What will you do if you catch your spouse,girlfriend or boyfriend in bed with another man or women either on xmas day or new year evening?

On my own point of view, i will just walk out and never listen to any explanation from the women,sure if we were married, i will need a divorce right away or if she is my girlfriend, then am done with that relationship,because there is no way i can ever live happily with that women in my own life,cos i will always recall the incident and then it will always bring back those memory.So on my end no second chance at all so tell us yours Nairaland pal.

^^^^^^^@190 so you mean you won't take that first option again right? i think the consequence will later be regrettable if you hit them,because at the end,someone will still come to you and say you were not supposed to hit them and now you have to apologize,meanwhile u are the person who they are to apologize to.so the best option is walk out and kick her out of your life.

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kant u see, i change mouth,

^^^^^, lol , , why are this people on Nairaland not responding to this? or didn't they have any reaction to this kind of incident?

99views and only 2morons interacting I am outta here mehn!

That wouldn't be a pretty scene at all. For ALL parties involved. God forbid if this "person" is brought into my home. Yikes! My mind can't even take me there. Although livedit is saved, sanctified and filled with the holy spirit. It'll take everything in me and God almighty to stop me from going "loco". Luckily, I pray nothing like this EVER happen to me. No likey

Double birthday bash!!! No Turkey meat, xmas rice and candies 4 dis lady.,,,,what a sacrilege on my saviour's birthday!!!

But come oooh,,,,will d day of the atrocite change adultery to faithfulness? Noooooooooooo

Regardless of d day it of d incident, i think and believe that adultery remains adultery, which means my action won't be different 4rm what it will be any other day.

If she was doing it forcefully, under duress or hypnotized, I 'll certainly 4give her and move on, otherwise, divorce 'll serve her right.

^^^^^good for you guy, as for me, i just can't forgive and move on with this kind of person.

190:

^^well i dont know maybe they all travelled to their respective villages for xmas!!

They better come back from their village and tell us what they will think, so why didn't you 190 go to the village when others are there huh?, lol abi u dey fear to buy bag of rice and new stuff there?

i will simply take off my garments and join dem.

Same thing as any day in the year

Depends.
If he's just my bf, then I will dump his a$$. I'll simply just walk away. At least I found out what a cheating scumbag he is before we're married.
If we're married, that complicates things. Marriage should be sacred. Marriage is sacred. To marry someone, I have to be able to fully trust the person. If he does cheat on me, then obviously there are issues in our marriage we need to work out. I'd do whatever it takes- go to a marriage counselor, etc.
If I married the person, I must have fully trusted the person- and believe me, my trust doesn't come easily. I must have seen something in him, so yeah, I'll give him another chance.

Though, to be perfectly honest, where the hell would he get the chance to cheat on me on xmas or new years? Don't bf/gf or married couples spend those holidays together anyway?

iyatrustee:

99views and only 2morons interacting I am outta here mehn!

Gurl i just saw your post now, are you talking to me and 190 as slowpoke?.well u get mouth, just to put a common comment na wahala, na wa oooo 9ja

xKemix:

Depends.
If he's just my bf, then I will dump his a$$. I'll simply just walk away. At least I found out what a cheating scumbag he is before we're married.
If we're married, that complicates things. Marriage should be sacred. Marriage is sacred. To marry someone, I have to be able to fully trust the person. If he does cheat on me, then obviously there are issues in our marriage we need to work out. I'd do whatever it takes- go to a marriage counselor, etc.
If I married the person, I must have fully trusted the person- and believe me, my trust doesn't come easily. I must have seen something in him, so yeah, I'll give him another chance.

Though, to be perfectly honest, where the hell would he get the chance to cheat on me on xmas or new years? Don't bf/gf or married couples spend those holidays together anyway?

^^^^^^^^^I think the story can be different and anything can happen, it doesn't mean man and women must spend those days all the time together if you have not withness something like that, i have, and it can happen for real.

@ OP. . . . Stand there and watch till the show is over and then clap. . .clap. . . clap!!

^^^^^ Clap for yourself like you can do that yourself

I don't really know what to do when I am in that situation.I am very emotional sometimes.So.probably,I will just cry an run away, or will get something to hurt them.Hope it will never happen to me.

@ mediatrix8 is that your pics? if yes then i must say it's really hot.