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Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by pocohantas(f): 8:29am On Mar 11, 2020
Logoobenz:
There are better things that make me sleep well at night,definitely not you.
So for your mind now na you I dey focus on?nnekwanum nsogbu ohh.
I just dey make you see wetin you miss,no be say I dey move even one inch focus from where the love of my life dey.
But e no go bad if you bring cookie make I chop ooh,for goodness sake.

No dey try use me boost your NL credibility o. I no miss anything, you no miss anything.

You can’t even set eyes on me, let alone my cookie jar. You should know how a previous attempt ended for you- in tears. Odabo Sir.

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Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Magnoliaa(f): 9:11am On Mar 11, 2020
lefulefu:
thats gross.why will i be attracted to my friend"s woman

Because it's chemicals and physics and hormones involved? There's a huge difference between that and making a move on them. You can't control attraction, this thing is not something you toss and take at will. You can only decide how to respond to and control your feelings. Yes. You ought to respect the fact that they are together and stay away.

If you meet the girl of your dreams now, she checked every box on your list, just the imperfect person you find perfect and all your friends are crazy over her, but she ended up with one of you - if won't change who she is nor how you felt.

You can be attracted to anyone.
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Magnoliaa(f): 9:17am On Mar 11, 2020
lefulefu:
its just to get una attention cheesy
u should understand we guys cheesy
normal tin


undecided
No kidding?
It's a normal thing?
I can't understand that.
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Sixfeetbelle: 1:02pm On Mar 11, 2020
1StopRudeness:



I don’t get why you are reminding me it’s my opinion but thanks anyways. I’m also aware this is an online public forum where no ones opinion count, we just come to learn, dialogue, and have fun. So what’s ur point exactly??

My point, let the man be. Even with all the comments and advice, who still wan chook head for fire will.
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 1:06pm On Mar 11, 2020
pocohantas:


No dey try use me boost your NL credibility o. I no miss anything, you no miss anything.

You can’t even set eyes on me, let alone my cookie jar. You should know how a previous attempt ended for you- in tears. Odabo Sir.
wetin den dey use NL credibility do?
Do you think I am that petty or jobless?
I no want see you ooo,not at all.I just dey let you know wetin you miss,maka na odogwu aburo guy name cool cool cool
cool cool cool
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by pocohantas(f): 1:26pm On Mar 11, 2020
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Logoobenz:
wetin den dey use NL credibility do?
Do you think I am that petty or jobless?
I no want see you ooo,not at all.I just dey let you know wetin you miss,maka na odogwu aburo guy name cool cool cool
cool cool cool
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You are beginning to sound like a broken record. Garri no get advert but e dey sell. Think about it and get over yourself. No one missed out on anything with you.
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 1:35pm On Mar 11, 2020
pocohantas:
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You are beginning to sound like a broken record. Garri no get advert but e dey sell. Think about it and get over yourself. No one missed out on anything with you.
Garri na poor man food,na why e dey sell.affordability,not necessarily choice.
People want better,but alternative no dey as usual. grin
On a lighter note,wetin make you dey hide your own odogwu nah grin grin grin
Any garri weh dem still dey put am for basin is meant for a poor man,fact!

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Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 1:36pm On Mar 11, 2020
pocohantas:
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You are beginning to sound like a broken record. Garri no get advert but e dey sell. Think about it and get over yourself. No one missed out on anything with you.
Abia.. grin grin grin
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by pocohantas(f): 1:38pm On Mar 11, 2020
Logoobenz:
Garri na poor man food,na why e dey sell.affordability,not necessarily choice.
People want better,but alternative no dey as usual. grin
On a lighter note,wetin make you dey hide your own odogwu nah grin grin grin
Any garri weh dem still dey put am for basin is meant for a poor man,fact!

Lol. You will be fine. So much for someone that claims I missed out on him.
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 1:40pm On Mar 11, 2020
pocohantas:


Lol. You will be fine. So much for someone that claims I missed out on him.
If you know how fine I dey now ehn,you no go open mouth say I will be fine... grin grin grin .in fact over fine dey worry me. cool cool cool
Idioms don't change reality sha,I'm sure you know.
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by crackkhaus: 1:45pm On Mar 11, 2020
Timson01:
Good day everyone,

