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Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Psoul(m): 8:15am On May 13, 2020 |
rubi96: Continue... Soon you'll be the one disturbing God and Pastors even native doctors up and down asking to know what your crime is that made you to remain single. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by CHoccolaTE: 8:16am On May 13, 2020 |
Obingene: Mr man I am not responsible for your frustration in life, look at the animal throwing curses when I did not even address him. Fool And everything you write to me will return to you and your household, your family your children Foolish he goat |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Nobody: 8:19am On May 13, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: Lol. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by pemzy: 8:58am On May 13, 2020 |
My dear sorry for what you are passing through, I could have asked to hear your husband's side but the truth is that even without hearing his side I can tell he has an ego issue irrespective. You mentioned earlier that your husband has backslidden from God, this is the root cause of the problem because basic true christianity lets you know that in a marriage a man should not always demand an apology for peace to reign whether the wife is right or wrong, secondly even when he gets an apology he should accept it quickly and wholeheartedly and not refer to the issue again. The first solution you have is to pray,pray and pray for your husband that God will touch his heart so that he rekindle that lost relationship with God and love you with the love of God secondly you can call him and tell him how you have been feeling on the way treats you, dont tell him with arrogance pls but as a partner. Try these two things first and I believe it will help. 1 Like |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Nobody: 9:18am On May 13, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: You see, life is not that difficult. I'm glad I brought laughter and smiles to your face, I should send the bill but, this is my contribution to humanity. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by rubi96(f): 11:12am On May 13, 2020 |
Psoul:I won't. If it is not in my destiny to marry, I won't force myself. To each his or her own. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by CHoccolaTE: 12:39pm On May 13, 2020 |
Obingene: Lol |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Chinny024(f): 3:55pm On May 13, 2020 |
...boom!!! that's how mine started showing plentiful wahala...I requested for 2wks night duty...As he's coming back, am on my way to work making sure that his food are well set on the table.....Would have gotten enough time during the day to chill out with my kids... Most times we met at the bustop on my way to work....He had to bath,prepare,and drove them to school in the morning. Only the two weeks morning routine moved his brain to default setting.. Can't come and kill myself.... 10 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Ybaby: 9:31pm On May 13, 2020 |
bukatyne man's finance is the issue |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by nautybride: 6:41am On May 14, 2020 |
PeacenLove2 poster=89450632: Hmmmm! I love this analogy and agree with you on the overzealous part. 1 Like |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by nautybride: 6:46am On May 14, 2020 |
Chinny024: I already like you. Smart woman. Your line of work help to execute this wicked plan . So imagine what some women go through all in the name of marriage. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by nautybride: 6:52am On May 14, 2020 |
[quote author=monerozi5590 post=89460733][/quote] Why the haba na? That sex deprivation caught your attention. Although it might not work because they will start to cheat. Broke cheats and some girls will still follow them. All is complicated joor. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by squad03: 1:37pm On May 14, 2020 |
veave: Exactly! Every woman needs 'vex money' stashed up somewhere.It helps you stay sane and puts off that feeling of near hopelessness that threatens every once in a while. That's the first thing I deduct from my salary o and then regular savings in the kids' names. Take the quoted advice o,stay sane for your kids and bring that beauty back! This too shall pass. 1 Like |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Honesty001: 1:24am On May 15, 2020 |
princessConfy:You are seeing the red flags,you won't adhere to it until it gets late and you start moaning. Cant you see you have financial problems already.He is stingy and hardly released money and that is why he said his ex was disturbing him for money.He doesn't want you to ask him for money the way his ex asked him.He is also unsupportive, insensitive and caring.Haba!your girl visits you and you can't even give her a little cash to show you care. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Honesty001: 1:26am On May 15, 2020 |
spartan117:It is not easy.You need the guidance of the holy spirit to do that. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Honesty001: 1:36am On May 15, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Go and sit down my friend. stop supporting bad behaviour.Even if she is making a billion dollars, that doesn't stop her guy from offering her money,paying for her Uber or cab even if it is small or showing her care. It is up to her to reject it or accept it. The Man is stingy, insensitive and thinks only of himself and that is a red flag. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Honesty001: 1:39am On May 15, 2020 |
princessConfy:You are in trouble o � chai!nna men dey o.Tufiakwa spits! |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by spartan117(m): 10:16am On May 15, 2020 |
Honesty001:Very true. No one can do it without first surrendering his live to the holy spirit. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by fatboyslym007: 3:56pm On May 27, 2020 |
We should be careful of women who says, I didn't insult my husband, I just raised my voice. Christian ladies should know the virtue of submission and gratitude. The day he helped you with the trash, did you say thank you. When the bulb went faulty and he changed it did you call him your hero? He comes home drunk everyday, the day he came home sober, did you hug him? He is jobless is not a death sentence, The day he did an odd job and brought home money, did you rejoice and celebrate him? Even for a man that is 100% the breadwinner, to some wives, he is still not good enough. He's mistakes are unforgivable and his reward is a lifetime of criticism and not been good enough. The reason for submission is to win your man over, the reason for love is to win your woman over. When one is down, both are down, when one seeks vengeance both would be destroyed. Men thrive on praises, it takes a strong man to be strong in criticism, but strength is built... 1 Like |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by pmoye(m): 6:28am On Jun 22, 2020 |
May your wisdom continue to increase! The best way to make the wrong judgement in life is to listen to the woman's side of the story alone. A woman will NEVER tell you anything she has done wrong. Never! In matters like this she will paint the picture of how exemplary she has been and how the man is the devil incarnate. Devil, devil, and you born each other 1 million children! This marriage thing dey fear me self. Perhaps the man is somewhere almost killing himself for his family now, why the wife is silently fantasizing about how to get enough money and run away. Men should really start de-emphasizing marriage; it's more of a scam against men nowadays. Nwodosis: |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by GoldStick(m): 9:29am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Average marriage life especially in Africa because we live without purpose. Every marriage that has this kind prblm na both partner curse am. Christianity just dey confuse us and e don scatter so many things like living together especially in Africa but wen u talk them no go hear them deh claim to know Jesus Christ wen u dont even know about thyselves we have serious marital issues in this part of the world because of our mentality, firstly marriage nobe must, no be do or die affair u try e no work u move with life if you truely know who you are, go thru a self discovery process and u will see clearly that this is not your partner right from the beginning. Will be more understanding to get his own part for the story before judging but from your own side of the story this happens in many homes and this is clearly because you never took the time to know who you wanted to spend your with and that is clearly because you don't even know about yourself, wanting to grow spiritually and a man telling you he will be a pastor is not enough reason to spend your life with him. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Expresswriter: 3:11pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
I hate to be the bearer of bad news. Your husband appears to be a narcissist. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Ejika48(f): 8:58am On Aug 29, 2021 |
Do u need someone to talk to?Are u lonely? Depressed? Is ur marriage not working? Are u at d verge of divorcing it partner? U don't have a child? U need help? Don't worry... Follow @naughtybynaturemii on her live programs and be glad u did. Fuckers pls stay off. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by budusky05(m): 9:29pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Nwodosis: May your days be long. You women fear them when they start providing at home. Honestly fear them. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Heartheart: 12:55pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
MizJaY:your husband is an abusive man. The day he will beat you black blue or u lose one eye it might be too late. What example is your husband giving your sons or daughters?? You need to stand your ground o. Else you’ll keep being miserable. Life is too short to spend the most of it unhappy 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Heartheart: 12:57pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
nnamdibig:she already got hypertension |
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