things gotten easy are easily replaced,ma girlfriend gave me hell thats y i dont mistreat her,

@the girls
dont be too easy for him,play hard to get a lil but let there be [size=3pt]unoticeable traces[/size]that u love him so he doesnt start boasting

ok i have a problem and i dont know what to do,

so i had a secret crush on this guy edward since like lat year, i never told ANYONE, everytime i would see him or he would speak to me id get somethin like the butterflies, but not as deep or w/e, well like i never persued him bcuz i thot it would never happen, it would be compared to as like a dream type relationship, well 2 wks ago, on a thursday after school he asked me for a ride home, so i agreed to bring him, the whole time we were in the car we were talkin about how i never thot id be in that situation before, and other stuff, we pulled up at his house and he asks me wat i was doin that day and i actually had nothin to do, so i said nothing, he asked me to come inside, so we went inside and we talked for like an hour or so, about so much stuff, and like we were layin on his bed lookin at the ceiling, and i was tellin him how my ex played me and, and out the blue just turned to me and kissed me, like make out kissed, so i stopped him and grabbed his face, and i asked him, "wat are your intentions" and he was lke what i cant kiss you
, and i was like idk it depends on what you want from me, cuz i dont wanna get played again, well he kissed me again and i stopped him again and i said "you still didnt answer my question, what is it that you want from me" and he said "man, ive had a crush on you for the longest, your very very cute and i like u" let me tell u how, LOST i was, cuz for once in my life, i thought i had found like the perfect guy for me, hes gorgeous, hes athletic, doesnt smoke ciggarettes, hes in school, a senior, hes single, AND HE SAID HE liked me, so i was like oh my god this might atually happen,, and at first i didnt want to open up, and i told him " i cant do this, " and he was like what cant u do and all this other crap, well i finally just let myself go, and i took a chance, i trusted my heart that said let go of ya past, that whole rest of the day it was perfect, it was like i dreamed it should be for me, and it was like we were meant, yea right , the nxt day, friday, when i switch classes i usually only see him in between one switch, well fri, he came by me every switch and walked me to my next class and grabbed my hand, before id walk into my next class hed kiss me, it was like a dream im not kidding,
, well he had work and i had pratice so i didnt see him after school, sat didnt tlk to him or nothing, sat nite, i got piss face drunk and got emotional and since he was on my mind i kept textin him, sayin a bunch of emo stuff to him, well in the morning sunday i read everything i had texted him and i felt rly rly bad, so i apoligized to him, and he called me, we talked for a while and he told me that he wasnt ready for a relationship yet, so i was lik ok, thas cool, its w/e ur not the first person to lead me on then sa ythis to me a few days later, well i guess he felt bad so he said yea i go to work for 530 do you want to hango ut wit me til i go to work, it was like 3 at the time, so i went to his house and it was like we were talkin again, and i wound up brinin him to wkr in new orleans, well i left, and at like 7 he tected me sayin he got off early and do i want to go see a movie, so i said yea and i picked him up and wound up not bn able to see th movie so i dropped him off , i left went home and didnt talk to him at all, well monday i was abt to walk into school and he texted me sayin so much for walkin to school (cuz he wanted to work out by runnin to school but it was pourin down raining) so i offered to go get him, before he texted back with a yes or no i took it upon myself to run to my car and get drenched in the process, i get to the car and he said no stay at school it dont ry wanna go today anyway, si i was like i just skipped shool for nothing, OK and he was like it means alot to me that you wuld go out of ur way and do something like miss school for me, sorry are you mad and i said no more like disappointed in myself forskippin school for a boy, but neway, we didnt tlk the rest of the day, and that nite i texted him and was like "it would be so easy to fall in love with you, but i wish you were ready, " i didnt get a reply, come tuesday i saw him at school 3 times and he walked right past me didnt even look at me,
, well end of tuesday he came up to me and was like can i talk to u, so he pulled me aside and said im not tryna ignore u its just whenu mentioned the word love in the text message i didnt know how to react to that cuz im not even ready to think about love at the moment, and a bunch of other stuff and like basically ever since that, were just like friends but hardly ever talk,

you dont know how bad i wanted this to work out!!! and it kills me cuz i want him soooo bad!!! and everyone asks me, why dont yall go out yall are soooo adorable together yall are like perfect couple, cuz its true!!!

Any advice email me goldenoppurtunity05@yahoo.com with the subject (some advice for you and edward)

Babes why did u want men 2 fall in luv with u, when d guy suppose 2 be one looking 4 u. Dont u know dat we babes we are wonderfully created? Do u want 2 force urself 2 them? Think about it.

the most important point is to stay healthy and help your partner stay healthy. . .

it dosent really work?

