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Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Nobody: 8:23pm On Apr 07, 2020
This is for women both married and single.For the married women please encourage your husbands to take more wives as there are too many single ladies out there.The ratio of women to men is outrageous and it cannot be one man one wife as you all would have preferred,how long will you keep fighting sidechicks?encourage and support your husband's to take these sidechicks as wives and all single ladies should brace up and be ready for a mate when you eventually get married.No religion prohibits polygamy,not even christianity prohibits it, it is all the white man ideology and not biblical.No married biblical prophets practiced monogamy.Be your sisters keeper and lets restore sanity to the world and eradicate sexual recklessness .

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by youngest85(m): 8:25pm On Apr 07, 2020
Egbon, marriage is not compulsory.
Any woman weh no see husband, make she marry her career.........

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Nobody: 8:30pm On Apr 07, 2020
Wont still eradicate side chicks. They will become side wives.

If a man marries 20ladies. Trust me. He still get 3 side chicks outside. This time around the side chicks mayb married too, so they become side wives.

Make una no listen to OP oooo. Marry what u can control and avoid drama coz na d drama dey kill men b4 clocking 50years old.
Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Nobody: 8:34pm On Apr 07, 2020
cruxgemmata:
Wont still eradicate side chicks. They will become side wives.

If a man marries 20ladies. Trust me. He still get 3 side chicks outside. This time around the side chicks mayb married too, so they become side wives.

Make una no listen to OP oooo. Marry what u can control and avoid drama coz na d drama dey kill men b4 clocking 50years old.
how many stories of co wives have you heard fighting or killing themselves but you can't say same for married women and sidechicks

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Pavore9: 9:42pm On Apr 07, 2020
peepydelano:
how many stories of co wives have you heard fighting or killing themselves but you can't say same for married women and sidechicks

How many children from let say your 3 intending wives do you feel you can comfortably take of while alive and even in death, because you are likely to go before them? Or are these women not going to have children?

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Hathor5(f): 9:51pm On Apr 07, 2020
peepydelano:
This is for women both married and single.For the married women please encourage your husbands to take more wives as there are too many single ladies out there.The ratio of women to men is outrageous and it cannot be one man one wife as you all would have preferred,how long will you keep fighting sidechicks?encourage and support your husband's to take these sidechicks as wives and all single ladies should brace up and be ready for a mate when you eventually get married.No religion prohibits polygamy,not even christianity prohibits it, it is all the white man ideology and not biblical.No married biblical prophets practiced monogamy.Be your sisters keeper and lets restore sanity to the world and eradicate sexual recklessness .

Correction, the ratio of quality men to quality women is outrageous. Men like you are not hard to come by.

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Nobody: 11:16pm On Apr 07, 2020
Let's see how this goes
Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by uboma(m): 6:42am On Apr 08, 2020
Pavore9:


How many children from let say your 3 intending wives do you feel you can comfortably take of while alive and even in death, because you are likely to go before them? Or are these women not going to have children?


How about 3 kids, 1 child from each woman?
Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by cococandy(f): 6:53am On Apr 08, 2020
grin

Cue the dickk thinkers

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Sotland: 6:54am On Apr 08, 2020
cruxgemmata:
Wont still eradicate side chicks. They will become side wives.

If a man marries 20ladies. Trust me. He still get 3 side chicks outside. This time around the side chicks mayb married too, so they become side wives.

Make una no listen to OP oooo. Marry what u can control and avoid drama coz na d drama dey kill men b4 clocking 50years old.


Can a woman control a man?
Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Pavore9: 6:58am On Apr 08, 2020
uboma:



How about 3 kids, 1 child from each woman?

Hmm....a woman comfortable with just a child in a polygamous setup? Bros you self reason am nah! cheesy cheesy
Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Pavore9: 7:01am On Apr 08, 2020
Sotland:



Can a woman control a man?

Women have stronger influence on men than the other way around, it is a silent truth.

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Nobody: 7:22am On Apr 08, 2020
cococandy:
grin
Cue the dickk thinkers
you again
Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by uboma(m): 8:32am On Apr 08, 2020
Pavore9:


Hmm....a woman comfortable with just a child in a polygamous setup? Bros you self reason am nah! cheesy cheesy



Lolz
Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by faithfull18(f): 10:06am On Apr 08, 2020
Hathor5:


Correction, the ratio of quality men to quality women is outrageous. Men like you are not hard to come by.
Brutal but true.

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by bukatyne(f): 10:59am On Apr 08, 2020
Hathor5:


Correction, the ratio of quality men to quality women is outrageous. Men like you are not hard to come by.


Bwahahahahahahahaahahahha!

You are right, the problem is quality spouses.

If not, nobi youth of different sexes yapa for road so?

But again, the quality spouses are really few so they will go round themselves well if they know what to look for.

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by immaq8(f): 12:19pm On Apr 08, 2020
@op, gently tell your wife to bring in another man as co- husband, at least to reduce the number of sugarboys.
Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by 24kmagic: 1:59pm On Apr 08, 2020
There are actually more single guys than there are single ladies.

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by OlawaleBammie: 2:54pm On Apr 08, 2020
peepydelano:
This is for women both married and single.For the married women please encourage your husbands to take more wives as there are too many single ladies out there.The ratio of women to men is outrageous and it cannot be one man one wife as you all would have preferred,how long will you keep fighting sidechicks?encourage and support your husband's to take these sidechicks as wives and all single ladies should brace up and be ready for a mate when you eventually get married.No religion prohibits polygamy,not even christianity prohibits it, it is all the white man ideology and not biblical.No married biblical prophets practiced monogamy.Be your sisters keeper and lets restore sanity to the world and eradicate sexual recklessness .

