Do you remember how no girl gave you face when you were single? and suddenly you start dating this chick and all the girls seem to want you now...

Women want attention, but not the one freely given to them...they want and crave the one that they can't have, especially the one another woman has...

women are also very competitive when it comes to attention, you can see it everywhere even online when they out do themselves ruining themselves and bringing shame to their families just for attention, for likes and shares.

There is something powerfully uplifting to a woman's self esteem, when a married man gives her attention.

She thinks highly of herself that she must be something of value if a man who has vowed before God and man to be faithful to a woman can jeopardize and risk everything just to be with her, she feels powerful.

That is the appeal of married men.

In the wise words of DMX "common ma, you know I got a wife, even though that puscy good I ain't gon jeopardize my life"

I don't have any problem with sidechick...my problem na wen dem marry tomorrow,make dem no fight their husbands for having one or harass their sidechicks.