should i call?

what should i say

how rude

you make me layugh

why do u want to call him/her? his/she is ex, so let him/her b. dont bother callin him/her cus his/her present lover might pick d call, hw would u feel? pls look somwhere else.

@OP you have issues.

who is op? i want to call to say hi

My BB ping Is IBB419 , for my friend ATK410, and my girlfriend OBJ911

OP is the name of your ex's girlfriend.

Umm, why would you WANT to call your ex's number?  He IS your "ex" am I correct? Unless you plan on asking or getting back with him, let sleeping dogs lie.  You only setting yourself up for heartbreak.  What if he has a new woman and moved on with his life and his woman answered the phone? What are you going to say? I'm sorry, but I USED to be in relationship with him and wanted to call and say "hi"?  How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot. You'd be wondering why the heck is his "ex" calling you, right?  Then I feel you should show the same respect.  Then too, what if he never answers, or answers and tell you to "kick rocks". Then what? Why hash up old memories? I think you should let "him" go and move on with your life.  I'm sure he has.

Mygoldie:

OP is the name of your ex's girlfriend.

BABY U BADT OOOOOOOOO

i hear what your all sayeing believe it or not, but every situtation is different have you even thought that we were together and lost contact and we dont have no mutual friends

happylady:

i hear what your all sayeing believe it or not, but every situtation is different have you even thought that we were together and lost contact and we dont have no mutual friends

My thing is, if you two were in a close "relationship" how did you lose contact with each other? People that is important to me and a part of my life, I make sure to keep contact some way for or another, Unless something tragic, life changing happened. Alot of times when you "lose" contact is because one or the other has drifting apart and decided to go into two different directions.

think outside of the box i cant go into detals here. but it happened all those crazy ideas you can come up with, happened. now im scared to call

happylady:

think outside of the box i cant go into details here. but it happened all those crazy ideas you can come up with, happened. now im scared to call

Do you mean, "read between the lines" instead?  The title of the post was "Found Ex's Number" should you call?  I don't know about anyone else, but I automatically assumed you two broken up and you want to know rather or not to call to reconcile.  All we have to go off of is what you tell us.  Obviously something more happened than you let on with us initially, otherwise you wouldn't be "afraid".  Only way to put an end to your nervousness, is to take that chance an call him.  But be ready for the consequences that may come along with it.

Edited to add: Far as what you can say, I would say hello, assuming it is him who answers the phone and he still know who you are. I'd say something along the lines of, that you've been thinking about him and came across his number and decided to contact him just to see how you are doing.

If he don't sound too enthusied hearing from you. Then you end it the same as the above and toss his number away.

thanks i need to think this one in the past i was too quick even now i am not scared like that

im scared if calling will make something worse because timing is everything

alot has hsappened since then,

happylady:

thanks i need to think this one in the past i was too quick even now i am not scared like that

im scared if calling will make something worse because timing is everything

alot has hsappened since then,

I've edited my last post for you. But far as making things "worse" I suppose you are answering your own question rather or not you should call.

which kind poster is this~

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which kind poster is this~

ha!! this one your comment come in black,l hope the op she safe?

I always enjoy these banter here at NL

@ poster
1. op is not ur ex boy frnd girl name
2. hw old r u?
3.tel us in ful wht hapend,if nt we cant giv gud advic

u no get work o! but you obviously have too much credit. .