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I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by beardlessdude: 10:55am On Mar 26
Please advise, go ahead or not?
Can i keep sexual desires in control after castration?
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by donbachi(m): 10:58am On Mar 26
No..seek for help..psychologically,mentally and spiritual.
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by iClef: 10:59am On Mar 26
Okay.
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by Semperty: 11:02am On Mar 26
You mean you want to castrated yourself shocked
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by beardlessdude: 11:04am On Mar 26
donbachi:
No..seek for help..psychologically,mentally and spiritual.
No, as in it wont help keep sexual desires in control?
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by beardlessdude: 11:04am On Mar 26
Semperty:
You mean you want to castrated yourself shocked
in the hospital
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by donbachi(m): 11:07am On Mar 26
beardlessdude:
No, as in it wont help keep sexual desires in control?
yes.

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Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by klem93(m): 11:08am On Mar 26
beardlessdude:
Please advise, go ahead or not?
Can i keep sexual desires in control after castration?
Lemme advice u, castration won't do it, even psychological and mentally and spiritual help might not go along way to help u. I didn't say u should remain what ure doing but trust me, if the desire will go, it will go.... God can do it only if you're willing to let him do it bro.... But before then don't kill urself with thoughts. You're not the worst person on earth

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Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by kilonshele101(m): 12:58pm On Mar 26
After taking some classes in psychology of human sexuality, I discovered that that is how you're created, it is a normal biology reaction, only that our culture and various religions considered it as abnormal without knowing the causes nor creating a remedy for it.
I'm very sure that you didn't learn it from somewhere, you just discovered it that people of same sex are sexually attracted to you.
So, you are not at fault for having the urge.

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Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by bluefilm: 1:32pm On Mar 26
I have a better idea.

You should consider SNIPER.

Nonsense. lipsrsealed
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by RedEagle: 1:53pm On Mar 26
Hello,

Please do not try this, as the side effects may not be nice and you may want to reverse it in future and regret.

You have two options:

1. Don't express the feelings or urges: Just like Monks, Spiritual people or other secular celibates of straight or gay persuasion, you can choose to learn to master and overcome your sexual urges. Everyone needs to learn this to some degree but some people choose to totally overcome or suppress their urges. For you, the first step will be to find a purpose to focus on or commit to, be it school work, spiritual work, fitness and exercise etc. At the beginning you may fail or stumble but you will get better in time. https://www.wikihow.com/Live-a-Life-of-Celibacy is a good place to start.

2. Express them in a healthy environment: You are not the first gay or bisexual person in existence, and you won't be the last. In a society like Nigeria you just need to find the right people who can accommodate you or maybe move countries. It needn't impact your life much and if your moral and spiritual background is not against being gay, you may want to explore this. Once you start exploring you will find tons of advice and literature on the internet and may meet people who have gone through the same conflicts as you have. Please look out for those who want to set you up or take advantage of you, especially in Nigeria.

The path you will follow depends on a number of things, your spirituality: if your adherence to religion and your beliefs are against homosexuality, please don't push it for the time being and follow option 1, as you grow older, you will know what to do; if it doesn't you may consider slowly exploring option 2.

your risk tolerance: Nigeria is a very dangerous place to be gay (funny since this is a country where rape, corruption, fornication and adultery are common), so if your risk tolerance is very low, you can stick with option 1, but if your risk tolerance grows, option 2 may be explored slowly and carefully.

No matter your choice, it is important to not base your view on yourself and self worth solely on your sexuality: You aren't bad or good simply because you are gay or straight; try to have a life outside sex and lust (this may mean scaling back on porn and masturbation). You also need activities that give you , joy, purpose and fulfillment such as work and a hobby.

You also need to work with therapists and professional counselors, I'd advice you seek out therapists that are aligned with social work NGOs, mental health NGOs and LGBT friendly NGOs.

I'd also advice you pick up fitness and maybe mindfulness to help you master yourself and your urges, whether you choose to be celibate or not.

In everything please be careful, know that you have a lot to offer the world and your urges aren't a path to evil of themselves but a part of your life.

I hope this helped.

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Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by Omar09(f): 3:58pm On Mar 26
iClef:
Okay.

I knew something was wrong somewhere.... Legend that's you.
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by Raphchuks: 6:04pm On Mar 26
RedEagle:
Hello,

Please do not try this, as the side effects may not be nice and you may want to reverse it in future and regret.

You have two options:

1. Don't express the feelings or urges: Just like Monks, Spiritual people or other secular celibates of straight or gay persuasion, you can choose to learn to master and overcome your sexual urges. Everyone needs to learn this to some degree but some people choose to totally overcome or suppress their urges. For you, the first step will be to find a purpose to focus on or commit to, be it school work, spiritual work, fitness and exercise etc. At the beginning you may fail or stumble but you will get better in time. https://www.wikihow.com/Live-a-Life-of-Celibacy is a good place to start.

2. Express them in a healthy environment: You are not the first gay or bisexual person in existence, and you won't be the last. In a society like Nigeria you just need to find the right people who can accommodate you or maybe move countries. It needn't impact your life much and if your moral and spiritual background is not against being gay, you may want to explore this. Once you start exploring you will find tons of advice and literature on the internet and may meet people who have gone through the same conflicts as you have. Please look out for those who want to set you up or take advantage of you, especially in Nigeria.

