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When I say Nigerian guys are horrified of pretty women most of the people here attacked me calling me arrogant. But this thread is proof.

https://www.nairaland.com/5683565/does-every-guy-experience

My candid advice to you youngzubi , forget favour. You clearly don't have what it takes to woo her or be in a relationship with her. Trust me if you try, and maybe she pities you na suffer sure.

Minutes later I was standing at their street and it wasn't too long when she came out I guessed to buy something, I swear the more she approached was the more my heart beat increased, sweating profusely even it got to some extent that my legs wasn't steady anymore, so I pretended I didn't see her as she passed. Oh my God, my urine was hot as I rushed to the gutter to ease myself I don't even know if removed smoke sef..

But guys should stick to their type, seriously. You don't how annoying this is, I get it all the time and it's not funny.

Any woman you can't comfortably talk to isn't your type! Shikina !

I quickly walked up to her and said Hi! She turned and stared directly into my eye.. Jesus I froze instantly, my people I said hi to this girl like four good times, every down thing I memorized had now flashed off, my head was empty in fact I regretted ever confronting her she stood for a while trying to figure out who I was cos the expression on her face showed it all, emm please can we be friends? That was what I heard myself say, immediately she heard that she hissed loudly and crossed to the other side of the road and walked away.. I swear I couldn't sleep that night..

Amakavula:
When I say Nigerian guys are horrified of pretty women most of the people here attacked me calling me arrogant. But this thread is proof.

https://www.nairaland.com/5683565/does-every-guy-experience

Change your class, stop associating with low self esteemed guys....horrified of beautiful girls.?? Who does that

dazzlingd:
Change your class, stop associating with low self esteemed guys....horrified of beautiful girls.?? Who does that

So If I was in the restaurant to get something and a guy walks up to me, I should hiss and ignore right? Any ways already do that.

You must have had an encounter with guys from many other countries and virtually all Nigerian guys to conclude that NIGERIAN GUYS exhibit this feature, and I don't think "horrified" is a suitable word in this case. The fact that a guy is afraid to talk to a beautiful lady is simply an effect of low self-confidence and self-esteem, not a matter of type/class. Your high physical appeal doesn't make you superhuman and unapproachable.

How else do you characterise that lady's reaction if not arrogance? Someone walked up to you and made an offer of friendship, and just because he fretted and acted weird before you, all you could do was hiss and walk away. What would you call that? huh? A simple "No, I'm sorry. I can't be your friend" , would have sufficed. Her reaction was an arrogant one, and her yeye beauty doesn't justify that.

Amakavula:
So If I was in the restaurant to get something and a guy walks up to me, I should hiss and ignore right? Any ways already do that.

You can easily smell low self esteem at a distant on a guy...

The way he even walks to u, the way he speaks and try to compose himself, u will see everything written over him and sometimes I blame it to brokenness....most people in this part of the world earn below 500 dollars monthly, and girls are damn too expensive for them to maintain, especially a girl who appears classy..

But all na packaging, a girl may appear expensive but no get pass 5k for acct....mstcheew..
And one thing again, once a girl has some special assets like boobs and ass, or fine face or yellow skin, they think they deserve all the attention in the world...all is bullshi.t.

Once u are above average looking and most importantly not broke, u can bed all these so called classy beautiful girls...infact, just have a very good car, a very good apartment, earn constant income and be able to afford some simple luxurious outings...u will bed the so called most beautiful girls as u wish...

Damn it...no girl is too beautiful to be approached

You're not a man... You're scared of her Beauty, it shows how disappointed you are with yourself for not being able to go for what you admire....


When they say men are scum you'll be shouting I no follow...

please don't confuse nervousness with horrify

Amakavula:
When I say Nigerian guys are horrified of pretty women most of the people here attacked me calling me arrogant. But this thread is proof.

https://www.nairaland.com/5683565/does-every-guy-experience

My candid advice to you youngzubi , forget favour. You clearly don't have what it takes to woo her or be in a relationship with her. Trust me if you try, and maybe she pities you na suffer sure.



But guys should stick to their type, seriously. You don't how annoying this is, I get it all the time and it's not funny.

Any woman you can't comfortably talk to isn't your type! Shikina !

Hey! .... we are not fighting biko, Remember I said it was my first experience and it happened years ago I just shared the scenario with you guys, not as if I kept on experiencing the same thing. I'm at my earlier 20's now. And talking about good looking I guess it wasn't the problem. Favour's reaction was normal, believe me we chat everyday and she kept on reminding me on how stupid I acted that day.. lol

Amakavula:
When I say Nigerian guys are horrified of pretty women most of the people here attacked me calling me arrogant. But this thread is proof.

https://www.nairaland.com/5683565/does-every-guy-experience

My candid advice to you youngzubi , forget favour. You clearly don't have what it takes to woo her or be in a relationship with her. Trust me if you try, and maybe she pities you na suffer sure.



But guys should stick to their type, seriously. You don't how annoying this is, I get it all the time and it's not funny.

Any woman you can't comfortably talk to isn't your type! Shikina !

The way this lady seeks for attention these days