Hello nairaland!!
I will like to have a clear view for this.
Drop your honest answer about this guy.
What will be your advised to the lady.

Lol. This is the future of most women or ladies.

You see you did well by ignoring and running. She wants you take responsibility of her own issues with probably various men. Lol

When she was at her prime and fruitful years, responsibility was not in her dictionary abi.

Most ladies always want to be serious after they have some sort of baggage or the other. You know the worst part, even if you took the responsibility of her irresponsible act, she will still later insult and shame you in one way or the other.

You better let her continue been a public toilet up and down hoping to meet one of this Captain save a hoe, who will now carry her emotional baggages and trauma plus responsibilities join.

Advice for you also:
Find young ladies without baggages or responsibilities. Or else you will end up carrying another man's issues or problems.

Stop dating low hanging fruit. They are easy to pluck but are already rotten or spoilt. Their juice are not worth the squeeze. Simple.

Your text response was perfect. Safe brother.

The man is a genius!!!!!

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They are so many hot young sexzy girls out there. Why boarder yourself with Belgium

The Man is right

First of all, God will punish her for even hoping that an innocent man would automatically assume responsibility for her 3 children.

Dating a single mother is always tricky business. They expect instant acceptance and love for their kids. That’s unreasonable. You should give the guy time to adjust to the reality of being a father to a kid who would always live outside the bubble of your leadership. Why? Cos such women are quick to guilt trip you when you feel you need to discipline the child.

If you want to be in the life of a single mother, prepare yourself to be responsible only for the upkeep and not the admonition and disciplining of her kid(s).

Child misbehaves and you go on and have a few words with him then the mother gets defensive and says “is it because he’s not your son?” That shît is annoying AF.

Be like Covik 1-9 don chop her brain finish.

Not even 0-1 but 0-3.. haba!

The guy did nothing wrong biko

RUN! RUN!! RUN!!!


JAPA!!!

She want someone that can assist her with the load.
But she's sounding unreasonable

Thank you all.

flokii:
Not even 0-1 but 0-3.. haba!

The guy did nothing wrong biko

I dey tell you.

Exactly
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Child misbehaves and you go on and have a few words with him then the mother gets defensive and says “is it because he’s not your son?” That shît is annoying AF.[/quote]

so she wants u to shoulder the responsibility of kids u not responsible for? is it by force? well op u dey try ooo cos if na me na instant blocking after getting such a chat from her .
anyway if u have a big heart u can shoulder their responsibilty

Sunnymatey:
She want someone that can assist her with the load.
But she's sounding unreasonable

she should tell the baby daddies that she cant bear the load alone nau

GOAT response

There's no problem in dating a single mom but NEVER enter such a relationship expecting the men to assume responsibility for your children just like that.