My issue is with a very close friend of mine. We live in the same compound for years. Actually, her husband and I were buddies as bachelors. He brought her in as girlfriend,they dated for two years. I was like a brother to them,although they are like 3 years older than me.
From dating,they got married and she became our iyawo. This lady is dead gorgeous and I counted my friend (Dalton,not real name) as very lucky. Iyawo is any man’s dream:sexy and a good cook. Plus her figure na die.I used to call her sister mi or iyawo.Them getting married brought me even more closer. I ate in their house most times. Their first son came and was actually 9 months old when Dalton passed on in a motor accident. All our worlds stopped. It was the most painful time of all our lives. I mean,he was a young father and husband,friend and son.
I was dating someone at the time. Later on,I traveled and was in UK for 3 years. I kept in touch with Iyawo. Sent her money now and again even though she didnt need it.I relocated back to Nigeria last year. And Iyawo looks even more stunning.I was perplexed that she was not dating yet. She was like,she is still mourning her late husband. Its been four years later. I think she should move on and get married again but she was like,no one wants a single mother with a kid.She used to tell me how lonely she gets and all that. I knew I liked her alot but we are just like family. The more I saw her,the more I wanted her. I was single. I am 36 years,she is 39. I thought about this for a long time and I told her how I felt about her.She laughed and said it would never work. According to her,I was like a junior brother to her and too close to her late husband. That people would think we were having an affair while he was alive. I see reasons with her but I think there is no excuse good enough to let her go without a fight for her heart.Please I need directive..advise…how do I convince her that all her excuses do not matter..will people actually disapprove of our union…I just want to know what chances I have or concerns that anyone may raise about this before I push further for her love. I love this woman and her son with all my heart.
If there is anyone who has been in a similar situation,please advise also thank u as u offer ur advice no insult please
If you know what is good for you, do not, I repeat, DO NOT listen to any woman telling you to go ahead with this thing you're thinking of.

It is preposterous.

Don't do that to your late friend.

I am even happy that the woman involved is more sensible than most of the ladies who have commented here.

It is weird and completely unbecoming of anyone to get involved with the wife of his late friend.

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Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by pocohantas(f): 1:46pm On Mar 11, 2020
Logoobenz:
If you know how fine I dey now ehn,you no go open mouth say I will be fine... grin grin grin .in fact over fine dey worry me. cool cool cool
Idioms don't change reality sha,I'm sure you know.

Then stop imagining I missed out on you. Contradicts your supposed happiness.

Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 1:50pm On Mar 11, 2020
pocohantas:


Then stop imagining you missed out on you. Contradicts your supposed happiness.
No,you just want to see it that way cos of bias.
But no,I'm alright cool
Shey you see my new whips? grin grin grin
2 at a blow.
Who wouldn't be happy... grin grin grin
Plus new chick too,everything tight
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by pocohantas(f): 1:58pm On Mar 11, 2020
Logoobenz:
No,you just want to see it that way cos of bias.
But no,I'm alright cool
Shey you see my new whips? grin grin grin
2 at a blow.
Who wouldn't be happy... grin grin grin
Plus new chick too,everything tight


I didn’t see it, but now you have brought it to our awareness. Congratulations.

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Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 1:59pm On Mar 11, 2020
pocohantas:



I didn’t see it, but now you have brought it to our awareness. Congratulations.
make I faint say you no see am,anyways,here..
Make I find old pictures of am as I no dey shithole for now cool
2016 cool
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 2:04pm On Mar 11, 2020
pocohantas:



I didn’t see it, but now you have brought it to our awareness. Congratulations.
2014 C350 enroute : cool

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Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by virago(f): 4:07pm On Mar 11, 2020
1StopRudeness:



U know It’s a tradition of greed under the guise that the deceased’s brother owes whatever the deceased left behind..... it’s not only degrading to treat a woman as an item, it’s also dehumanizing





But If it’s the the widow that willfully desires to start riding her late brothers shaft....all well and good


But wait o , if she willfully marries her dead husband's brother ( brother in-law ) and she has children for him as well , what will you call the relationship between both set of kids ( children from the first husband and children from brother ) ?
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Olakunleyakub(m): 4:38pm On Mar 11, 2020
Guy borrow itself sense nah
I don't see anything bad in what he must said.
SmellingAnus:
All I can say is that may we not have such friends like you that will be waiting to bang our wives after our demise in the name of wanting to date her...
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 4:43pm On Mar 11, 2020
virago:



But wait o , if she willfully marries her dead husband's brother ( brother in-law ) and she has children for him as well , what will you call the relationship between both set of kids ( children from the first husband and children from brother ) ?

My brother the thing tire me...
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by virago(f): 4:57pm On Mar 11, 2020
1StopRudeness:

My brother the thing tire me...

Who is your bro
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by virago(f): 4:59pm On Mar 11, 2020
1StopRudeness:

My brother the thing tire me...

I get it now , they'll be called brocousins or siscousins
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 5:39pm On Mar 11, 2020
virago:



Who is your bro

Oh! I ddnt see the f.....sincere apologies.... I sometimes have an unconscious habit of not looking at monikers before quoting.....
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Rawhumper(m): 3:42pm On Aug 15, 2020
Love doesnt ask why,it speaks from the heart and never explains....

From experience,women of nowadays like more action, less talk.
I have been in position where i would have lost several opportunities because of too much talk,if not cos of my looks the ladies would have been turned off cos some of them told me i talk too much(i like been honest with myself).

If you want the lady,you should have just created the atmosphere,take her out,tell her how attractive you find her...let there be that tension btw u two, make the move to touch her softly....kiss her when you see the hidden signs from her i bet you she will respond except you are not attractive bro.

If you do more of talking you end up been rejected and friendzoned,that was your initial mistake by telling her about relationship.

