Usually the reverse is always the case.

On very rare occasions will a lady take a guy out and do the spending.

Some guys may find it offensive or degrading or embarrassing to have a lady take them out and get a treat, perhaps as a casual friend, intimate friend or a spouse.

some ladies may have issues with that too, but some as well do not think it's too much of a big deal.

what do u think?

marriage, relationships or friendships should be spiced up with such type of creativity or swap activity... I believe the ability for one to be spontaneous and expressive with ideas like that makes them interesting, entertaining, likeable and lovable.

should a guy get such invite, he shouldn't frown and turn it down, neither should it affect his ego or masculinity. so long as u av an identity and ur mettle is intact. why not

a guy took me out,I asked for his permission to pay for what we ate,dude took offense and was angry. He mistook my gesture for looking down on him. Not every guy likes it. I won't try it again

Easybela:
a guy took me out,I asked for his permission to pay for what we ate,dude took offense and was angry. He mistook my gesture for looking down on him. Not every guy likes it. I won't try it again

lol. u sure? u sure say the guy dey vex... Naija guys wey neva chop belle full dey form chairman

Easybela:
a guy took me out,I asked for his permission to pay for what we ate,dude took offense and was angry. He mistook my gesture for looking down on him. Not every guy likes it. I won't try it again

can u kindly try that with me

nothing do u.Nah to Dey push the trowle,Pipu go think say nah love/nah ur money she use pay.Abeg,No dull time

Easybela:
a guy took me out,I asked for his permission to pay for what we ate,dude took offense and was angry. He mistook my gesture for looking down on him. Not every guy likes it. I won't try it again

U see ur life? Sister u have bn looking for an excuse to justify the idea of women not spending on men n one coconut head nigger just helped u wt a good reason to give u a clear conscience on dat. Please not all men are full of such unnecessary ego. I think the guy that took u out is an insecure broke ass nigga...

My brodas in the house, if a Nigerian female tells you to follow her for shopping spree ... and that she’s the one paying ... bobo RUN

Na setup, kidnapping, robbery, witchcraft, trap etc. you will never be a real man again because they have stolen your ‘macho’.

If an oyibo invites you then you can go. It will be fine. They are angels