Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

bam

Eat bananas always it will improve your sex drive and make you ovulate well

My wife does nor deny me sex but after 3 child births, I discovered that I vagina is not as tight as before. Furthermore she has become too churchy and she refuses me sex a lot. We used to have argument. Later I found myself a sidebae. Her pussy is tight and she gives me good sex. Nowadays months will go without me asking for sex from my wife and If I eventually have sex, it is just to fulfil righteousness. Mind you, I don't hate my wife, in fact I love her extremely. But men should enjoy sex with women without guilt. Inside the grave there is no sex. As for you complaining about everyday sex, all I can say is don't complain when the man eventually leaves u for someone who can supply his demands. It is not blackmail. It is pure action and reaction.

Buy him a pocket puzzy... Simple

See where thread don reach bc of sex matter.

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

Single Mother advice!
You don hear'am.

Equal2DeTask:






Your husband na my type....


You said he is a good man, maybe he will listen to you if both of you can decide to be making love like thrice in a week....Talk to him...he is a good man that will understand your feelings and not been selfish ...

3times a week, are u talking of 3rounds a week?

because Av done 6 a day...

on a TM diet...










you don't know what you have until you loose it...
...food for thought...

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

Thank you for this advice. Afterall she is tire,

humilitypays:
it seems you ladies are all pretenders always pretending not to love sex but deep down your hearts you all are sex maniacs just waiting to get official marriage ticket to start fvcking around like rabits


What do u mean they are newlyweds 2 years of fvcking is new to you What's special about sex Can you and those ladies complaining of their husband not touching them for months swear that u ladies haven't been fvcking since you were 18 or 20 or something Are u people not supposed to be tired of it by now Nonsense!

Shift your anger to your president. I don’t have time for a sulking baby

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

Eeya! Tell him to start speaking in tongues when Baba ibeji is already erected
That was on a lighter mode!
Starting from your last statement, you did a mistake by not talking about individuals sex drive while you were courting, we still reflected yesterday about this issue, and that discussion back then is helping us now. I told her am very active but she told me she doesn't fancy sex like that but I love her, so with understanding, we balance things up. But most time when she is not interested, I will just accept it like that, because I believe it's participatory, if she didn't come to the party, it can't be enjoyed so why would I bother myself. I also don't mess around by the reason of spirituality.
So talk to him with sincerity in a way he will understand you and make sure that once in a while without him making an advance towards you, make the first move, it will make the message get to him faster.

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

Op, don't mind this one o. If you really want your marriage to last, pls don't follow his/her advice o!

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

You have spoken like an elder

rtdCivilservant:
Too much sex is stupid, in fact doesn't even make sense, only an abnormal person would do that. Ur husband doesn't even need to be told at least he should know that u are not a machine, why would he always engage u in sex, he lacks respect for u. Please talk to him about it before he kills u with sex because if u die he will look for someone else to continue the rubbish with, u said he is faithful but I seriously doubt it perhaps all the rubbish he's been doing with other stupid girls out there before lockdown he is now giving u the overload due to this lockdown. I am sorry to say this that he is not a responsible man, what sort of rubbish is that?

I must admit that this man hasn't been fair to you. Marriage as it were is beyond sex,sex and sex.Something is really wrong with sleeping with you everyday....I mean everyday.Is it all he thinks?

Please , sit him down and have a solid discussion with him......not necessarily a formal discussion anyway.it could be probably when you think he would be able to listen to you �% .The fact that you are under his roof by Marriage shouldn't be why he must have you in bed every night. That's too bad and it's not a good report on his part. And I'm against those who are asking you to do Thanksgiving for being the only woman he sleeps with everynight. Na handwork?

April 3, 2020 was my 10th Wedding Anniversary.We are blessed with 3 kids and I can tell you that it has never been an issue since inception.

On thing is key...... Understanding.His libido is very high no doubt from your narrative but it still could be worked upon by doing other intimate stuffs that would not necessarily be sex and from there he will gradually put it under control.

I can tell you for free this can threaten your relationship.so you need to pray for guidance and also act now. Remember no hash words but always be romantic until u win him over.

The Lord is your strength and it will end in Praise!

LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh!

Get married first and u will understand the difference.
I do not support extral marital affair but base on statistic higher % of married men cheat.

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

u see how ungrateful some people can be?

I could never marry a woman or (any girl for that fact) that didn't want to have sex with me everyday. Sorry, it's just how it is.

That's why I argue that women ,like animals, are driven by instincts.They don't know what they want ; they follow their instincts.

humilitypays:
it seems you ladies are all pretenders always pretending not to love sex but deep down your hearts you all are sex maniacs just waiting to get official marriage ticket to start fvcking around like rabits


What do u mean they are newlyweds 2 years of fvcking is new to you What's special about sex Can you and those ladies complaining of their husband not touching them for months swear that u ladies haven't been fvcking since you were 18 or 20 or something Are u people not supposed to be tired of it by now Nonsense!

Shift your anger to your president.i don’t have time for a sulking baby

Ishilove:
She is asking for the input of married women especially but it is unmarried males dominating the comments

How would you know if they are mrried or unmarried, when there is no indicative field to click on that?
If you use the sex-type that people put on thier handle to judge their gender, you can never be more wrong!
I know a dozen male here and a few females who are using the wrong gender intentionally.
Maybe they are Homo, who knows.

Futurejoy:

Shift your anger to your president.i don’t have time for a sulking baby

okay

You should thank ur stars that he is not even going outside ur marriage to get it! What u should do is have a heart to heart talk with him and u guys reach a compromise. His libido may be in overdrive while urs is low but u guy shud be able to have a meeting point. Good luck.

You’ve got that yummy yum

Futurejoy:

There is nothing wrong with a man who has been married for less than 2 years demanding for sex everyday from his wife. Did it even occur to you that the man may be trying to get his wife pregnant so they can raise a family. Oga, it is very normal. If I were to be the man, I will demand everyday

okay

Op, if you have the mind and courage try this. Don't wait for him to ask for it. Just continue giving him sex weda he wants it or not for like 3,4 or 5 days straight. I swear na him go run for sex. But if after this he didn't run, then you know you have a case in a husband

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

I am 99% sure you knew this before you got married to him. Yet you still married him.
How did you plan to cope? I am sure you had a plan, perhaps the plan you had isnt working?
Advice can come in after interrogating your earlier planned coping mechanism.

puffy23:


Get married first and u will understand the difference.
I do not support extral marital affair but base on statistic higher % of married men cheat.

Stop calling it "cheating"!
it is alternative choice and African men especially, are entitled to it.

Romanoff:
I'm not married yet but I'd like to think you're lucky you're the only one he's having sex with.

Maybe now that you know, incorporate other fun activities into your lives that can give you some space.

Maybe binge watch some series, especially during this lockdown.

you are not married, you know very little about her complaint.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

What happens to Blowjab and Handjab? Introduce it into your marraige and make him like it, if you learn to do it well like my girl does to me, sex will be a one in a while thing because these days I prefer it to sex which is too stessful.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

If he does not touch you, you will come here and ask for advice on how to make your husband want you or you will accuse him of cheating.
He is ypour husband and has paid your bride price, why will you even think of denying your husband sex.... I am even suspecting that you are cheating because 2 years is too early to complain that he loves sex.

























If you are really tired of him having sex with you his wife, then bring in a househelp to satisfy his sexual needs snce your duties as his wife are li ited to washing his clothes, cleaning the house and cooking his meals.

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Julietsim:

I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot

I'm also an unmarried guy and as such cant advise you. but i think its better you take it to quora.com you would find people that are married (both male and female) and also matured. also u can hide your identity.