@ sadey

CASE 1
SCENE 1
A girl walks up 2 me in a bank and gave me a note and then disappeared
REACTION
i was so impressed that i called her immediately and fixed a date(she included her phone NO in d note)
SCENE 2
she started calling me all day and night (minimum of 6 times a day and then all night). and gets upset when i don't pick her call,
REACTION
don't i have a life b/4 she came along?( i stopped calling or picking her calls)

CASE 2
My friends sister makes it her duty to entertain and be friendly with me whenever i visits,
buys me gifts calls me on the phone,
REACTION
i fixed a date with her after sometime, i got to know her and she realized am not free, but
how she turned things around i couldn't say,and to tell you the truth she has ended up my
only true love for 3 years now and counting.

CONCLUSION
sometimes it takes a girl to draw attention to herself, after that anything can happens
it can might work out,and it might not.

one love

Be your natural self!

b urself

yup, works all d time

@post
You can allows tie him to your bed post That works

Falling in Love isnt rational

just be ur natural self.no forming and all dat.

want a man to fall in love with you these are my own steps
threat them mean to keep them keen ( works like magic)
be your self (but make compromises so long as he is willing to do the same)
give good head, give good sex
if he cheats u cheat too and vice versa
be a good cook ( also works like magic)
make him jelous
make him feel like a king sometimes ( use sparingly)
have ur own opinions ( very important whether he lkes them or not)
be self sufficient ( but make him buy u nice things sometimes)
buy him nice things (sometimes)
and finally never hesitate to tell him to Bleep off if need bemen like women wif balls)

lumideezle:

[b]u all have spoken well except 4 a few(as usual) but looking at this whole love thing critically the first thing i ask myself is "y would a chick a hot chick that has numerous admirers love u and only u even to the extent that she would do anything to get your attention hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm that is nt normal man think about it there haz 2 b a reason its either u drive a good car u live in a good house, she likes your style, or some other reason that has nothing to do with your innermost person i mean your behaivour.i get irritated smytimes when i think about the way ladies act these days.we have been living on the same street for 10years and uve never waved at me talkless of saying goodmorning but when uheard i bought a car u start claming 2 love me?WTF!do u think i am stupid honestly i thank god a times i don't have a sister.ok back 2 the point, all i am saying is that u re nt in love wit the person u just think u re so quit all the 007 techniques and move on wit your life u re in LUST. [/b]

rotflmao!!!!

M.Vuchy:

@ sadey

CASE 1
SCENE 1
A girl walks up 2 me in a bank and gave me a note and then disappeared
REACTION
i was so impressed that i called her immediately and fixed a date(she included her phone NO in d note)
SCENE 2
she started calling me all day and night (minimum of 6 times a day and then all night). and gets upset when i don't pick her call,
REACTION
don't i have a life b/4 she came along?( i stopped calling or picking her calls)

talk about stalking!!!!

"When you struggle to get a man you will struggle to keep him"

Like my buddy, Chris (Rock) said, "F**k him, feed him, and shut the f**k up." No offence. Just basic male needs.
Good sex, good food, and please don't nag (last one is extremely rare but extremely important). I'll love you for life. 

@POST
Who said be yourself. . .

I feel sorry for the guy that I'm suppose to be myself too. , hehehe

@ topic, I dont think that you can MAKE a man love you.


Men are weird.

I dont think that is necessary. Just be yourself, if its faited, the guy will come to you otherwise, move on. Next!

I dont see the point of doing things which is not you and trying so hard to make the guy notice you and like you. It can be tiring and frustrating.

If he doesn't love you today, he won't love you tomorrow. Stop wasting your time!

Guys dont 4get, girls are seducers, i mean dey can get u doin wat u hate 2 do so hapuya!! leave am like dat, no comment.

Please how can one start a new thread/topic? I could only see how to reply existing threads.

uniqueman:

Please how can one start a new thread/topic? I could only see how to reply existing threads.

Err, as a new member, you're not allowed to start a new topic for sometime
Why don't you help other people by replying topic, for now

uniqueman:

Please how can one start a new thread/topic? I could only see how to reply existing threads.

luk @ d top of your nairaland page,where u  see d "mark as read" button,u wil also see a "new topic"button.clic on it nd u're done

beauteous:

luk on top your nairaland page,where u see d "mark as read" button,u wil also see a "new topic"button.clic on it nd u're done

eldee:

Err, as a new member, you're not allowed to start a new topic for sometime
Why don't you help other people by replying topic, for now

nd y dis?

if u talk abt nails, make up and all that, some guys dont like that, they just like natural. so i think u shld knw wat he likes first, b4 u go punishing yourself

Beauticious, thanks a lot for your help. I mighten't have figured it out unassisted. I shall post a new topic that I really need input on.

;d ;d ;d

IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT, THIS IS CRAP, TRYING TO MAKE LADIES TO START FLIRTING AROUND GUY, IT IS TOTALY UN-ACCEPTED. ANY GOOD GUY LOOKING FOR GENUINE LOVE FIND IT IRRITATING/DISTURBING WHEN A GAL OR GALS FLIRTS AROUND HIM ALL THE TIME. IT REALLY MAKE THAT GAL TOO CHEAT AND VULNERABLE TO GUYS THAT JUST WANT TO SATISTY THEIR SEXUAL DESIRES. I DISCOURAGE ANY LADY FROM DOING THAT.