This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations, but I cannot resist the push. "HUSBANDS SCARCITY" has become one of the challenges faced by many women today. If you go to churches and prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner and this calls for concern.

Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers, was there really much of a Husbands Scarcity? Or maybe there were more men than women then? I don't think so. Maybe the women had values and were prepared to build homes and not move into a built homes. Once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him build a future.

We created the problem ourselves. Ask an average lady to define her dream husband; you get things like

* He has to be tall
* He has to be handsome and fair or dark
* He has to be rich and own a personal house at least
* He has to be presentable and intelligent
* And then adds "God fearing" so she doesn't sound worldly

Now check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet such standards, and you will see the problem. You always hear women say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and suffer with another man." What a wonderful dream! Are you suggesting that your mum wasn't normal to stay with your dad? Can't the wealth come through you?

What if from the beginning you have everything you want and and later in the marriage, the table turns around and suffering sets in? Will you run away? No one prays to suffer, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small.

The description majority of women give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting about "Husband's Scarcity".

Another hard reality of our time is the fact that the economy is so bad that it's almost impossible to find a man who is of marriage age that has all those things these ladies want. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity.

The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is and think about a home that you'll contribute to it's growth and rise



Source; http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2020/03/why-marriages-delay-and-reasons-many.html?m=1

Marriage na scam for men!