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Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Villagemeat: 9:45pm On Feb 17, 2020
What will you do if you get to fine out that your girlfriend of 3 years had sex with a man to get you a job.

Forget the story,just drop your best advice,and she did not denied it. Is a well paid job,with good conditions. Is been six months in that job,but got to find out yesterday. I will take the advice here seriously.

Boys,your insult is not needed. Thanks

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Nobody: 9:53pm On Feb 17, 2020
If I walked into Diezani Madueke's office while she was a petroleum minister and all she needed to give my long term girlfriend a job was a night with her, I'd gladly make the MILF scream to the highest heavens. My 8.7 inches and 30 minutes average per round are world class.

If I walked into Alakija's board room and she told me " Sweet boy, if you suck me back to life, I'll gift your girlfriend a job". I'll suck , tickle , carrass , explore, lick , penetrate , construct the only oil well she was born with , without neglecting her clitoris, labia majora and labia minora . I'll make sure her legs shake , I'll make sure tears of joy flow down her cheeks, I'll make sure she moans like Lillian who has refused to go back to her billionaire father after 30 minutes with me on new year's Eve at room 58 and I'll make sure she enjoys full service for her benevolence to my girlfriend.

But you see those women do not disgrace themselves everyday. Though they may have toy boys, they do not sleep with every Harry and Dick. It is male lecturers that sleep with any female student. It is male employers that prey on female employees.

If I slept with the two women in the scenarios above,I bet my life, my girlfriend would forgive me. Would I forgive her if reverse was the case? No, because she is a woman and I am a man. I love the fact that I was born a male. I want to remain a male in my next life. You are a man son, act like a man. The man a modern woman would call a real man.

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by cRobo: 10:03pm On Feb 17, 2020
Things we do for love

She wants the best for you

If the main purpose of having sex is to get u a job, never take her for granted

Lots of girl cheat for no good cause

She loves you trust me

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Mgbadike80: 10:04pm On Feb 17, 2020
Villagemeat:
What will you do if you get to fine out that your girlfriend of 3 years had sex with a man to get you a job.

Forget the story,just drop your best advice,and she did not denied it. Is a well paid job,with good conditions. Is been six months in that job,but got to find out yesterday. I will take the advice here seriously.

Boys,your insult is not needed. Thanks
it depends on whether you can live with that knowledge because you likely would not trust her after the discovery. She might also start seeing you as somebody that is ready to compromise because of material things. All men wouldn't have the same answer, it depends on whether you can live with it.

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Nobody: 10:05pm On Feb 17, 2020
probably let it slide since it's that one time she did that

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by chatinent: 10:08pm On Feb 17, 2020
Naturally, I don't trust girls. If she tells me or not, it's the same feeling I still have. What to do? Sleeping with sb for you has never been a justification for anything. Well, shit happens at times.

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Villagemeat: 10:11pm On Feb 17, 2020
Mgbadike80:
it depends on whether you can live with that knowledge because you likely would not trust her after the discovery. She might also start seeing you as somebody that is ready to compromise because of material things. All men wouldn't have the same answer, it depends on whether you can live with it.
Thanks, mature respond��
Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by comradewanle(m): 10:13pm On Feb 17, 2020
cRobo:
Things we do for love

She wants the best for you

If the main purpose of having sex is to get u a job, never take her for granted

Lots of girl cheat for no good cause

She loves you trust me

I agree with u especially the 4th line

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Villagemeat: 10:31pm On Feb 17, 2020
chatinent:
Naturally, I don't trust girls. If she tells me or not, it's the same feeling I still have. What to do? Sleeping with sb for you has never been a justification for anything. Well, shit happens at times.
I discussed this issues with 4 best people in my life. 3 of them advice me to let it go and move on with her while one person said she will still cheat
Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by comradewanle(m): 10:35pm On Feb 17, 2020
Villagemeat:
I discussed this issues with 4 best people in my life. 3 of them advice me to let it go and move on with her while one person said she will still cheat


She might not......cos she did it for a purpose

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by XhosaNostra(f): 10:42pm On Feb 17, 2020
Was it a once off thing? I think not. I'm also thinking, charity case. You weren't hired on merit, but based on a trade off & very likely, a sob story. If you don't mind being the piteous little chump in the eyes of her paramour, then stay put. Also, be a good boy because she could end you cheesy One jerk move from you could have them conspiring against you on their next scheduled steamy rendezvous grin

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Jflex07(m): 10:53pm On Feb 17, 2020
Na such girl I dey find.
Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Nobody: 11:02pm On Feb 17, 2020
Freehuman:
If I walked into Diezani Madueke's office while she was a petroleum minister and all she needed to give my long term girlfriend a job was a night with her, I'd gladly make the MILF scream to the highest heavens. My 8.7 inches and 30 minutes average per round are world class.

