Shibaraba:
Last paragraph explains everything.
Hanty divorce that man that's how your kids will grow up with an addiction. If you had a father figure he probably would have corrected your excesses and given you salient advice.

BTW All of us get our own for body. Only say you sabi your own. My advice is do whatever makes you happy. By the time Wey bad std go touch you nobody go tell you. Your Preeq go see woman turn saint.

Poorboy:
Some case maybe spiritual, so try and go for deliverance since you believe in God.

If after deliverance you are certified as not being under spiritual attack, then go to the hospital for mental examination...


If after mental examination you are certified to be mentally stable, then..... I will finish it later I am eating.

JeffreyD1:
I greet you all my reader

I will be open and truthful as I can

Please I'm not a good writer I wish I can send a voice note that's the only way I can explain the whole thing

Since this lock down I've been at home reflecting on my life journey so far there's nothing good to show for it, I've tried all my best to be a better some body for myself and my mom but it seems they tie my future put for kom kom, I'm the kind of guy that always advise everyone around me to be a better person
I'm a giver
I'm a good guy
I've never had police case before
No bad record
I always like everyone around me to be alright
All my male friends I always advise them on how to be successful and how to manage their money,
But in my own case it's always different I can't manage money
Money doesn't last with me and I don't invest
I don't smoke, I don't drink but I like women,
I hardly go a week without sleeping with a girl unless I don't have money and anytime I don't have money I will always respect myself
I remember very well a girl I met in D Dems in Okowonjo Lagos, I took her for a night after the job the next morning we talked, I advised her to leave the runs girl job and do something meaningful she adhered to it and today that lady is doing well in her business that assisted her in opening at idimu, I've done this to 2 other girls too and they're doing well, one married last December self she blocked me after I commented congrats on her fb post(maybe because she don't want to remember her old memories) I didn't bother her though I was happy I changed her though
But I'm finding it difficult to change myself, anytime I've money my mind always go to women, women, women nothing else, since this lock down I've been broke no money I can't believe I could stay up to 3 weeks without sleeping with a girl and I didn't die, I don't masturbate either.

My problem now is what can I do to stop my addiction to women

Why is it that I always change everyone around me life positively but my life is full of errors

I don't go to church due to personal experience I had in church since last year I've not been going to church but I do pray and I believe in God

I'm a very very hard working young man, but I've never made any meaningful thing with any money I worked for except sending money to my mom and my siblings

I started hustling since finished my primary 6 in 2006

Presently I'm not working I'm searching for work but I seriously need help on how to manage my life

A little background about me
I'm a 27 years old boy, I was born in a family of 7 my mom lost 3 of her kids we are just 4 boys now, I grew up in a family where my dad beat my mom like a kid, we grew up hating my dad until he died last year, because of my dad behavior my mom didn't allow us grow in our fathers house she sent us all out to go stay with people I left my mom at age of 10 that's when I started hustling I served an uncle for 9 years with story coming at the end of it


Lalasticala

adexpa:
I think you know where your problem is coming from... Women.... You need to find a way to control that area of your life. Serious prayer is all you need n it is not by saying I am praying myself or going to church.... You need to identify real church where you will hear about yourself. You can talk to your mom.

Erediauwa:
This is "Set Back" and there's only one Man you need to talk to in your quiet, and that's GOD Almighty.


Have you talk to God?

Harllaby:
I don't know about your belief but sometimes, our problems doesn't need ritual or barbaric sacrifices. You know yourself better, reflect and turn a new leaf where necessary and don't let some spiritual Priests give your life unthinkable meanings.

JeffreyD1:


But be sincere I'm not strong in prayers

Ishilove:
You don't practice what you preach. You advise people but you cannot advise yourself. You point out the log in other people's eyes but ignore the omorogun in your own.

Physician, heal thyself. You need deliverance from the spirit of lust. Start from there first.

What's omorogun again this woman?

iceybux:
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There nothing like real church.. they are only interested in you givin offerings and title.. keep prayin to Ur saviour and read your Bible.. this just a phase it will pass..

JeffreyD1:


Can such thing be from linage?

My dad is a womanizer, he smokes a lot, and he drinks a lot

I hate my dad though he is late

I don't drink, I don't smoke and I can't layy hand on a woman but I addicted to sex

JeffreyD1:
I greet you all my reader

I will be open and truthful as I can

Please I'm not a good writer I wish I can send a voice note that's the only way I can explain the whole thing

Since this lock down I've been at home reflecting on my life journey so far there's nothing good to show for it, I've tried all my best to be a better some body for myself and my mom but it seems they tie my future put for kom kom, I'm the kind of guy that always advise everyone around me to be a better person
I'm a giver
I'm a good guy
I've never had police case before
No bad record
I always like everyone around me to be alright
All my male friends I always advise them on how to be successful and how to manage their money,
But in my own case it's always different I can't manage money
Money doesn't last with me and I don't invest
I don't smoke, I don't drink but I like women,
I hardly go a week without sleeping with a girl unless I don't have money and anytime I don't have money I will always respect myself
I remember very well a girl I met in D Dems in Okowonjo Lagos, I took her for a night after the job the next morning we talked, I advised her to leave the runs girl job and do something meaningful she adhered to it and today that lady is doing well in her business that assisted her in opening at idimu, I've done this to 2 other girls too and they're doing well, one married last December self she blocked me after I commented congrats on her fb post(maybe because she don't want to remember her old memories) I didn't bother her though I was happy I changed her though
But I'm finding it difficult to change myself, anytime I've money my mind always go to women, women, women nothing else, since this lock down I've been broke no money I can't believe I could stay up to 3 weeks without sleeping with a girl and I didn't die, I don't masturbate either.