The path you will follow depends on a number of things, your spirituality: if your adherence to religion and your beliefs are against homosexuality, please don't push it for the time being and follow option 1, as you grow older, you will know what to do; if it doesn't you may consider slowly exploring option 2.

your risk tolerance: Nigeria is a very dangerous place to be gay (funny since this is a country where rape, corruption, fornication and adultery are common), so if your risk tolerance is very low, you can stick with option 1, but if your risk tolerance grows, option 2 may be explored slowly and carefully.

No matter your choice, it is important to not base your view on yourself and self worth solely on your sexuality: You aren't bad or good simply because you are gay or straight; try to have a life outside sex and lust (this may mean scaling back on porn and masturbation). You also need activities that give you , joy, purpose and fulfillment such as work and a hobby.

You also need to work with therapists and professional counselors, I'd advice you seek out therapists that are aligned with social work NGOs, mental health NGOs and LGBT friendly NGOs.

I'd also advice you pick up fitness and maybe mindfulness to help you master yourself and your urges, whether you choose to be celibate or not.

In everything please be careful, know that you have a lot to offer the world and your urges aren't a path to evil of themselves but a part of your life.

I hope this helped.
Very catchy...are you a psychologist?
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by Lipslikecandy11(m): 6:18pm On Mar 26
bluefilm:
I have a better idea.

You should consider SNIPER.

Nonsense. lipsrsealed


Ure very stupid for telling him that....!!! Fagg?t.!!
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by bluefilm: 6:27pm On Mar 26
Lipslikecandy11:



Ure very stupid for telling him that....!!! Fagg?t.!!

GAYbriel.

I sight you.

You can snip the spiner too.

You guys are already useless as far as this world is concerned.
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by beardlessdude: 6:28pm On Mar 26
bluefilm:


GAYbriel.

I sight you.

You can snip the spiner too.

You guys are already useless as far as this world is concerned.
honestly i would love to be dead, not by sniper but under a super thick man. HOW DOES THAT FEEL TO THINK OF?
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by Nobody: 6:38pm On Mar 26
beardlessdude:
honestly i would love to be dead, not by sniper but under a super thick man. HOW DOES THAT FEEL TO THINK OF?
Fvck it man! I'm highly homophobic and castration, drinking sniper,etc won't fix your problem. I was thinking maybe you become a monk.

But before you become a monk, try to reconsider having sex with lady with big soft booty and breast, man. I don't get it..God create this soft succulent female boobs to be sucked by men. Why would you like to touch your fellow man??

Since when did you notice you gay?

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Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by bluefilm: 6:38pm On Mar 26
beardlessdude:
honestly i would love to be dead, not by sniper but under a super thick man. HOW DOES THAT FEEL TO THINK OF?

Damnnnn nigarrrrr

You so _fucked up, man.

I pray you get what you want.
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by beardlessdude: 6:43pm On Mar 26
Rasmega:

Fvck it man! I'm highly homophobic and castration, drinking sniper,etc won't fix your problem. I was thinking maybe you become a monk.

But before you become a monk, try to reconsider having sex with lady with big soft booty and breast, man. I don't get it..God create this soft succulent female boobs to be sucked by men. Why would you like to touch your fellow man??

Since when did you notice you gay?
Notjust touching, I also like looking undressing in my head and disturbing them with eye contacts. I m just so fûcked up mahnn. Dont get me wrong i dont like being like this, but I cannot do anything. I swear. Suicide is not even an option maybe one day HIV would destroy me
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by Nobody: 6:47pm On Mar 26
beardlessdude:
Notjust touching, I also like looking undressing in my head and disturbing them with eye contacts. I m just so fûcked up mahnn
You should see a psychologist. I believe you don't like it and your feeling is fvcking you up. I will recommend that you should be locked in a cell with beautiful women with nice titties and firm soft ass. In two month time, you should be okay.

Not much of a church goer but I think you should talk to a priest, experienced man of God. Seek some counseling.
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by tatatar: 8:15pm On Mar 26
Why castration? Why not suicide?
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by RichieMichie: 9:14pm On Mar 26
beardlessdude:
Please advise, go ahead or not?
Can i keep sexual desires in control after castration?
This f*cking unrepentant homophobe. I still remember you from 2/3 years ago and how you promised to go hunt down and lynch all the gays when you are ready. How your kito business, didn't you cash out?

As to ur topic, whether you are gay or not, you should go ahead with the castration. Oti ya werey.

P:s, go back and edit most of your previous comments, you lie alot

Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by beardlessdude: 9:20pm On Mar 26
RichieMichie:

This f*cking unrepentant homophobe. I still remember you from 2/3 years ago and how you promised to go hunt down and lynch all the gays when you are ready. How your kito business, didn't you cash out?

As to ur topic, whether you are gay or not, you should go ahead with the castration. Oti ya werey.

P:s, go back and edit most of your previous comments, you lie alot
shut up bitch!!
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by Brunicekid(m): 11:36pm On Mar 26
bluefilm:
I have a better idea.

You should consider SNIPER.

Nonsense. lipsrsealed
Stop this wrong advice...

Advice the OP correctly.
Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by IDeyFlogAllah(m): 12:12am On Mar 27
Watch the female anatomy


Re: I Am Considering Castration To Control Homosexual Desires. by Lipslikecandy11(m): 2:39am On Mar 27
bluefilm:


GAYbriel.

I sight you.

You can snip the spiner too.

You guys are already useless as far as this world is concerned.


See mumu....
Frustrated cow...!!! U wey dem for use as experiment for corona virus...

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