If I walked into Alakija's board room and she told me " Sweet boy, if you suck me back to life, I'll gift your girlfriend a job". I'll suck , tickle , carrass , explore, lick , penetrate , construct the only oil well she was born with , without neglecting her clitoris, labia majora and labia minora . I'll make sure her legs shake , I'll make sure tears of joy flow down her cheeks, I'll make sure she moans like Lillian who has refused to go back to her billionaire father after 30 minutes with me on new year's Eve at room 58 and I'll make sure she enjoys full service for her benevolence to my girlfriend.

But you see those women do not disgrace themselves everyday. Though they may have toy boys, they do not sleep with every Harry and Dick. It is male lecturers that sleep with any female student. It is male employers that prey on female employees.

If I slept with the two women in the scenarios above,I bet my life, my girlfriend would forgive me. Would I forgive her if reverse was the case? No, because she is a woman and I am a man. I love the fact that I was born a male. I want to remain a male in my next life. You are a man son, act like a man. The man a modern woman would call a real man.
you are porn sick. #maledepravity

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by blackjack21(m): 11:15pm On Feb 17, 2020
Villagemeat:
What will you do if you get to fine out that your girlfriend of 3 years had sex with a man to get you a job.

Forget the story,just drop your best advice,and she did not denied it. Is a well paid job,with good conditions. Is been six months in that job,but got to find out yesterday. I will take the advice here seriously.

Boys,your insult is not needed. Thanks
Well that would depend on the kind of relationship you're in, your religion and moral values. If, for example, you're the 'House of cards' kind of couple, you may just continue to strategies and play on. But I doubt it (given that You're here asking for advice) that type of couple.

If you're really mad at your girlfriend for her actions, and you can't take it, that you must break up with her for it, then you must tender your resignation letter to keep your dignity.
Me, personally, no matter whether I would forgive her or not I definitely would not keep the job.

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Nobody: 11:24pm On Feb 17, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
you are porn sick. #maledepravity

I am porn sick. I am an addict. I love pretty women but I am not a failure. Women respect me because though I am not ugly , I do not take advantage of them. I have achieved what any young man my age should and even more. See, I wouldn't be compelled by seduction to thrust a sexy woman through her her sensual openings even if she was naked before me. That ,my friend , is the most pertinent strength of pornography because the sac of a veteran masturbator is always likely to have limited supply of semen. This brings massive concentration and focus on ones academic pursuit, job , dedication or purpose in life just until midnight.

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:26pm On Feb 17, 2020
Villagemeat:
What will you do if you get to fine out that your girlfriend of 3 years had sex with a man to get you a job.

Forget the story,just drop your best advice,and she did not denied it. Is a well paid job,with good conditions. Is been six months in that job,but got to find out yesterday. I will take the advice here seriously.

Boys,your insult is not needed. Thanks

IF she told you before going and wh0ring herself to get you employment, and you accepted it fully...then keep quiet and be happy with your babe
IF you just found out that you were dating a wh0re, then do whats best for you
IF you think that staying with such woman would be beneficial to your life/future, pick up a gun and shoot your deluded self ASAP!

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Villagemeat: 11:30pm On Feb 17, 2020
Freehuman:
If I walked into Diezani Madueke's office while she was a petroleum minister and all she needed to give my long term girlfriend a job was a night with her, I'd gladly make the MILF scream to the highest heavens. My 8.7 inches and 30 minutes average per round are world class.

If I walked into Alakija's board room and she told me " Sweet boy, if you suck me back to life, I'll gift your girlfriend a job". I'll suck , tickle , carrass , explore, lick , penetrate , construct the only oil well she was born with , without neglecting her clitoris, labia majora and labia minora . I'll make sure her legs shake , I'll make sure tears of joy flow down her cheeks, I'll make sure she moans like Lillian who has refused to go back to her billionaire father after 30 minutes with me on new year's Eve at room 58 and I'll make sure she enjoys full service for her benevolence to my girlfriend.

