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Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by selfemployed(m): 7:41am On Mar 26, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bEYuNKVW0Ns


Here are some reasons why many ladies of marriage age are still single.....

1. They don't give love. They have this mindset of receiving and receiving

2. They're looking for a rich man

3. They don't notice the men around them. They look far and in the wrong direction

4. etc

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Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by GeneralPula: 7:43am On Mar 26, 2020
Oko t’won lode tongue
Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by Amazingman(m): 7:49am On Mar 26, 2020
And lies
Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by selfemployed(m): 7:51am On Mar 26, 2020
Amazingman:
And lies


Lies?
Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by Kylekent59: 7:52am On Mar 26, 2020
The most important are these: They always feel too big : they look down on some men and every girl wants a rich man.

As a result of 2, they keep getting older and before they know it : they are already 30 and above.


To the ladies, when a guy approaches you, don't just look down on him, don't bother if he is rich or poor; if your mind wanna go with him, then go, if your mind don't wanna go with him, then back out.

Did you know you can grow your man?

You can start advising him, reasoning with him on how to be successful, giving him ideas, hussling with him.. etc. With time you both are gonna grow together.


Stop all these class of a thing, but rather put him in that class.
Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by donbachi(m): 8:03am On Mar 26, 2020
Getting a richman for a husband..is like buying a material in the market.take it to the tailor,the tailor takes ur measurement and gives date for the collection and boom..people start telling u "wow,ur clothe is beautiful"..but our women are the complete opposite...always waiting 4 d ready made.

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Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by Oluromantic: 8:03am On Mar 26, 2020
The first factor is up-bringing, next is experience and most importantly, age. A girl in her early 20s who's used to being given and dashed things by men especially if she has noticeable features, will definitely be selective of men. She's in her prime

At that age every girl sets a standard for themselves(mostly physical)and look out for a man who meets that standard, men who do not meet it are treated as trash while they begin to love men who meet it. However after a series of been used and dumped, battered, cheated on, duped, aborted severally and demeaned by lover, parents and family, they suddenly realize that the best of life comes to sacrificial and selfless givers of virtues(including good attitude/manners), not those who expect to receive.

Most importantly, they learn that a proper and safe relationship is actually the other way round.. It's the men who should set a standard, it's the ladies who should seriously work hard to meet the standard by been submissively groomable.. That's Bible and quaran standard for any sane marriage-based relationship. But if they've not been hit by life's hard side, they won't learn on time. Humility is a virtue that comes after the proud self hits d rock..that's even if the person survives the hit. Some get to heaven before realizing their pride. Some men enforce this humility thru serious beating.. I don't blame such men actually, pride shd know it's limit

In other words, girls in their early 30s who know that time is not on their side anymore and are working are better, peaceful, supportive and marriage-ready than those immature chickens. But one has to be sure it's not the one that has lost her womb in learning process..those ones fake humility a lot to enter marriage o.

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Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by frankkydee(m): 8:16am On Mar 26, 2020
Kylekent59:
The most important are these: They always feel too big : they look down on some men and every girl wants a rich man.

As a result of 2, they keep getting older and before they know it : they are already 30 and above.


To the ladies, when a guy approaches you, don't just look down on him, don't bother if he is rich or poor; if your mind wanna go with him, then go, if your mind don't wanna go with him, then back out.

Did you know you can grow your man?

You can start advising him, reasoning with him on how to be successful, giving him ideas, hussling with him.. etc. With time you both are gonna grow together.


Stop all these class of a thing, but rather put him in that class.











Indeed
Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by Angelacruz: 8:19am On Mar 26, 2020
U r wasting ur tym.Didn't u read in one thread called packaging??
Kylekent59:
The most important are these: They always feel too big : they look down on some men and every girl wants a rich man.

As a result of 2, they keep getting older and before they know it : they are already 30 and above.


To the ladies, when a guy approaches you, don't just look down on him, don't bother if he is rich or poor; if your mind wanna go with him, then go, if your mind don't wanna go with him, then back out.

Did you know you can grow your man?

You can start advising him, reasoning with him on how to be successful, giving him ideas, hussling with him.. etc. With time you both are gonna grow together.


Stop all these class of a thing, but rather put him in that class.
Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by Angelacruz: 8:21am On Mar 26, 2020
Like seriously??d shit can be so tiring
Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by Nobody: 8:25am On Mar 26, 2020
Kylekent59:
The most important are these: They always feel too big : they look down on some men and every girl wants a rich man.

As a result of 2, they keep getting older and before they know it : they are already 30 and above.


To the ladies, when a guy approaches you, don't just look down on him, don't bother if he is rich or poor; if your mind wanna go with him, then go, if your mind don't wanna go with him, then back out.

Did you know you can grow your man?

You can start advising him, reasoning with him on how to be successful, giving him ideas, hussling with him.. etc. With time you both are gonna grow together.


Stop all these class of a thing, but rather put him in that class.
Some ladies need this your comment
Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by proclinician: 8:29am On Mar 26, 2020
Marriage is not for everyone.
Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by sexylassie2(f): 8:29am On Mar 26, 2020
Most of your guys aren't prepared for marriage but because you think you have watched some stuff on youtube, suddenly, you think you have an opinion on how women this and that.

Why not focus on your own life.
Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by coolestofall(m): 8:39am On Mar 26, 2020
sexylassie2:
Most of your guys aren't prepared for marriage but because you think you have watched some stuff on youtube, suddenly, you think you have an opinion on how women this and that.

Why not focus on your own life.
Even if a guy thinks he is not ready, meeting a girl that dont share the ideologies listed by the op might actually change his mind and realise how wrong he was. But what im I saying self, most ladies dont learn and take advise. sad

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Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by sexylassie2(f): 9:00am On Mar 26, 2020
coolestofall:

Even if a guy thinks he is not ready, meeting a girl that dont share the ideologies listed by the op might actually change his mind and realise how wrong he was. But what im I saying self, most ladies dont learn and take advise. sad

The stuff is many of you are time wasters, you want a lady to act marriageable while you waste her time.

You want a lady to act this and that but how marriageable are you.

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Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by coolestofall(m): 9:07am On Mar 26, 2020
sexylassie2:


The stuff is many of you are time wasters, you want a lady to act marriageable while you waste her time.

You want a lady to act this and that but how marriageable are you.
Which one is many of us are time wasters. Have I dated you before Let me tell you something; only a mad man would let a "marriageable" girl go in this current period where a good girl is frigging scarce.

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Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by snitchbitch: 11:12am On Mar 26, 2020
When you start dating a Nigeria girl, data will finish on her phone, her dstv subscription will end, she will need money for shopping, she will need money for cooking gas, she will want to fix her hair(Brazilian hair), she will ask you to pay her house rent. You will take her and her friends to shoprite every saturday.

Don't worry my guy, when you get home after doing all the above for her, and you about to kiss, hug and fxck, she will be MENSTRUATING!!!!

"For God so loved us (we Nigerian guys) that He gave us special types of women (Nigerian women) that whosoever is able to live with them peacefully without any fight, is indeed a typical man who shall have a blissful life.

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Re: Why Some Ladies Have Difficulties Finding A Husband by Nobody: 11:16am On Mar 26, 2020
Most ladies are from poor dysfunctional families which lead them to be
1. Greedy
2. Bad character
3. No respect (very insultive)
4. Money conscious
5. Living a fake lifestyle just to step up.
6. Liars

If you are a man and you ready to marry a Nigerian girl, look for a virgin between 21-26 from a good home and you might have a peace of mind. I was never a fan of marrying a virgin but now I know.

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