Take the lead by talking less and doing more action,once she does it with you try to reassure her you really love her,if not guilt can make her keep off from you forever after it.

Have a nice day.














quote author=Timson01 post=87323435]Good day everyone,

My issue is with a very close friend of mine. We live in the same compound for years. Actually, her husband and I were buddies as bachelors. He brought her in as girlfriend,they dated for two years. I was like a brother to them,although they are like 3 years older than me.
From dating,they got married and she became our iyawo. This lady is dead gorgeous and I counted my friend (Dalton,not real name) as very lucky. Iyawo is any man’s dream:sexy and a good cook. Plus her figure na die.I used to call her sister mi or iyawo.Them getting married brought me even more closer. I ate in their house most times. Their first son came and was actually 9 months old when Dalton passed on in a motor accident. All our worlds stopped. It was the most painful time of all our lives. I mean,he was a young father and husband,friend and son.
I was dating someone at the time. Later on,I traveled and was in UK for 3 years. I kept in touch with Iyawo. Sent her money now and again even though she didnt need it.I relocated back to Nigeria last year. And Iyawo looks even more stunning.I was perplexed that she was not dating yet. She was like,she is still mourning her late husband. Its been four years later. I think she should move on and get married again but she was like,no one wants a single mother with a kid.She used to tell me how lonely she gets and all that. I knew I liked her alot but we are just like family. The more I saw her,the more I wanted her. I was single. I am 36 years,she is 39. I thought about this for a long time and I told her how I felt about her.She laughed and said it would never work. According to her,I was like a junior brother to her and too close to her late husband. That people would think we were having an affair while he was alive. I see reasons with her but I think there is no excuse good enough to let her go without a fight for her heart.Please I need directive..advise…how do I convince her that all her excuses do not matter..will people actually disapprove of our union…I just want to know what chances I have or concerns that anyone may raise about this before I push further for her love. I love this woman and her son with all my heart.
If there is anyone who has been in a similar situation,please advise also thank u as u offer ur advice no insult please[/quote]
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Rawhumper(m): 4:00pm On Aug 15, 2020
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I understand your point.

I was once in his shoes,but mine was my bros wife we used to be close cos i was the only one that stood by her when my other sisters were not for her as a newly married wife.

She is sexy and would even rub her big boobs whenever she close by and am carrying theur baby,i wanted her so much but i didnt allow that urge to get a better part of me.Though my bros suspected and accused us.
It was a serious case,i stopped coming to their house for a year.

Though my bro is more handsome been fair and i on the chocolate side,i didnt understand why.

My point is that its natural to feel sexually attracted to the opposite sex irrespective of who he or sge belongs to,but how we go about dealing it,is what makes us RESPONSIBLE MEN.












quote author=daddytime post=87323689]God forbid....

You ain't no close friend nigga but a very close enemy.

You were already coveting the poor guy's wife until his death, how are we sure you ain't responsible for his death consciously or unconsciously when you'd seat and keep dreaming to have his wife as yours in your mind. There is power in our thoughts and subconscious mind.


May God guide and guard me and whoever is reading this from the likes of you.

With the likes of you who needs an enemy?

Dig your grave man, you'd be needing it soon.

So, of all the women that are in the UK and now Nigeria, no one is as 'set' as the iyawo in question?

You are an oloju Kokoro

Tuehhh[/quote]
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by samuelngbede(m): 4:35pm On Aug 15, 2020
I don't know what is wrong with some men, it
not even a case of ''my friend's wife is desiring me'' it's your sorry ass lusting after her .

she has already told you no and gave her reasons yet u cannot respect her decision, her u are taking advantage of her because with little pressure she will definitely yield to ur selfish desire

women are weak and u know that... u are already in the act I don't see the need for any advice. ......

my candid advice even though u don't deserve it... leave that lady alone
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Emmanuel30a: 7:13pm On Jan 27, 2022
[quote author=Timson01 post=87323435]Good day everyone,
My issue is with a very close friend of mine. We live in the same compound for years. Actually, her husband and I were buddies as bachelors. He brought her in as girlfriend,they dated for two years. I was like a brother to them,although they are like 3 years older than me.
From dating,they got married and she became our iyawo. This lady is dead gorgeous and I counted my friend (Dalton,not real name) as very lucky. Iyawo is any man’s dream:sexy and a good cook. Plus her figure na die.I used to call her sister mi or iyawo.Them getting married brought me even more closer. I ate in their house most times. Their first son came and was actually 9 months old when Dalton passed on in a motor accident. All our worlds stopped. It was the most painful time of all our lives. I mean,he was a young father and husband,friend and son.
I was dating someone at the time. Later on,I travel . That Is Infatuation And Not Love. Kill Your Devil, Covetous Man. Read Exodus 20
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Emmanuel30a: 7:18pm On Jan 27, 2022
That Is Infatuation And Not Love. Kill Your Devil, Covetous Man. Read Exodus 20. You Cant Love The Husband And Marry His Wife After His Death.

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