But you see those women do not disgrace themselves everyday. Though they may have toy boys, they do not sleep with every Harry and Dick. It is male lecturers that sleep with any female student. It is male employers that prey on female employees.

If I slept with the two women in the scenarios above,I bet my life, my girlfriend would forgive me. Would I forgive her if reverse was the case? No, because she is a woman and I am a man. I love the fact that I was born a male. I want to remain a male in my next life. You are a man son, act like a man. The man a modern woman would call a real man.
k leg advice. You confused me more!!! Nothing different between a man and a woman,but then, Thanks
Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Villagemeat: 11:35pm On Feb 17, 2020
Jflex07:
Na such girl I dey find.
seriously
Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Villagemeat: 11:37pm On Feb 17, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


IF she told you before going and wh0ring herself to get you employment, and you accepted it fully...then keep quiet and be happy with your babe
IF you just found out that you were dating a wh0re, then do whats best for you
IF you think that staying with such woman would be beneficial to your life/future, pick up a gun and shoot your deluded self ASAP!
Got to know about it through my sister. She open up to her. It was like a confession
Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Tim16(m): 11:44pm On Feb 17, 2020
cRobo:
Things we do for love

She wants the best for you

If the main purpose of having sex is to get u a job, never take her for granted

Lots of girl cheat for no good cause

She loves you trust me
I wanted to make a comment but after reading the above comment I gave up commenting. The above comment is GOLDEN. this is just the best comment and advice you can get here. May God bless whoever wrote this above comment and may you keep increasing in wisdom... OP please follow the above comment and live happily with your girl, her type is hard to find. How I wish it's my girl that did this for me. Some girls cheat for nothing without bringing anything good to the table and yours cheated to get you a good paying job. May God bless your girlfriend. AMEN

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by mrbaba18(m): 11:54pm On Feb 17, 2020
My guy our ppl say if u dy luk watin dy inside water u no go drink water dt ur bby really luv u if am u i wil b planin hw 2 marry ha

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by CosmicJames(m): 12:02am On Feb 18, 2020
Villagemeat:
What will you do if you get to fine out that your girlfriend of 3 years had sex with a man to get you a job.

Forget the story,just drop your best advice,and she did not denied it. Is a well paid job,with good conditions. Is been six months in that job,but got to find out yesterday. I will take the advice here seriously.

Boys,your insult is not needed. Thanks
There is no right way to do the wrong thing.
Did you asked her to do such thing?
She acted on her own accord.
Not good for you.
What to do?
It depends.
If you intend to marry her, then I will advise you not to go ahead with the marriage.
For me, if I can't trust you, I can't marry you.
But if it is just a relationship with no direction, then who cares? Continue with her. But remember to inform her that you won't marry her.
Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:06am On Feb 18, 2020
Villagemeat:
Got to know about it through my sister. She open up to her. It was like a confession

here is how i (MBJ) see it: a wh0re will always be a wh0re, because thats a state of mind, therefore.... the day you need a new car, your babe will go and degrade herself again. the day you have money issues, your babe will again use her coochie to disrespect herself, your union AND you.... because thats what wh0res do.

think about the fact that this man who fukced your woman sees you coming to work everyday AND dating this babe that he mounted mercilessly. then next week he will find BS excuse to fire you so he can ask her to come over for round 2 and fukc her some more. you gained employment but lost all dignity as a man. how can you even trust this woman ever again? what will happen the day she lost her wallet while being at the other side of town? sukc taxi driver's dikc for a ride?!

wh0res are made to be fukced and clean mouth... date them (OR FOOLISHLY MARRY THEM) at your own peril!

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:08am On Feb 18, 2020
Tim16:
I wanted to make a comment but after reading the above comment I gave up commenting. The above comment is GOLDEN. this is just the best comment and advice you can get here. May God bless whoever wrote this above comment and may you keep increasing in wisdom... OP please follow the above comment and live happily with your girl, her type is hard to find. How I wish it's my girl that did this for me. Some girls cheat for nothing without bringing anything good to the table and yours cheated to get you a good paying job. May God bless your girlfriend. AMEN

bro what women do for love is irrelevant....some men kill for love, is that suddenly right?! these people are demons who are willing to do unimaginable EVIL, to satisfy you.... i'd rather be broke than dating an olosho that anyone can fukc, at the snap of their fingers!
Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Omar09(m): 3:28am On Feb 18, 2020
Never accept a cheat back.
If I was in your shoes, I'd let her down gently. But thing is, we will never be like we used to.
Once a cheat (no matter the reason) always a cheat.