This table may not last long, even the shaker is at risk

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by crackkhaus: 3:27pm On Apr 08, 2020
immaq8:
@op, gently tell your wife to bring in another man as co- husband, at least to reduce the number of sugarboys.
How exactly will this work? cheesy

Will her first husband be the one taking care of her and his co-husband?
Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Nobody: 4:02pm On Apr 08, 2020
peepydelano:
how many stories of co wives have you heard fighting or killing themselves but you can't say same for married women and sidechicks
You are right. Co wives don't fight themselves, but, in this situation, they will rather kill the man from excess Juju he will be consuming. Or, he will die from lack of peace of mind.

Choose the one you prefer.., dying before your time from excess Juju you will unknowingly consuming due to the competition among your wives. Or, having one wife who will be fighting your side chicks?

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Nobody: 6:21pm On Apr 08, 2020
24kmagic:
There are actually more single guys than there are single ladies.
We are talking about quality here. More quality single guys to ladies?
Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Gerrard59(m): 11:21pm On Apr 08, 2020
Although, polygamy is not prohibited biblically, the church kinda of frowns at it. Except in places where culture trumps the religion, cases of where men marrying more than two wives are hard to come by. This is can be evident between say Bayelsa/parts of Delta vs Akwa Ibom. The former have cultures where polygamy is entrenched compared to the latter where religion holds sway. Additionally, among young people, truth is: polygamy is not economically unsustainable compared to having side chicks. Imagine having 3 kids each from both women or three women? This implies raising 6 or 9 children from different women NOT one woman.

Moreover, with the rise of feminism and female empowerment, I do not see a well educated, exposed and financially independent lady being a second wife (in places where religion trumps culture). Although, there would be exceptions but certainly not the norm, if not these ladies would have married the men they date as sugar daddies as second wives not when the man is a divorcee or widower. These ladies with information on their finger tips would rather have a baby without being married (views are changing) while dating a matured man than being married as a second wife. With the costs of sperm insemination dropping and social norms changing, expect more financially independent and exposed ladies to prefer having a child and date married men than become second wives. Some may even resort to sponsoring the wedding/marriage with a less economically viable man than become a second wife. This I would say for those who care about "what would people say?".

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Gerrard59(m): 11:29pm On Apr 08, 2020
24kmagic:
There are actually more single guys than there are single ladies.

This might be true statistically, however, if eligibility is considered, then there are more likely to be single ladies than guys. It is the quality not quantity that counts for a guy being single.

peepydelano:
This is for women both married and single.For the married women please encourage your husbands to take more wives as there are too many single ladies out there.The ratio of women to men is outrageous and it cannot be one man one wife as you all would have preferred,how long will you keep fighting sidechicks?encourage and support your husband's to take these sidechicks as wives and all single ladies should brace up and be ready for a mate when you eventually get married.No religion prohibits polygamy,not even christianity prohibits it, it is all the white man ideology and not biblical.No married biblical prophets practiced monogamy.Be your sisters keeper and lets restore sanity to the world and eradicate sexual recklessness

One of the greatest fallacy I always see on NL. That a man has more than a wife does not mean that he would not cheat. Cheating is independent of how many wives a man has. Check out those men in certain parts of Delta or Bayelsa, they would cheat just like if not more than their counterparts in Akwa Ibom who is married to one woman.

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Lamanii22(f): 9:00am On Apr 09, 2020
Whatever you do, don't you ever try polygamy....

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by worworbabe: 7:21pm On Apr 09, 2020
Side Chicks are single because they don't want to date broke guys in their league but looking for made men up and down.There are as much single women as men. There just aren't as much desperate men for marriage as women.

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Nobody: 5:43pm On Sep 18, 2020
xtruzz good evening ma,i got what I wanted to request from you thanks
Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Mstick: 10:11pm On Sep 18, 2020
Clown doesn't have a job and he wants to be a polygamist.

grin
peepydelano:
xtruzz good evening ma,please I need to discuss private with you via mail,its very important and urgent,i will send you a pm and please do kindly respond.Its concerning the Dpr recruitment.Thank you so much God bless you.We can discuss it here if you don't mind.I eagerly await your urgent response

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by pocohantas(f): 10:31pm On Sep 18, 2020
Mstick:
Clown doesn't have a job and he wants to be a polygamist.

grin

Normal NL package. Men that are doing well do not have strength to talk too much, let alone for woman matter. That is why if you go to a rich man’s house, he will say few words and leave you with his wife and kids. Whether they are your mate or not, you have to manage their company. His time is money. grin grin

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Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Nobody: 10:32pm On Sep 18, 2020
Mstick:
Clown doesn't have a job and he wants to be a polygamist.

grin
the joke is on you fool,trying to assist a bro through my link,I already got the directors number which is what I wanted to ask her.fool
Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Nobody: 10:34pm On Sep 18, 2020
pocohantas:


Normal NL package. Men that are doing well do not have strength to talk too much, let alone for woman matter. That is why if you go to a rich man’s house, he will say few words and leave you with his wife and kids. Whether they are your mate or not, you have to manage their company. His time is money. grin grin
midnight newspaper
Re: Polygamy Is The Only Way Out by Nobody: 10:34pm On Sep 18, 2020
pocohantas:


Normal NL package. Men that are doing well do not have strength to talk too much, let alone for woman matter. That is why if you go to a rich man’s house, he will say few words and leave you with his wife and kids. Whether they are your mate or not, you have to manage their company. His time is money. grin grin
midnight newspaper lol

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