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I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OgaMadam(f): 7:27pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
Please my treasured people, help me. My boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 years. he is igbo. i am african. if we got married (cause he asked me), what are the chances we will last? Also, although am african, i worry that i am not too familiar with naija culture, cause one day, we may go back there. as a foreigner there - will i cope? how do igbo people accommodate foreign african women? hit me. __________________________________________________________________________ This is just for sound effects. With tender love.
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Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by bluenubian(f): 9:53pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
u are african?, pppplease! and wasssup with the pics, a lil hideous if u ask me |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OmoEko1(f): 10:41pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
@the pic Laughing and i can't stop laughing . LMAO. okay let me stop laughing lol i can't stop And yes your relationship can last long since your both love each other like you stated |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OmoEko1(f): 10:43pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
bluenubian:Yes she is African but obviously not Nigerian because we look nothing like that |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by mukina2: 10:45pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
nice pics |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by bluenubian(f): 10:48pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
Omo Eko:who the heck describe themselves as African, doesn't she have a nationality? |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by nana(f): 10:51pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
Na wa for those pics o OgaMadam, if u both work towards living together,then u'll yield a good result. BTW,how old are u and how old is d guy? |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by debosky(m): 10:53pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
one word of advice please don't procreate, we have enough wowo atutupoyoyo people in the world already |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OmoEko1(f): 10:55pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
bluenubian:No blame her doesn't really understand the differences btw nationality and continent. |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OmoEko1(f): 10:56pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
mukina2:still laughing . nice pics |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OmoEko1(f): 10:58pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
debosky:Like my sweetie cute-ass will say [size=20pt]wowo+wowo=chei[/size] |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by nana(f): 11:01pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
han han, people those pics are of the hook, |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OmoEko1(f): 11:03pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
nana:abeg i no fit laugh anymore , I thought I don see enough wowo(s) on NL but the pics pass wowo |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by mukina2: 11:05pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
Omo Eko: they are nice appreaciate fine thing |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by naijaway(m): 11:08pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
'r u trying to say that because ur boyfriend is igbo then he's not African? |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by busygirl(f): 11:09pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
ROFLMAO at this thread. Is the girl in secondary school or something? |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OgaMadam(f): 11:10pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
People please! Thats not what we look like. I just put those pics there cause somebody sent them to me in a love letter which i will put in the post below. I did say "for sound effects". Of course no nigerian person will describe themselves as african. but i did say i am not nigerian. I just wont say which part of africa i come from, at least not now my ladies. |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by nana(f): 11:15pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
OgaMadam: Sorry babes,but we Nigerians claim to be africans. Infact there is a Nigerian song which says 'I'm so proud to be African, yes o yes ooo' . U get me, |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OgaMadam(f): 11:17pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
You have seen the pics. Now here are the letters from the two of them to each other. _______________________________________________________________________ It was an email. (THOSE WERE THE DAYS!) Classic, Dear Sugar Time and ability plus double capacity has forced my pen to dance automatically on this benedicted sheet of paper. Why! this miraculous thing happened is because papie I love you spontaneously and as I stand horizontal to the wall and perpendicular to the ground I only think of you, since you are a fantastic and fabulous guy. Papie please Stop haranguing with the feelings in my heart because I love you more than a snake loves the rat. To me each day starts by thinking of you and ends by dreaming of you. Each time I see you, my metabolism suddenly stops and my peristalysis goes in reverse gear. My medula-oblangata also stops functioning. Crazy crazy crazy you may say but this is true. If only you knew what is going on in my encephalon you would understand. That's why I need to see you face to face with you, soon. I think I have to pen-off here because I still haven't finished studying electrolysis and