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Forgiveness by doris4u(f): 11:05pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Good day guys, hope we are all staying safe during this lockdown. I have been in a situation when I find it hard to forgive people who were so dear to my heart hurt me, even thou I promised myself that I would forgive wholeheartedly but later on when I remember the pain they caused me thereby I start feeling bad whenever I remember them all over again. Have anyone been in this kind of situation and how did you overcome it. |
Re: Forgiveness by clumsydyna: 11:09pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
It's very normal, what you feel is natural, the hurt and pain from loved ones are difficult to get over, even though you have forgiven them. Try as much as possible to relive those memories only as lessons learnt and don't allow yourself hurt so much. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Forgiveness by Oluromantic: 11:09pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Wetin u don see? You don see where your boyfriend and your best friend dey Bleep each other before? You catch them, them hiss Dem no shock, Dem even change position |
Re: Forgiveness by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:11pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
just because you forgive someone that doesnt mean you should FORGET what they did... its good that you remember what they did and take measures to makes sure they never do it again... 2 Likes |
Re: Forgiveness by doris4u(f): 11:31pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
[quote author=MrBrownJay1 post=88784338]just because you forgive someone that doesnt mean you should FORGET what they did... its good that you remember what they did and take measures to makes sure they never do it again...[/quot Noted Thanks |
Re: Forgiveness by botrix(m): 11:40pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Ask God for the grace yo forgive others 1 Like |
Re: Forgiveness by igbarasdynasty: 11:41pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
doris4u: Eventually, those bitterness will kill you fast if you don't let go.... So you can't forgive your mom, your dad or your siblings too when they hurt you How do you plan to cope with your partner because he will always hurt you so hard.... Humans ain't perfect... People will hurt us, but we have to forgive and let go of the pain and never allowing it to hurt the present... We have the past as memories only to change the present and future, no one goes back in time..... My dear, see how it keeps disturbing your heart, that's how the torment will continue until you make peace with those that offend you or those you offended too... Anytime you feel that bitterness when you remember them, your body releases dangerous hormones that will affect your health.... You are the one suffering and not them. 2 Likes |
Re: Forgiveness by doris4u(f): 11:52pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
igbarasdynasty:Yea I understand ur point , I know am the one suffering that's why i seek for advice and the answer is to let go gradually from ur post 1 Like |
Re: Forgiveness by doris4u(f): 8:05am On Apr 24, 2020 |
botrix:Ok Thanks |
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