And as usual one female came here to just troll and not give a viable reason. Lol

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by zed7: 5:47am On Feb 18, 2020
While it may seem like a good cause, it isn't. You have become at her mercy. When you break up tomorrow, she can ask the man to withdraw the job. What sort of man has no value for himself and doesn't mind getting a job via whoring? How will you benefactor respect your work?
You must also realize that tomorrow she can fvck the doctor if you guys lack money for treatment, fvck the lawyer to pay for legal fees for you guys etc. That ain't no favour bro, that's a curse.
Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Kobicove(m): 6:03am On Feb 18, 2020
Villagemeat:
What will you do if you get to fine out that your girlfriend of 3 years had sex with a man to get you a job.

Forget the story,just drop your best advice,and she did not denied it. Is a well paid job,with good conditions. Is been six months in that job,but got to find out yesterday. I will take the advice here seriously.

Boys,your insult is not needed. Thanks

If you can live with the knowledge then you probably should let it slide

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by seunlayi(m): 6:27am On Feb 18, 2020
She did it onces for you, that is OK and what about those that do it continously for their self till the industry is out of production? Appreciate her and show her love

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Nobody: 7:23am On Feb 18, 2020
I guess every1 is speaking from their own paspective. I wont say much.
from what i see ,she loves u.for her to open up to ur sister while she fully knw she will inform u.
see lets not say much DID U KNW IF SHE IS UR DESTINY HELPER(JUST SAYING).
2.What of if she cheat for no reason.
3.what of if d cheating was for her own benefit/self interest
4.omo u beta sidown with dat girl and work things out.....let her apologise i belive she wont go back.
5.such girls are rare,how i wish.

BONUS: IN MY DEPARTMENT,I HAVE GIRLS THAT HAVE SEX 4 MARK AND THEIR BOYFRIEND KNOWS ABOUT IT(TRUE),U CAN SEE D BIG DREAMS EVEN MY CRUSH ALSO (IFE I DONT KNW IF UAR SEEING THIS BUT HOPE U DON GET 5.00 CGPA

KEEP DAT GIRL BUT TELL HER SAY UAR NT COOL WITH IT SAY E PAIN U.
#KEEP #DAT #GIRL

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Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by babyfaceafrica: 7:26am On Feb 18, 2020
biGDhAp:
probably let it slide since it's that one time she did that
how are we sure it is a one time?.. She didn't tell you she slept with someone to get you a job, what makes you so sure, she is not sleeping with the same person to keep you at the job?.. For me it is a no no!!
Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by We4all: 9:12am On Feb 18, 2020
Forget the love story. She didn't do it for love, but rather to prove that she could use her body to get whatever she wants. And of course, get you to marry her as soon as possible.

Sorry, but you're dating a vain and morally lose chic;who sees nothing wrong in using her body to receive favours from men. If she slept with a man to get you a job, then, there is every possibility for her to continue sleeping with that same man to help you retain that job.

So as it stands, if you break up with her, that may cost you your job. If you continue with her, you will find it difficult to trust her again.

The question is, how morally upright are you? Are you willing to compromise a little bit just to have the good life? Do you see your girlfriend as your future life partner? All these questions will help you in making the right decision.

My advice to you is to tread carefully and use wisdom in your approach. Study your girlfriend intensively, and if you're 200% sure that she is no more sleeping with the man(or any other), then you can continue with her.

But trust me, girls like that can be very vindictive, so be ready to pop the question or else, you may have just signed up for a war.
Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by Ilufoye00(m): 9:46am On Feb 18, 2020
You can not be working in the same job and ask her out, if u can't stay with her better quit the job.
But for me, I will go for Hiv tests and other relevant test with her, if she is negative fine..
But respect a woman who trade get pussy for your success, be it your girlfriend, wife, mother, sister. She can as we use the same medium for the betterment of her life.....so to end it all, I will stay with her

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