Petyprincess:

Says a beggar Who needs quality food between me nd u? I promise this your account will get banned soon! Only cowards hide behind a new account to spill trash! Just because i made it known i wasn't interested in you with your old account you started trolling me
Someone should please help me check the name of this account number!

hey girl , let’s be friends.

Swtbabyvee:
hey girl , let’s be friends.

Lol my blood is boiling right now bt i could see you are a female so sure What happened to your old account?

Petyprincess:

Lol my blood is boiling right now bt i could see you are a female so sure What happened to your old account?

they banned me for two weeks now , it’s shugavee lol , reply my pm let’s connect

Swtbabyvee:
they banned me for two weeks now , it’s shugavee lol , reply my pm let’s connect

Are you sure you are female?
It's so rare for a lady sending me a pm lol
Okay dear let me check,reply my email fast sha

stupidity:
oga you are still not making sense nor vex. I said why would three guys sex one girl, 18 year old girl in the first place?

If one of the guys doesn’t have sense and human sympathy, what if the rest two?

Three against one and you are judging the ladies only? See see Mr man. Don’t mention me again.

Hey from the op story he's an
Elderly man
So your manners will be appreciated please

ZINIBANKS:

Hello sir you know when there's a gathering of
Sensible men
Those with gizzard brain will Also be present
Kindly ignore that nincompoop ok
Just leave him alone
Having been watching his comments
I doubt if there's something In his head
And for your topic
hmmM it only God that can intervene
Ice Prince also blast slimcase for doing live video on IG
Telling girls to twerk and go naked
I still blame those girls honestly

God will bless you bros

ZINIBANKS:

Hey from the op story he's an
Elderly man
So your manners will be appreciated please

what the fvck is wrong with you people ? Isn’t Buhari an elderly man?


Have you cautioned everyone insulting him on Nairaland? Abeg swerve. Old man nor use em sense e get collect waten e deserve make he reason e life well.

After reading this thread .
You finally understand why some people deserves themselves ..

People who dont see relationship as partnership deserve each other ..

For the op . your points are well noted . just yesterday i was thinking on how difficult it is raising female daughter.. With all that goes on on the Social network, right here on the island .

Honesly it is difficult ..
Just watching your daughter put things into her bcus of 20k on a video with 70k vieews .. Its so heart breaking ..

For the ladies here , here i really don't have much to say to you all but "you guys deserve who you end up with". .

If a girls smokes and drinks . she deserves a guy who smokes and drinks .
If a poor girl feels she should demand from a not working guy , she deserves a criminal .

At the end nature will correct it self .

Babapyro:
It is embarrassing to see how low the standards of our ladies as become,most of Nigerian girls see themselves as a money making machine and they don't mind doing anything to get cash including the unthinkable, I can vividly remember how girls were in the 90s,no one really cared about how much you are worth,it was all about feelings and mutual understanding, I once dated a girl in 1998 that refused to allow me to pay for dinner,she insisted we had to split the bill,that was how cautious and impressive girls were.
Nowadays if you go to Instagram you'll see thousands of Nigerian girls posing almost nude on a social platform.
Look at what is happening currently with gilrs striping naked and doing unspeakable things on a live video because of 20k.
How much more low can this girl's standard get,nowadays you can have any girl you want including the married ones if you have enough money.
They have practically reduced themselves to a sex object,a means of sexual gratification or should I say a means to an end.
Some weeks ago I saw a girl sitting all by herself in a mall and I approached her paid for our foods and talked at length.when we were about to part I asked for this girl's contact and she plainly asked me if I'm ready to SPEND HEAVILY ON HER,BECAUSE SHE'S GOT AN EXPENSIVE TASTE,SHE SAID IF I WAS READY SHE COULD EVEN COME TO MY HOUSE THAT SAME DAY AND HAVE FUN WITH ME,I was embarrassed on her behalf,this girls see relationships as a JOB OPPORTUNITY and it is embarrassing to say the least.
Girls I'm begging you please change and improve on this, have some self respect and dignity because at the end of the day you have everything to lose.

