I am still very young (late twenties) and vibrant and beautiful and juicy downstream but I find myself recently considering marriage into a polygamous home maybe as the 3rd or second wife and I want to know what you think of this.
I find myself to be independent and really like having my space to myself, I also want to keep enjoying my life even in marriage but with less attention from the husband which I won't enjoy should I settle for the regular one man and one woman kind of marriage. In polygamy the man has too much honeypot to go round and lots of children to play with and that takes away much fixation on only one wife.
No everyday by fire and water fvncking, my buubs will not slack, I will travel round the world and still keep my job and my space..

Holly Gram real matters. I SWEAR DOWN, real matters. WTF MAN

You could make a better side chick or mistress than a homely wife.

Men that engaged in polygamy are equally jealous & possessive. Most of them may not accord you all these your gloomy fantasy of independence.

Okay ooo, e no concern nairaland.

Na only girl wey never pass through the stress of waec and jamb go fit get this kind mentality

Lol@your thinking.
You think it's just about the man rather than the 'complex of polygamy'?

Polygamy benefits both the male and the female genders

Monogamy is for pussies

In my mom's voice, good luck to you.

NovesaTillie:
I am still very young (late twenties) and vibrant and beautiful and juicy downstream but I find myself recently considering marriage into a polygamous home maybe as the 3rd or second wife and I want to know what you think of this.
I find myself to be independent and really like having my space to myself, I also want to keep enjoying my life even in marriage but with less attention from the husband which I won't enjoy should I settle for the regular one man and one woman kind of marriage. In polygamy the man has too much honeypot to go round and lots of children to play with and that takes away much fixation on only one wife.
No everyday by fire and water fvncking, my buubs will not slack, I will travel round the world and still keep my job and my space..

You again!?? LMAO.
Well, I gotta admit I do share some of your sentiments, however strange they may be to others. But my dear, you have to know that it's not an easy road you are planning to thread on. That's all I would say.
Have you thought of when the jealousy starts creeping up and into the polygamy thingy? There comes a time....It surely comes.
But hey, don't forget me when the time comes. I'm considering same. Mine comes with not wanting children of mine, oh. Hope this doesn't sound strange to you. And yeah, I also want a lady who will travel around the world with me and share adventures. Did I just hear someone say ' Prague' and ' the Bahamas '
I could have sworn I heard something...

JerryBizz:

You again!?? LMAO.
Well, I gotta admit I do share some of your sentiments, however strange they may be to others. But my dear, you have to know that it's not an easy road you are planning to thread on. That's all I would say.
Have you thought of when the jealousy starts creeping up and into the polygamy thingy? There comes a time....It surely comes.
But hey, don't forget me when the time comes. I'm considering same. Mine comes with not wanting children of mine, oh. Hope this doesn't sound strange to you. And yeah, I also want a lady who will travel around the world with me and share adventures. Did I just hear someone say ' Prague' and ' the Bahamas '
I could have sworn I heard something...

While I'm married to two wives, she could keep a boyfriend on the side. But just one. And I'll prefer if I didn't know him in person. Just seeing his photos will be enough. And my wife and I would joke about him sometimes. And I know they'll equally joke about me too ( damn ) but life is not perfect. I lost my sanity, owing to harsh experiences. So, Whatever.

Are you monitoring me

Are you kidding me rn?

NovesaTillie:

Are you monitoring me

Why would I?
Ever heard of coincidences? One topic viewed leading to the other.
So, this is the appreciation I get for all the encouragement I offered you on your other thread? I see. Way to go!
I hope you weren't just trolling on that ' neighbor's husband topic' . Bcuz I did care.

Adios...

JerryBizz:

Why would I?
Ever heard of coincidences? One topic viewed leading to the other.
So, this is the appreciation I get for all the encouragement I offered you on your other thread? I see. Way to go!
I hope you weren't just trolling on that ' neighbor's husband topic' . Bcuz I did care.

Adios...

that's why I asked because I saw your mentions on the other threads.. I appreciate your input definitely and no, I wasn't trolling

NovesaTillie:

that's why I asked because I saw your mentions on the other threads.. I appreciate your input definitely and no, I wasn't trolling

Kay...

Wow..
Lalasticlala, Ishilove please this needs to be on Frontpage

NovesaTillie:
I am still very young (late twenties) and vibrant and beautiful and juicy downstream but I find myself recently considering marriage into a polygamous home maybe as the 3rd or second wife and I want to know what you think of this.
I find myself to be independent and really like having my space to myself, I also want to keep enjoying my life even in marriage but with less attention from the husband which I won't enjoy should I settle for the regular one man and one woman kind of marriage. In polygamy the man has too much honeypot to go round and lots of children to play with and that takes away much fixation on only one wife.
No everyday by fire and water fvncking, my buubs will not slack, I will travel round the world and still keep my job and my space..

