bdchange:
I believed sex should be enjoyed between both parties involved, so discuss with him why you can't have it everyday like he wanted it. He has high sexual urge but he should be reasonable with his sexual partner so that both can come to concord on how to go about it. It shouldn't be done in a selfish manner.

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

noisy45:


Stop feeding him foods that increases sexual urge and libido

humilitypays:
Why must they complain

twice a month is okay for married couples....they should devote their time to other things of life, life for a married couple is not just about sex.....if there are kids, let them devote more time to playing with their kids....teaching their kids computer appreciation, how to paint, and other stuffs.....people are making sex sound too much of a big deal....something they have been having since they were teenagers, na wa o

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

sassysure:

[s]A friend is in this shit. More than 10yrs of marriage.
She cried out after like 6yrs of bondage. The worst thing is that if a situation calls for them being separate for some time, he will find relief elsewhere. Once she comes back from hospital after delivery, he will continue pounding her without mercy. When her mum visited for the first òmùgwò, she noticed and approached her but she was being a good wife and denied. Her biggest mistake and regret.

Her vaginal walls don't have feelings anymore. She is constantly dry. She don't have sexual feelings anymore.
Nothing entices her again as far as making love is concerned.

The only exception is during menses but not always.

Babe, talk to your people probably your mum. She is in the best position to protect and fight for u.
I honestly don't have a clue except this.[/s]

bdchange:
I believed sex should be enjoyed between both parties involved, so discuss with him why you can't have it everyday like he wanted it. He has high sexual urge but he should be reasonable with his sexual partner so that both can come to concord on how to go about it. It shouldn't be done in a selfish manner.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Unik3030:
u are not willing to give it to him everytime despite d fact u are married....hope if he seeks solace outside u won't complain oooo.cos it's like not giving someone enough food n still telling him not to get it outside

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

domino4211:

Some people are born with a higher sex drive.
Doesn't make them abnormal.

sassysure:

It's not advisable to live with that. At first ladies see this as form of showing affection and continue to enable it so to pull out is now problem.

I don't know about others and I don't lack self esteem but I will never allow a man to pound me more than twice a week. We check out this before saying I do.
That's part of compatibility.
If we can't agree on that, all man go his way. Can't continue doing something I don't enjoy. men like that have high sexual hormones. They should learn how to masturbate, get fulfilment from mouth action or even bang sex doll and leave me alone. I didn't come to this world to rump everyday.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh!

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Lizboh:




My sister, some of us are having the same experience. I've been married to my husband for the past 20yrs, and its sex sex everyday except on my period. We've had series of issues because of it but oga no gree change. Most times I start fights because I don't want to do but he will still come for it. What I've doing for more than 2yrs now is just to lay back and allow him do what he want without participating ( he no kuku dey mind again)..I also pretend to sleep when he is doing it. Most people here will not understand what you are going through, just learn to live with it. Thats my own advise

etimcash:
Engaged your husband on a three day marathon sex, make sure he is tired after that don't let him rest ,pretend as if you love sex so.much.your husband will give you chance.is because you beg him he feel is on top of the world. ''life teach us that when ever you run or fear someone the person will always look for your trouble. But the day you retaliate he will learn to give you respect'' no man can withstand any women over sex except she is not in love or ready for.

LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh!

Futurejoy:

I am not saying they should have sex everyday, the woman may be exaggerating. I am saying she should be grateful cos she can work her way round it. I hope you will have the same energy to join her in prayer when her next thread states that the man has started walking upandan