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11 Signs To Show She's Playing Games And Wasting Your Time..f*ck by Aydigital123(m): 6:56pm On Mar 05, 2020
Women claim to hate when guys play games, but then most, at one time or another, play games with guys they’re talking to. tongue

When you’re noticing “red flags”, things not adding up, and everything seems to be “off”, that’s when you pull back or move on. Never waste time on


women who aren’t serious. If handled correctly, her game playing will be more of a “test” and she’ll feel more attraction. If handled wrong, any chance of

her ever seeing you as more than a friend will be destroyed.


Women’s Actions Never Lie



Listen to her actions more than her words.


Talk is cheap and most of us are, unintentionally, full of it. Especially today. Most of our behavior isn’t aligned with what comes out of our mouth. We use words to paint ourselves in a particular light but then we don’t back it up with actions. Because of this, it’s easier for women to fill your head with wonderful things about themselves than it is for them to prove they’re actually that person.

PLACE MORE FOCUS ON WHAT SHE DOES rather than what she says. She can bullshit you with words, but not with actions.

No matter how much you like her, how pretty you think she is, or how much you THINK she likes you, you have to put your feelings to the side and pay attention to what she’s doing – not what shes’ saying. Her actions tell the real story.


Smart men watch what’s going on and judge by what they see rather than what they hear.

Beautiful women easily bullshit one gullible guy after another and they’ll automatically assume they can fool you too


Don’t Be Afraid to Tell Her How It Is, Hurt Her Feelings, and Walk Away


When women are playing games, most men become afraid, full of emotions, and they let their emotions and desire for her get in the way of what


they have to do in order to protect their happiness, sanity, and self-respect. Regardless of how amazing you think she is, if she’s being childish,


disrespectful, playing games, and mistreating you, don’t be afraid to put your emotions away, call her out on it, speak your mind, and walk away.



If she gets her feelings hurt and thinks you’re a jerk or “asshole”, no big deal. She’ll get over it. Hurting her feelings is not as “bad” as you think it is.


Most of the time, it’s the wake-up call she needs to grow up and quit playing games.



It’s MUCH BETTER to hurt her feelings, call her out on her behavior, and risk her never talking to you again than it is to be the gullible, nice guy, and

fool she thinks you are.


Let’s get to it. Here are 11 signs she’s playing games and wasting your time


1. She Never Calls or Texts First


2. She Takes Forever Call and Text Back

3. She Only Calls and Texts When She Needs a Favor


4. She Keeps Cancelling Plans and Dates



5. She Chooses Her Girlfriends Over You


6. She Acts Different Towards You Around Others


7. She Says You’re Just Her “Friend”


8. She Always Needs “Time”

9. She’s Always Busy


10. She Won’t Take Pictures with You

11. She Constantly Talks About Ex-Boyfriends

It’s obvious when she’s seeing you but still involved with her ex.

If she was actually interested in you and care about losing you, she wouldn’t “risk” talking about her exes too much. But if she always talks about how “mad” or “irritated” her exes make her, then you should tell her to contact you once she’s “over” her exes, not under them.

Conclusion:
Respect Yourself Enough to Not Tolerate Games and Nonsense


When she’s playing games and you’ve had enough, you shouldn’t have to spell it out for her. If she’s smart enough to know how to play games, she’s smart enough to see the obvious signs that you’ve figured out what she’s doing.

When you stop calling, texting, and seeing her, your ACTIONS should communicate, loud and clear, that you’re not as dumb as other guys, you’re not cool with it, and she’s wasting your time.

Let the childish couples play games with each other. Since you have your act together enough not to play games, mature guy, you don’t have to accept it from women.

Thanks for reading,


See You Tomorrow


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