I get your point though but don't you think your husband may loose interest in you since he has other options..

Or you even want him to loose interest sef?

Just say that you want to be fvcking outside after being married. I know that's what some of you plan. Polygamy is the easiest way for a lady to be married and still keep men outside.

NovesaTillie:
I am still very young (late twenties) and vibrant and beautiful and juicy downstream but I find myself recently considering marriage into a polygamous home maybe as the 3rd or second wife and I want to know what you think of this.
I find myself to be independent and really like having my space to myself, I also want to keep enjoying my life even in marriage but with less attention from the husband which I won't enjoy should I settle for the regular one man and one woman kind of marriage. In polygamy the man has too much honeypot to go round and lots of children to play with and that takes away much fixation on only one wife.
No everyday by fire and water fvncking, my buubs will not slack, I will travel round the world and still keep my job and my space..

Will you pay a dowry to be my second wife?

here we go again

This one just writes lies with the hopes that he'll enter FP. Attention seeking goat.

DEMZEE:
Polygamy benefits both the male and the female genders

Monogamy is for pussies

Was this what the op asked?
Werey

NovesaTillie:
I am still very young (late twenties) and vibrant and beautiful and juicy downstream but I find myself recently considering marriage into a polygamous home maybe as the 3rd or second wife and I want to know what you think of this.
I find myself to be independent and really like having my space to myself, I also want to keep enjoying my life even in marriage but with less attention from the husband which I won't enjoy should I settle for the regular one man and one woman kind of marriage. In polygamy the man has too much honeypot to go round and lots of children to play with and that takes away much fixation on only one wife.
No everyday by fire and water fvncking, my buubs will not slack, I will travel round the world and still keep my job and my space..

Well... It could help solve some of the issues however, polygamy will also create some issues you may not have thought of. Have you thought of how your kids will feel in such a home cos all your reasons seem centred on yourself (your life, your body shape, your happiness, career etc). Your kids too deserve some consideration.
I created a thread before on polygamy. You can read here
https://www.nairaland.com/4017163/before-bring-second-wife-opinion


We often don't know the some the things we wish for until we have it. If marriage is not so important to you, you can consider not getting married. It's odd in the African society but if really all that matters to you is the above (in braces), just stay on your own (the boobs will still sag though)

Why getting married in the first place? You can live your life without getting married - u can have ur work, travel the world and get a "mechanic" who will "service ur engine" when the need arise. Shi kenan.

It's all about the man and his desire n ability to try and do justice. So if you think he is going to be just, then you are good to go. Also try and make sure a healthy relationship exists amongst u the wives, no fetism and the like

NovesaTillie:
I am still very young (late twenties) and vibrant and beautiful and juicy downstream but I find myself recently considering marriage into a polygamous home maybe as the 3rd or second wife and I want to know what you think of this.
I find myself to be independent and really like having my space to myself, I also want to keep enjoying my life even in marriage but with less attention from the husband which I won't enjoy should I settle for the regular one man and one woman kind of marriage. In polygamy the man has too much honeypot to go round and lots of children to play with and that takes away much fixation on only one wife.
No everyday by fire and water fvncking, my buubs will not slack, I will travel round the world and still keep my job and my space..

Most women are territorial.

This is the first time I would ever see a lady offer to willingly share herself with another female...are you sure you don't have malaria?

Lies

NovesaTillie:
I am still very young (late twenties) and vibrant and beautiful and juicy downstream but I find myself recently considering marriage into a polygamous home maybe as the 3rd or second wife and I want to know what you think of this.
I find myself to be independent and really like having my space to myself, I also want to keep enjoying my life even in marriage but with less attention from the husband which I won't enjoy should I settle for the regular one man and one woman kind of marriage. In polygamy the man has too much honeypot to go round and lots of children to play with and that takes away much fixation on only one wife.
No everyday by fire and water fvncking, my buubs will not slack, I will travel round the world and still keep my job and my space..

stanliwise:

Was this what the op asked?
Werey

Just stating facts

DEMZEE:


Just stating facts

Fact for who?
How do we differentiate your behavior from madness?

stanliwise:

Fact for who?
How do we differentiate your behavior from madness?

Polygamy is the best for both genders period!

DEMZEE:


Polygamy is the best for both genders period!

says an angry white knight