Having self respect and dignity only applies when you're well to do. Most of the ladies you see doing some 'despicable' things is what is termed survival. And it's not just in Nigeria. It's a universal thing. Strippers and roadside prostitutes are mostly girls who needed to earn a living because their deadbeat parents couldn't provide for them. Some of these girls train themselves through higher institutions, hoping to get a better life than their parents had. They slave away but when bills begin to pile up and siblings are dying of starvation, sleeping around to earn a living is the easiest way out of their predicament. Men do it too, but let's not digress. So, in this pandemic, they do it on social media as you had rightly observed because no one will willingly give them money just like that. After this lock down, they must result to what they know best in order to get a job. Survival is only for the fittest. Your daughter won't understand it, or have need to do this cause you're there for her.

Moreover, if you're asking girls to learn self respect, I hope you're teaching the boys to learn self esteem too. While most girls need money for sex, some do it to 'belong'. These particular category of ladies is gotten from the men enabling them. Most men do it to assert their male ego after being rejected for whatever reason and money is the foundation for that, others do it to shame their counterparts or hide their self esteem for growing up poor and wretched. Whatever it is, they spend on girls, foolishly building up the wave that boys are central banks. When the money is exhausted, a girl used to pampered lifestyle may not cope very well. Teach your daughter contentment. It goes a long way to earning dignity.

Now, in relationships, money speaks. Whether from a boyfriend trying to impress a lady above his class or from a lady trying to make her ex jealous by dating up. Either way, you get the picture. Also, Isn't it despicable that a married man would coerce and then pay an 18 year old girl for sex, and the society expects her not to venture more into this 'quick money' method? Same thing politicians and employers and various men in positions of authority do to anyone asking for help or favor. You can't even get #200 to eat for the day without being asked to give sex in return. Nowadays, girls have grown up with the anthem that if a man smiles at you, he wants sex, and 96% of the time, that's accurate. Can you blame them?
They are merely working with what is on ground which is why that girl offered you sex before you could bring it up, cause why else would a man old enough to be her father want to have her contact out of the blues especially in a restaurant? Couldn't you just eat and leave? People with honorable intentions do that, you know. (I deduced you were at least 40).



After factoring all these conditions in place, tell me, do you honestly still believe women are largely at fault here?

Sixfeetbelle:


Having self respect and dignity only applies when you're well to do. Most of the ladies you see doing some 'despicable' things is what is termed survival. And it's not just in Nigeria. It's a universal thing. Strippers and roadside prostitutes are mostly girls who needed to earn a living because their deadbeat parents couldn't provide for them. Some of these girls train themselves through higher institutions, hoping to get a better life than their parents had. They slave away but when bills begin to pile up and siblings are dying of starvation, sleeping around to earn a living is the easiest way out of their predicament. Men do it too, but let's not digress. So, in this pandemic, they do it on social media as you had rightly observed because no one will willingly give them money just like that. After this lock down, they must result to what they know best in order to get a job. Survival is only for the fittest. Your daughter won't understand it, or have need to do this cause you're there for her.

Moreover, if you're asking girls to learn self respect, I hope you're teaching the boys to learn self esteem too. While most girls need money for sex, some do it to 'belong'. These particular category of ladies is gotten from the men enabling them. Most men do it to assert their male ego after being rejected for whatever reason and money is the foundation for that, others do it to shame their counterparts or hide their self esteem for growing up poor and wretched. Whatever it is, they spend on girls, foolishly building up the wave that boys are central banks. When the money is exhausted, a girl used to pampered lifestyle may not cope very well. Teach your daughter contentment. It goes a long way to earning dignity.

Now, in relationships, money speaks. Whether from a boyfriend trying to impress a lady above his class or from a lady trying to make her ex jealous by dating up. Either way, you get the picture. Also, Isn't it despicable that a married man would coerce and then pay an 18 year old girl for sex, and the society expects her not to venture more into this 'quick money' method? Same thing politicians and employers and various men in positions of authority do to anyone asking for help or favor. You can't even get #200 to eat for the day without being asked to give sex in return. Nowadays, girls have grown up with the anthem that if a man smiles at you, he wants sex, and 96% of the time, that's accurate. Can you blame them?
They are merely working with what is on ground which is why that girl offered you sex before you could bring it up, cause why else would a man old enough to be her father want to have her contact out of the blues especially in a restaurant? Couldn't you just eat and leave? People with honorable intentions do that, you know. (I deduced you were at least 40).



After factoring all these conditions in place, tell me, do you honestly still believe women are largely at fault here?

It much easier for a girl to get a job in Nigeria . than for a Guy .
There's no excuss . which is why they stand to lose at the end according to the op post.

