MzDarkSkin:

my biggest fear would be either myself or my guy would fall for someone else or if we did "invite" someone into our bedroom, i may end up having to watch as the two may be feeling each other. I dont want to feel like the third wheel in my own relationship. lol. I'm not feeling the idea.

There are tons of celebrities who do it. Jada and Will Smith being one example.

Chrisbenogor:

They have been married for 11 years, will and jada without a scandal because they have kept it real.

Mrs, Eve:

I heard Jada is bi sexual!!! Is that true? They said she got girlfriends on the side while she screwing her husband Will. Now, I have said that open relationship is fun but it don't have to involve sex. You can have spouse swap as a way for understanding what you not use to and appreciate your spouse more.

I know some couple who have a sexless open relationship and one day of a month each do a spouse swap for that day with no sex involve and no kissing. Just purely platonic and informative. What do you guys think about that?

Mrs, Eve:

Hello Livedit.

Some people are doing spouse swap and are not even knowing it. When you are dealing with someone 's spouses you are swapping spouses. In other words, you are taking that spouse position and in some culture it a disrespect.

There are television shows that support spouse swapping as a way to teach each other that the grass isn't always green on the other side.

I don't condone it.

kokoye:

efribodi who thinks open relationships are ALL smooth n butter

kokoye:

Again, I say go n watch the movie KINSEY . . or read it up on wikipedia.

Then come tell me if you still down with openish . . .

I have seen Kinsey and i still think the same