I still like my ex though but the kind of hatred some people develop for there exes, can make them do something more harmful to him/her without thinking twice

There's indeed, a thin line...

If Esther my ex and Shekau are in same room and I have 2 bullets in my gun, I'll shoot Esther twice.

The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. So when someone is hateful towards another person, there could still be some unresolved feelings there.

I feel indifferent towards exes. So indifferent, in fact, I don't care whether they're homeless, doing well, dead or alive. I don't keep them as friends either, not because I'm bitter or anything like that. I just don't see the point in doing so. I'd be so uninterested in their lives after the fact, TBH.

I don't hate my exes.
Life is short, and we we can still lots for eachother.

Davash222:
If Esther my ex and Shekau are in same room and I have 2 bullets in my gun, I'll shoot Esther twice.

Mad oo

Blu03 how far I'm waiting for you

I'm indifferent. But the first boy i dated, he's like a brother to me...

XhosaNostra:
The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. So when someone is hateful towards another person, there could still be some unresolved feelings there.

I feel indifferent towards exes. So indifferent, in fact, I don't care whether they're homeless, doing well, dead or alive. I don't keep them as friends either, not because I'm bitter or anything like that. I just don't see the point in doing so. I'd be so uninterested in their lives after the fact, TBH.

exactly.

what of those ladies or guys still sleeping with their ex
they dont hate their ex nau

@Op dey there dey talk about exes why people dey make cool cash. Ba who get time 4 dating these days?

Davash222:
If Davash222 my ex and Shekau are in same room and I have 2 bullets in my gun, I'll shoot Davash222 twice.

You know you are mentioning people's actual names, be guided and quit being a foolish envious idiot.

Mods, delete thread.

XhosaNostra:
The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. So when someone is hateful towards another person, there could still be some unresolved feelings there.

I feel indifferent towards exes. So indifferent, in fact, I don't care whether they're homeless, doing well, dead or alive. I don't keep them as friends either, not because I'm bitter or anything like that. I just don't see the point in doing so. I'd be so uninterested in their lives after the fact, TBH.

Yes babe exactly, where there is unresolved feelings.

When you have bad experience with someone you hold close to ur heart only to find out at the long run you weren't on the same page , fear hits you then pain. Why would I keep such person as a friend.

XhosaNostra:
The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. So when someone is hateful towards another person, there could still be some unresolved feelings there.

I feel indifferent towards exes. So indifferent, in fact, I don't care whether they're homeless, doing well, dead or alive. I don't keep them as friends either, not because I'm bitter or anything like that. I just don't see the point in doing so. I'd be so uninterested in their lives after the fact, TBH.

me too,,

The circumstances surrounding the breakup.


When a manipulated partner finally comes to his senses and realises how his babe had used him, it could lead to hatred.

Heard yet another tale on the radio of a man who attempted suicide cos his fiancée whom he sponsored in university broke up with him after graduation. That ex cannot be loved now, can she?

There is a thin line between love and hate.

doris4u:
When you have bad experience with someone you hold close to ur heart only to find out at the long run you weren't on the same page , fear hits you then pain. Why would I keep such person as a friend.

The bolded is the real reason.

Only have one true ex, they rest were dating themselves.

I don't hate that true ex, we still talk. I keep her as a friend cuz I have ulterior motives.

I want to attend her wedding, so I can raise my hand up when the preacher start reading the lines of" if any one here have a reason why this couple should not be join together, should raise his/her hand and come forward"

I'll raise my hands, walk out to the alter and say "Anita, please where's my Nokia charger?

Offpoint:
Only have one true ex, they rest were dating themselves.

I don't hate that true ex, we still talk. I keep her as a friend cuz I have ulterior motives.

I want to attend her wedding, so I can raise my hand up when the preacher start reading the lines of" if any one here have a reason why this couple should not be join together, should raise his/her hand and come forward"

I'll raise my hands, walk out to the alter and say "Anita, please where's my Nokia charger?

And what the meaning of Nokia charger

I don't understand...


What is ex??

Expectation vs Reality

XhosaNostra:
The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. So when someone is hateful towards another person, there could still be some unresolved feelings there.

I feel indifferent towards exes. So indifferent, in fact, I don't care whether they're homeless, doing well, dead or alive. I don't keep them as friends either, not because I'm bitter or anything like that. I just don't see the point in doing so. I'd be so uninterested in their lives after the fact, TBH.

well said...

nlPoster:
Mods, delete thread.

why.

@op it's mostly common with ladies...

doris4u:
When you have bad experience with someone you hold close to ur heart only to find out at the long run you weren't on the same page , fear hits you then pain. Why would I keep such person as a friend.

You're smart. It's rare to find your type here.

I cut off completely from exes becos I don't want any rekindled romance and whatnot, and most importantly, I do not care anymore, can that be classified as hatred? I think not.

XhosaNostra:
The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. So when someone is hateful towards another person, there could still be some unresolved feelings there.

I feel indifferent towards exes. So indifferent, in fact, I don't care whether they're homeless, doing well, dead or alive. I don't keep them as friends either, not because I'm bitter or anything like that. I just don't see the point in doing so. I'd be so uninterested in their lives after the fact, TBH.

Same heeuh.. Here*

Lamanii22:


Same heeuh.. Here*

Big Birrrd.

Jh0wsef:


Big Birrrd.

Loool big bird sounds like angry bird...

Lamanii22:



Loool big bird sounds like angry bird...

Hahaha. no, I tag thick girls that. I grew up to admire thick girls. We should text on WhatsApp if you do not mind

Jh0wsef:


Hahaha. no, I tag thick girls that. I grew up to admire thick girls. We should text on WhatsApp if you do not mind

Lol... Okay... I think I like "big bird" though..

doris4u:
When you have bad experience with someone you hold close to ur heart only to find out at the long run you weren't on the same page , fear hits you then pain. Why would I keep such person as a friend.

Very right. The day I left my ex, she blocked me from all angles after calling me devil. I understood her pain cause we dated for 3 years and I was sure she never cheated on me. I left her because she wanted marriage at all cost while she was 26years, the pressure made me leave her so she could quickly get someone who's ready