Would you justify that its better a girl puts things into her for 10k on a live video than to get a job and build a positive career, support her union and breed presentable human beings.?

What's the purpose of her education ?

What is bad is bad.

SeverusSnape:
Most of them have entitlement mentality, I don't blame them sometimes, We have a lot of foolish guys out there fueling their ego and making them feel on top of the world.

You nailed it. I detest entitled women who think your job is to spend and they have nothing to offer to you, it's the men that actually fuel their ego and over hyped their worth. But time will always tell. No one will marry a liability just sex.

biz2get:


It much easier for a girl to get a job in Nigeria . than for a Guy .
There's no excuss . which is why they stand to lose at the end according to the op post.

Would you justify that its better a girl puts things into her for 10k on a live video than to get a job and build a positive career, support her union and breed presentable human beings.?

What's the purpose of her education ?

What is bad is bad.

Getting a job means you have education, food and shelter. Most of these girls have neither. The jobs they will get won't sustain anything, talk more of them using it to build a positive career. Or are you not in Nigeria?

Trust me, when food and shelter are lacking, getting a job will be the last thing on your mind. Daily bread becomes a matter of survival. Op is talking from a position of privilege which is why his points are biased. He believes most of them are from well to do families and just need extra cash. That narrative is wrong.

Na person weh keep face 4 dem na im dem go de do am a.t.m_jobbing abi i lie mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

stupidity:
what the fvck is wrong with you people ? Isn’t Buhari an elderly man?


Have you cautioned everyone insulting him on Nairaland? Abeg swerve. Old man nor use em sense e get collect waten e deserve make he reason e life well.

Ask me ? Lol

Ishitinyourlife:

I graduated school when you were still in your secondary school uniform, I am an employer of labor with over 20 people that I'm paying their salaries with over 5 booming businesses of my own,you're not in my employees level not to talk of me,you must be very stupid.

u guys will not use ur brain and choose who to fight with. who is loosing. i could mess up your entirelife if you dare me

ishitinyourmouf:
u guys will not use ur brain and choose who to fight with. who is loosing. i could mess up your entirelife if you dare me

You mean like you messed up your mummy's life,I hope you've stopped banging her,incest in wrong

excessmon:
I believe low mentality starts with men......your woman is a reflection of ur mindset.....

Obviously a ladies mindset. Just accept gals have low standard, why drag everyone with ladies.

Babapyro:

You need to start using your brain and learn how to talk to people, most importantly you should learn comprehension skills,because anybody with half a brain will know my post is not aimed at antagonizing females.the fact that most of you females or whatever your gender is see it that way just about justify what I am saying, cos you wouldn't become defensive if you weren't guilty of this actions.
Only an embarrassment of a person will try to justify this.

Exactly ladies are in the habit of accepting degrading stuffs just cause they have an excuse - sleep around to feed the famiky and take care of myself through School. Call a spade a spade and move on. Am not saying guys don't do worse but don't digress from the thread just to justify what's unjustifiable

Sixfeetbelle:



Getting a job means you have education, food and shelter. Most of these girls have neither. The jobs they will get won't sustain anything, talk more of them using it to build a positive career. Or are you not in Nigeria?

Trust me, when food and shelter are lacking, getting a job will be the last thing on your mind. Daily bread becomes a matter of survival. Op is talking from a position of privilege which is why his points are biased. He believes most of them are from well to do families and just need extra cash. That narrative is wrong.

Here we go again... They are not the poorest of the poor and been poor does not mean you lack capacity to use your brains. Stop insisting all poor ladies do degrading stuffs to survive and stop talking about privilegde home, all those stuffs are not the centre of attention. Ladies are degrading, is not that there are none out they that are not.

well it’s a beautiful one ,, n this is exactly how I want my home to be

Your mum have made you less of a man already with you knowing. I adviced my Father to divor e mu Mum for over 3 years cause of she was illmannered and unsupportive, and he died years later still unhappy and unappreciated by this same Woman.

JohnOkolo:


Here we go again... They are not the poorest of the poor and been poor does not mean you lack capacity to use your brains. Stop insisting all poor ladies do degrading stuffs to survive and stop talking about privilegde home, all those stuffs are not the centre of attention. Ladies are degrading, is not that there are none out they that are not.

What are you talking about? Your point isn't coherent