How could you say most Nigerian girls are like that when you have not even met 1 percent of them?

Veefierce:
what if they don’t hv a degree n can’t do manual labor ? U Bleep a guy n get 10k n make more than 100k a month , n u work in a filling station getting 15k every month , you will Bleep still Bleep around with other men , that will still use n dump you !! Leave them alone abeg !!

Na today prostitution start??

There r well groomed girls who r prostitutes home training doesn’t put food on anyone’s table.

Men r giving naked girls on ig live 20k but if they plainly beg them with nothing involved they will never give n u are blaming women.

I am speaking for their perspective, I will not insult them or say all sorts, just so see me as morally groomed !! This is life!!

You seem to have misread me,I'm not talking about prostitution, I personally don't have anything against prostitutes I am talking about normal girls dating and what it has turned to.if you're a prostitutes you get paid for doing your job to me that is honourable enough but you're a girlfriend and you expect your boyfriend of a week to pay your rent,buy you wig,buy you phone, change your wardrobe, give you money for upkeep,sub for you.
In what life is that normal, is relationships a job opportunity.

Frankenstein:
How could you say most Nigerian girls are like that when you have not even met 1 percent of them?

Anybody that says otherwise is just living in denial,we are not blind and we see what happens in our society,I was a lecturer in a polytechnic in the west for 5years and I got to see firsthand what this girls have turned themselves too.
The class I was taking were year one student's and more than 70% of them were cohabiting.

Babapyro:

I see where your problem is,you obviously do not even understand the thread, cos it seems it's all about telling us that boys do bad things to,which is quite irrelevant because we already know.so you're just drifting from the topic entirely,this thread is meant to talk sense into you girls to better yourself and the fact that you feel the need to sound defensive and justify the embarrassing acts stated here just about prove the subject matter of the topic.

You are the one who is obviously not getting it sir, we all know guys do bad things which we already know and should consider irrelevant but we don't already know girls do bad things hence we should start panicking, frying plantain about the never-heard-of girls vices , I laugh in tougue

You are obviously a full time sexist, I really pity your boys, dad is gonna cheer them on while they impregnate any and everything in skirt so far they bring in cash either from questionable or otherwise source

oluwaseyi0:
When it comes to money men are simply more desperate, evil and vile. Most lady ( the worst of LovePeddler) will not sex you for money if they know authoritatively that you will die after the sex or the sex will kill you, some men (the worst of them) won't mind shooting you in your face to steal your 5k

I just taya o. Many young guys soil their hands inorder to make money just to impress this same girls (with low standards, according to OP).

Babapyro:


Porn is a legal industry,those girls are professional, so are stripers and prostitutes they work for their money,that is what they do,so they are not in question here.
I am talking about the remaining normal girls and the fact that you're arguing that boys don't do Yahoo because of girls shows you're living in denial because this is visible to the blind it is a known fact.
And I tell you for a fact now that foreign girls are a lot more hardworking than Nigerian girls, they are world's apart.

So the full time prostitute is good and hard working but the part time one is a criminal? The full time ones don't push boys into vices infact they pull them out of it?

Veefierce:
if a prostitute expect money from men ,, why will I, as ur girlfriend not demand money from you when I Bleep only you ? Tell me ? Because I don’t wanna be a liability? Story !

Me for example no matter how much money I get I will still demand from my boyfriend or husband.

That is degrading and it reduces you to a prostitute I'm sorry.women with their self respect intact contribute to a relationship and they only ask when it is necessary, the fact test you rely on men to cater for your needs is despicable to say the least, go outside the country and see how different things are,I was worked in Cupertino, USA in Apple's headquarter back in the years and I can tell you more than half of the staffs there where women,they do coding,programming, software critiques you name it.
Women there apply themselves in every sector and that is why it's easy for them to stay alone.
In the Nigerian sector you girls are more opportuned than men due to obvious reasons and that should be enough to drive you to work and cater for yourself.

oluwaseyi0:


So the full time prostitute is good and hard working but the part time one is a criminal? The full time ones don't push boys into vices infact they pull them out of it?

The question now is that do you regard yourself as a prostitute,if you do then you're safe and your actions are justified.

Karlifate:

I just taya o. Many young guys soil their hands inorder to make money just to impress this same girls (with low standards, according to OP).

Continue to console yourself and pretended like you don't know what I mean, if you have any standard as a girl you won't depend on a boy at the very first stage of your life for everything.
We have plethora of 16,17year olds that their world only revolves around their boyfriend. What type of a distasteful existence and a shame to parenthood is that.

oluwaseyi0:


You are very wrong sir, those Yahoo guys are full time criminal, no matter how you glorify crime, a criminal is a criminal NOTHING CAN EVER CHANGE THAT, those girls only break moral code, there is no criminal charges against them

Foreign girls are not in any way more saint than Niger girls, there are more white girls video on xvideo than black, most Niger Yahoo boys won't survive in sane and foreign country with their crimes

Apt!