polymerization. Catch you Pa - later. Sleep tight and don't let those bed bugs ever bite you coz you are too sweet a thing for them. I have put my beautiful picture in the letter for you. Yourz Ever, Sugar nonoza REPLY Dear Honie My Love, My Sugar, i was exasperated with pride to have received one from you, the lungs in my body flapped with joy when i have been reading your letter. Anyway by now you have reached the realisations to why i am jotting this small letter to you, yes it is to see if you are keeping with the sands of time. How is everything on that other side of yours? Well here everything is just half lemon half sugar to make it schweppes. How is your schooling? How are you pulling the wagons of life? I am just pulling the schooling thing like a donkey pulling a cart. My honie, i am missing you very much right now, my heart is perambulating with every word that i write, if it was not for these oceans that decided to flow between us then i would get on the next bus to come and see you, but until then i know that i will not hesitate to put this blue blood on this paper and write to you. I remember that day lovie, that one sweet day as Maria Curry sanged it, you know that it is my favorites song honie, the one day that we were boarding the combies and you escorted me to my home, walking with you just brought sweet dreams to me for the rest of my life honie. If words of love could ride a bicycle I would be competing against Diego Maradona. Anyways, i will not stop you from reading the books that give you life and education so I will stop here for today. Please always writing to me because I am missing you like sugar misses tea. You can see my foto in the letter. My dedications to you are : Maria Curry - One Sweet Day. Boys to Main - And of the Rod. Keep well my mop of my heart, Yours in flesh and in blood, Ruise Sugar Baby P.S. Sorry about my english, I did not learn anymore |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OgaMadam(f): 11:20pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
Nana you said: Sorry babes,but we Nigerians claim to be africans. Infact there is a Nigerian song which says 'I'm so proud to be African, yes o yes ooo' . U get me, and i understand that. but at the end of the day, i know Nigerians are very tribalistic people. and even if your african, they may still look at you as oyinbo. you understand. so its important that i make that distinction. In my culture we have customs. what if my husband is not from my custom, it means i have to learn his culture and ways. thats what i mean by the difference. hit me with your suggestions. |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OmoEko1(f): 11:23pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
OgaMadam:The Nigerians i know will ever say am an African And about the song, it was based on every countries in the Africa not just Nigeria, because you seem to be misleading what the song is about |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by nana(f): 11:24pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
OgaMadam, what country are u from? |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by LuUmBiOn2(m): 11:30pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
You see, another yahoo girl again. The name 'ogamadam' is nigerian, that's plain nigerian pidgin english. @ogamadam you're african and your bf is igbo, (laughs) so igbo is an european tribe abi? For God sake what are we turning ourselves into? Play solitare on your pc, 'stead of posting lies. One love |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OgaMadam(f): 11:33pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
WWWWHHHHYYYY do i have to feel like i am defending myself oh! Even in real life countless people tell me i look nigerian. They have even by my looks assigned me a tribe. Igbo. But that is not what am on about. I am not nigerian. i like the name OgaMadam cause the way the Nigerian daddies spoil their women is so --- how can i say. Cool. I have a real problem people. Help me. Do i need to learn any nigerian customs and such in order to keep my marriage good. what must i watch out for? Sincerely. 1 Like |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by busygirl(f): 11:36pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
@Luumbion2, You and this yahoo thingy. . .sounds really funny to know YAHOO girls exist |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by LuUmBiOn2(m): 11:42pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
The girl na fake jo, maybe she's tipsy. You know, it's friday night. I've come across those exact letters she claimed to have received and replied. Infact, something similar is on nairaland, think the jokes thread or so. Why lie? One love |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by LuUmBiOn2(m): 11:46pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
@ogamadam Anyway, just be yourself, that's what your relationship needs. What will be will be. 1 Like |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OgaMadam(f): 11:47pm On Jun 01, 2007 |
luumbion2 i no be fake. all am asking about are cultural differences. even amongst igbo people there are cultural differences. A girl i knew before, her parents married each other cause their houses were just a few doorsteps from each other. Are they not igbo? please, i am begging help me. |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by LuUmBiOn2(m): 12:12am On Jun 02, 2007 |
Which part of africa are you from? |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OgaMadam(f): 12:17am On Jun 02, 2007 |
Southern |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by LuUmBiOn2(m): 12:22am On Jun 02, 2007 |
Pls tell me you reside in nigeria or have once stayed in nigeria. |
Re: I Am African, My Boyfriend Is IGBO, Can We Make It? Help Me Please. by OgaMadam(f): 12:23am On Jun 02, 2007 |
No i havent why? |
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