1.Before you make any kind of marital commitment,get to know the man well.Get to be friends first,then develop the relationship.
2.Remember that you have your own life to live.Dont plan your whole life around a man until he has shown you total commitment.
3.No joint accounts please.Maintain your account.Keep your own money until you get to know him,even then be discreet in your financial affairs, you are not yet married.
4.Even if you need money, avoid asking him for it.Look for alternatives to solve your financial challenges.Dont turn him to your bank account, making withdrawals anytime you feel like may compromise your integrity and make it very difficult for you to stand by your purity principles.When a man begins to solve all your financial problems,one day,he may begin to make sexual overtures and that is the end of that relationship if you don't want to compromise your faith.
5.Don't put yourself in an awkward financial situation that always requires him bailing you out.For your relationship to succeed, you must strive to be financially independent if you presently are not.
6.Dont always table and discuss him with your girlfriends if you want the relationship to grow to marriage.Learn to be discrete.
7.Don't spend money on him or or give him huge loan in an attempt to win him over.Love can't be bought with money.Don't try to buy it,force it or emotionally coerce it out of him
8.Dont turn him to emotionally dumping ground for all your problems.
9.Don't act paranoid.Not every woman you see with him wants to have a relationship with him.You must realize that he has some friends before you came into the picture.
10.Don't act desperate.You want to attend every function with him, take all his calls and try to control his itinerary.He may get fed up with you very soon.Give him space,let him give you yours.

writer-Praise George.

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This also applies to single guys