It has been a thing of worry to me that wife insists on having four kids, but it didn't go well with me... Initially we concluded on having two, all of a sudden she change it.......
Pls what is the best way to resolve this cause I actually have reasons for what I say.... Wouldn't want this to bring a problem between I and my wife.

Thanks

How many kids una get currently?

Sundrus:
How many kids una get currently?

One for now.

emeijeh:
Must u bring the matter here?!

just look for a way to handle it

How many have you gotten to? This covid is most likely going to keep us in doors till the end of May...hope your wife is a teacher that sells food stuff

On a brighter note, this current global situation will help you change her mind. We are just starting...

Sinzuko135:
One for now.

u have to remind her of the agreement u guys had & the reason behind u want just two kids. U need to stand ur ground ooh. Be assertive.

Sinzuko135:
It has been a thing of worry to me that wife insists on having four kids, but it didn't go well with me... Initially we concluded on having two, all of a sudden she change it.......
Pls what is the best way to resolve this cause I actually have reasons for what I say.... Wouldn't want this to bring a problem between I and my wife.

Thanks

She is only playing with you

Children are good now

sisisioge:


How many have you gotten to? This covid is most likely going to keep us in doors till the end of May...hope your wife is a teacher that sells food stuff

On a brighter note, this current global situation will help you change her mind. We are just starting...

lol, she has her own business Doing well... I pray so this condition changes her mind.

Sundrus:
u have to remind her of the agreement u guys had & the reason behind u want just two kids. U need to stand ur ground ooh. Be assertive.

OK I will..

Where the bird has learnt to fly without perching, the hunter will have to shoot without missing...and vice versa.

Shey she would born 1,2,3 before getting to 4?

From the first one, make her take up at least 35% of expenses (per head). You’ll see how she’ll quickly activate all the family planning method.

Haven’t you noticed that once a man is not pulling his end, one of the first things women try to do- is ensure they don’t take in again?

Toor! 4 kids in 2020? Oh well, different folks.

Hold on to your sperm now

Easy solution; have a vasectomy when you are ready to stop giving birth, that way, she wouldn't get pregnant.

How any woman would want to purposely put herself through stress and aging with four kids, I don’t understand. I have one, and it’s harrddd work not to talk of four. Some women try sha. No one should be having more than two unless you have a lot of help and millions in the bank.

Did you guys have a good reason behind the "two" decision? If yes, remind her

But, If you have have the means, let her get her way. Personally, I love a large (preferably 4 member) family.
If all turns out well, it's lovely to see them look after each other and the children have excess cousins to play with

With the look of things, you don't have balls...I told my wife point blank that we are no longer having kids again,the two we have is OK she argued that her need to have four kids is cos of baby boy cos we had two girls already.

But my argument is based on the fact that our second baby is very beautiful but SS,for that reason I do not want to bring children to to this world to come and suffer.
Her monthly medication is stc 30 it cost about 24k.
Case closed she cannot change my mind cos I do the fuccking here.

olabrinks:
How any woman would want to purposely put herself through stress and aging with four kids, I don’t understand. I have one, and it’s harrddd work not to talk of four. Some women try sha. No one should be having more than two unless you have a lot of help and millions in the bank.

Irrespective of your social or financial status ,it’s not wise having more than 2/3 kids in this age.

Minimum 2 and maximum 3.

Very easy, she can have 2 with you and then 2 with someone else

Get snipped after two children. Problem solved

With the increased risk of living in Nigeria, having up to 3 becomes important. You can't begin to think like someone living in US or other developed countries when you know you are living in a high risk country.

I do wish both of you the best, but bro, just born 3 or 4.

Last I remember it takes two people to birth a child. If you refuse to sleep with her after two kids there is no way she can birth extras apart from sleeping with someone else. You can then use her actions as a chance to throw her out and claim your children. Honestly, after birthing the children and seeing them up to Primary 5 her parental role in the family is over.

Mehn 4 kids in 2020. Op 2 kids are enough. Have heart to heart discussion with your wife sir and let her know why you want to have 2 kids.


2 kids are enough, maximum 3. Atleast, that's all I hope to have when the time comes.

In this 2020?

Maximum for me is 2 and I don't even mind having just one.

Your wife is a woman after my own heart

Nitah1:
With the look of things, you don't have balls...I told my wife point blank that we are no longer having kids again,the two we have is OK she argued that her need to have four kids is cos of baby boy cos we had two girls already.

But my argument is based on the fact that our second baby is very beautiful but SS,for that reason I do not want to bring children to to this world to come and suffer.
Her monthly medication is stc 30 it cost about 24k.
Case closed she cannot change my mind cos I do the fuccking here.

You're both AS?

Sinzuko135:
One for now.

Don't worry yourself then. By the time you have two very active kids and start paying hundreds of thousands as school fees, even your wife will not want to have a third child. Just watch and see her managing two very active kids, even you will pity her.

It takes two to tangle. Discuss it with her.

It takes two to tangle. Discuss it with her.

You people have just one now by the time she birth three she'll no say raising kids no be moi-moi

Sinzuko135:
It has been a thing of worry to me that wife insists on having four kids, but it didn't go well with me... Initially we concluded on having two, all of a sudden she change it.......
Pls what is the best way to resolve this cause I actually have reasons for what I say.... Wouldn't want this to bring a problem between I and my wife.

Thanks

You have a woman who's willing to bear you four kids and you're complaining? You don't know how blessed you are.
Give your children siblings if you can, they'd thank you.

DaddyGngeess:
Children are good now