Babapyro:

That is degrading and it reduces you to a prostitute I'm sorry.women with their self respect intact contribute to a relationship and they only ask when it is necessary, the fact test you rely on men to cater for your needs is despicable to say the least, go outside the country and see how different things are,I was worked in Cupertino, USA in Apple's headquarter back in the years and I can tell you more than half of the staffs there where women,they do coding,programming, software critiques you name it.
Women there apply themselves in every sector and that is why it's easy for them to stay alone.
In the Nigerian sector you girls are more opportuned than men due to obvious reasons and that should be enough to drive you to work and cater for yourself.

me personally want to make my own money yeah n do great things !!!
But will still demand from my husband and boyfriend, that’s not gonna change,, I don’t care what white people do this is Africa!!! I love my men being in charge n taking responsibilities !!

My mum has her own business but my dad still repairs her car n even fuels it if she wants , so why on earth will I expect less ? So I can’t do great things n hv a reasonable man by my side ?

Even if I want to stay single I will but not because I don’t want to demand from men cause darling I will n ain’t apologetic about it. I can do with out a man , well that’s if I don’t hv one .

oluwaseyi0:


You are the one who is obviously not getting it sir, we all know guys do bad things which we already know and should consider irrelevant but we don't already know girls do bad things hence we should start panicking, frying plantain about the never-heard-of girls vices , I laugh in tougue

You are obviously a full time sexist, I really pity your boys, dad is gonna cheer them on while they impregnate any and everything in skirt so far they bring in cash either from questionable or otherwise source

Like I said you do not understand anything about this thread, I have a grown up daughter so I have an idea of how it feels for a parent to see their child in that positioned.
And your last paragraph is totalling hogwash because I'm a disciplinarian this thread should at least tell your that. And the fact that a girl will defend despicable things Like this makes me pity this generation, I hope mature parents will visit this thread and read the comments you girls have been dropping here to see how the need for strong parenthood and to see the need for raising girls the right way.

Babapyro:

Sir,you are right on point, I think that's one of the major problem.

boss your very right, some men r just too foolish.

Veefierce:
me personally want to make my own money yeah n do great things !!!
But will still demand from my husband and boyfriend, that’s not gonna change,, I don’t care what white people do this is Africa!!! I love my men being in charge n taking responsibilities !!

My mum has her own business but my dad still repairs her car n even fuels it if she wants , so why on earth will I expect less ? So I can’t do great things n hv a reasonable man by my side ?

Even if I want to stay single I will but not because I don’t want to demand from men cause darling I will n ain’t apologetic about it. I can do with out a man , well that’s if I don’t hv one .

Seconded

You dated in 1998 and you're still dating? Uncle why?

The economy was much better in 1998. If you graduated, you had a job. Virtually guaranteed.

There are still 'normal' women but the numbers are low among the young under 30 women.

Babapyro:
It is embarrassing to see how low the standards of our ladies as become,most of Nigerian girls see themselves as a money making machine and they don't mind doing anything to get cash including the unthinkable, I can vividly remember how girls were in the 90s,no one really cared about how much you are worth,it was all about feelings and mutual understanding, I once dated a girl in 1998 that refused to allow me to pay for dinner,she insisted we had to split the bill,that was how cautious and impressive girls were.
Nowadays if you go to Instagram you'll see thousands of Nigerian girls posing almost nude on a social platform.
Look at what is happening currently with gilrs striping naked and doing unspeakable things on a live video because of 20k.
How much more low can this girl's standard get,nowadays you can have any girl you want including the married ones if you have enough money.
They have practically reduced themselves to a sex object,a means of sexual gratification or should I say a means to an end.
Some weeks ago I saw a girl sitting all by herself in a mall and I approached her paid for our foods and talked at length.when we were about to part I asked for this girl's contact and she plainly asked me if I'm ready to SPEND HEAVILY ON HER,BECAUSE SHE'S GOT AN EXPENSIVE TASTE,SHE SAID IF I WAS READY SHE COULD EVEN COME TO MY HOUSE THAT SAME DAY AND HAVE FUN WITH ME,I was embarrassed on her behalf,this girls see relationships as a JOB OPPORTUNITY and it is embarrassing to say the least.
Girls I'm begging you please change and improve on this, have some self respect and dignity because at the end of the day you have everything to lose.

Babapyro:

Continue to console yourself and pretended like you don't know what I mean, if you have any standard as a girl you won't depend on a boy at the very first stage of your life for everything.
We have plethora of 16,17year olds that their world only revolves around their boyfriend. What type of a distasteful existence and a shame to parenthood is that.

This is not a matter of consolation & pretence.

Some guys are very stubborn when trying to get a girl they really like. They go to the extreme to do things they wouldn't do on a neutral ground just to make the girl consider them.

That's comparing apples and oranges. There's no market for masturbating men, there is for women.

Babapyro:


As a matter of fact I have,more than once it's called coprophilia.how many men gets strafed by 3guys at the same time for money,or masturbate on live TV for as low as 20k.
Tell me how many men depend on women for money and material things.
This girls practically depend on guys for everything ranging from phone,make up,hair,upkeep, rent everything.

Veefierce:
me personally want to make my own money yeah n do great things !!!
But will still demand from my husband and boyfriend, that’s not gonna change,, I don’t care what white people do this is Africa!!! I love my men being in charge n taking responsibilities !!

