuccck around....she want to "see and enjoy life"
bitttccches everywhere