My problem now is what can I do to stop my addiction to women

Why is it that I always change everyone around me life positively but my life is full of errors

I don't go to church due to personal experience I had in church since last year I've not been going to church but I do pray and I believe in God

I'm a very very hard working young man, but I've never made any meaningful thing with any money I worked for except sending money to my mom and my siblings

I started hustling since finished my primary 6 in 2006

Presently I'm not working I'm searching for work but I seriously need help on how to manage my life

A little background about me
I'm a 27 years old boy, I was born in a family of 7 my mom lost 3 of her kids we are just 4 boys now, I grew up in a family where my dad beat my mom like a kid, we grew up hating my dad until he died last year, because of my dad behavior my mom didn't allow us grow in our fathers house she sent us all out to go stay with people I left my mom at age of 10 that's when I started hustling I served an uncle for 9 years with story coming at the end of it


Lalasticala

pansophist:
The hallmark (amongst many) of a mature man is the ability to control his vice, his dark side, and limit its dangerous effect to a reasonable extent. You do not have to eliminate your vices, (because you can't) but you can control and chain-grip it that it doesn't destroy or negatively affect your life. For men, typical vices are philandering, gambling, aggression, greed, to name a few. Everyone has it, but few people can recognize, talk more about controlling it.

Firstly as a man, you should pursue a meaningful life. You should wake up every morning full of enthusiasm, to squeeze the best out of the day. Your purpose should burn like a furnace, that women will not be the main goal, but complimentary. If you wake up every day just working for money without a burning purpose, then you are doing it wrong. Money is a by-product of the goal, not the goal itself. Also, the rewarding thing is that if you assume your throne, you will actually not waste your money philandering, as women will find you attractive naturally. There is something particularly infectiously attractive about a man on a mission with confidence. Be that man. Also, a sure way to stop philandering is to actually find a woman that truly loves you, that you love as well, and to get such women, you should lead a purposeful life that is true to yourself. For it is better to be at the bottom of the mountain you want to climb, that at the zenith of the wrong mountain. Philandering also has negative effects, which are the inability to bond with one woman, seeing women purely as a means for your sexual gratification, messing-up your dopamine reward system that you can only be aroused and stimulated sexually with renewed partners, to name a few.

Most importantly, you should meticulously filter what goes into your mind. Your mind is like an engine, if you pour in the wrong fuel or oil, it won't work well until it finally knocks down. In practice, you should stop watching porn, mainstream music that shows mostly unclad women, and normalizes sex and hedonism. Stop clubbing (of course, I am not excluding having drinks at the bar with friends). You owe it to yourself to engage in activities that will enrich your soul, and not easily trigger situations that will make you lose control of handling your vices. Sometimes I do feel really bad for this our generation, we are the most distracted, confused, propagandized and brainwashed generation in all of human history. Your mobile phone even made it so easy to be part of the herd. Know this, and release yourself from it. It is not an easy journey, but with persistence, you will get there. If not, you will be a mindless consumer, bitter, and the proverbial avocado that appears soft and mushy outside, but hard and bitter inside, the very thing capitalistic society wants from you.

JeffreyD1:

A little background about me
I'm a 27 years old man boy, I was born in a family of 7 my mom lost 3 of her kids we are just 4 boys now, I grew up in a family where my dad beat my mom like a kid, we grew up hating my dad until he died last year, because of my dad behavior my mom didn't allow us grow in our fathers house she sent us all out to go stay with people I left my mom at age of 10 that's when I started hustling I served an uncle for 9 years with story coming at the end of it


Lalasticala

Erediauwa:
What's omorogun again this woman?

Shibaraba:
Last paragraph explains everything.
Hanty divorce that man that's how your kids will grow up with an addiction. If you had a father figure he probably would have corrected your excesses and given you salient advice.

BTW All of us get our own for body. Only say you sabi your own. My advice is do whatever makes you happy. By the time Wey bad std go touch you nobody go tell you. Your Preeq go see woman turn saint.

adexpa:


Ok ooo, i heard you
That you never encountered real men of God or good church doesn't mean they are not existing. We can pray ourselves but there are situations that beyonds our control. He can pray himself but if he prays amiss, there will be no quick answer and that problem might remain for long. He will locate church if he genuinely needs solution.... I am not talking about all this glorified pastors n churches... There are many small churches which he can attend their vigils n he will see turn around.....

I am talking from experience.