My mum has her own business but my dad still repairs her car n even fuels it if she wants , so why on earth will I expect less ? So I can’t do great things n hv a reasonable man by my side ?

Even if I want to stay single I will but not because I don’t want to demand from men cause darling I will n ain’t apologetic about it. I can do with out a man , well that’s if I don’t hv one .

You don't sound like you can last without a man,the fact that your mother has her own business should have shed more light on this issue for you, the reason she started her own businesses is because she wants to chip in and be productive for the family so the burden will not be on your father only, imagine if she just sat down like you plan to do and leave everything to your fatter that relative might have ended a long time ago.
No man wants to marry a liability, a lady the asks for money for even the smallest things like airtime should not expect any respect because she won't get any but if you chip in and at least bear even if it's 25% of the cost of the family that will give you a different status most especially to your husband

Yup. There are held in our society and they are not rates but they are not plentiful.

I've had to hire people in Nigeria and it is quite glaring.

Katier00:
In as much as I condemn the act of begging and sell one's body for money, it is sad to note that the likes of op only see women engaging in such disturbing act. Nowadays men beg more and are ready to to prostitute because of money. It is embarrassing and disgusting to see a man selling his birth right for a bowl of porridge. Just this year alone about five guys I called for job interview wanted to have personal relationship, one even sent me his nudes with the caption, "I know how to bring in the best in you both professionally and in your bedroom. The bottom line is that youth of today, has got it all wrong and we the parents are not getting it right, we allow our children to be so dependent on us that they can't stand on their own. In my list of those begging for airtime, the guy folks top. So it is not not the women, our society is sick

After you get father? Do you put good on her take? Don't assume that everyone follows your routine.

Babapyro:

My post was not aimed at ridiculing or attacking the female gender, I respect women and it is out of the respect and love I have for the female gender that made me poor out my heart. And most of all knows that this issue is predominant with the females,I mean just look at the sheer number of slay queen/prostitutes on Instagram alone.
Moreover I have a daughter and I can't imagine seeing my daughter like that.
As I speak I have a boy close to my compound ,the boy is like a son to me his girlfriend has been with him till the start of this corona issue till date and the girl is only 16,how does a 16year old leave her father's house for more than a month.

Generalgoshen:
boss your very right, some men r just too foolish.

The OP is just being decietful to himself. He's being one-sided.

In higher institutions, you'll see lotsa guys still depending on stipends from parents & living couples life in school.

Babapyro:

You don't sound like to I can last without a man,the fact that your mother has her own business should have shed more light on this issue for you, the reason she started her own businesses is because she wants to chip in and be productive for the family so the burden will not be on your father only, imagine if she just sat down like you plan to do and leave everything to your fatter that relative might have ended a long time ago.
No man wants to marry a liability, a lady the asks for money for even the smallest things like airtime should not expect any respect because she won't get any but if you chip in and at least bear even if it's 25% of the cost of the family that will give you a different status most especially to your husband

see my mom is a big liability to my father ,,, my father still contributes money to her business now or then . My father clothes her!! My mother is not using five naira from her money to do any family stuffs!! The money is hers to spend ,, even after getting her monthly upkeep she still looks for ways to get money from my daddy ! Lol ! Funny woman !

I've never understood this approach and I don't tolerate it.

If marriage isn't a partnership then what are we??

Veefierce:
see my mom is a big liability to my father ,,, my father still contributes money to her business now or then . My father clothes her!! My mother is not using five naira from her money to do any family stuffs!! The money is hers to spend ,, even after getting her monthly upkeep she still looks for ways to get money from my daddy ! Lol ! Funny woman !

cooooooks:
I've never understood this approach and I don't tolerate it.

If marriage isn't a partnership then what are we??

lol almost 30 years in marriage my dear !! U don’t need to understand it

Preshieben:
Op
Sharrrup joor
You men do worse
Even to the extent of taking someone's life
Just to get money to show off
Abeg make I hear word

Waiting and fully ready for those that will quote this comment

Because some men do worse, is that a justification for women to do immoral things ?

By the way, the person you told to sharrap is old enough to father you. Tells a lot about your morals.

Stacyomolola:

@stupidity u making point. They can dish it but cant take it, i thought what is good for the goose is also good for the gander.
Hypocrites, EMPTY MEN

leave them
Always looking for ways to bash women
Y'all will get tired someday

Shuffering and smiling.

A long marriage is not necessarily a good one.

That's why some people say they've 'endured' for 30 years. �

Veefierce:
lol almost 30 years in marriage my dear !! U don’t need to understand it

GeneralPula:


What you said is a fallacy..

Doesn't even add up to what op is saying...
Op is generally speaking Abt the regular behavior of our nowadays ladies...

cooooooks:
Shuffering and smiling.

A long marriage is not necessarily a good one.

That's why some people say they've 'endured' for 30 years. �

well it’s a beautiful one ,, n this is exactly how I want my home to be

Repercussion01:

At least those guys do it in secret,we are talking about your siblings that are fingering their pussey on slimcase's live video for 20k.

are they worse than your siblings killing and cutting people's part for rituals??